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Was I A Dick On Valentines Day?
So here's what happened =)
I like this girl that lives in UK, AND she has a bf...
The problem is that we flirt all the time when we talk on msn or whenever we call each other. Oh, and on top of that, I don't think that her bf knows about me. I don't really care that she's seeing someone else either cos I know it's just kinda flirting and I'm pretty sure we'll hook up next time go to there.
so I knew that her bf is kinda a busy person, just from the fact that she has so much time for me, and I knew that he'd either forget about V-day or not plan anything really big, and she kept telling me how he's not very romantic and stuff, so I decided that if he's not something and she's not happy with it, I should do it.
I decided to fly out to England... No, just kididng =)
I decided to send her flowers... Now, for those who don't know me, I'm a very tactical person and I'm very very thorough with things when I put my mind to it. The flowers that I sent her, I made sure that there were a lot of them, and the reason I decided to send her 3 dozen roses was for the following reason; I knew the guy would either not get her flowers, or if he did it would just be a single rose. and I didn't get that many roses so that she would see that I'm the "better" guy, but I got it more for the reason to piss him off. I personally think that the plan was really good, but I was just being a bit of a jerk =/
Oh, the best part is that she knew that only 3 people would send her flowers, her dad, her bf or me... Obviously I had forgotten to put my name on the card, so she didn't know whom they were from and she called her bf first to see if he had sent her flowers... you can only imagine how pissed he was when he found out that someone else got her flowers =)
I like this girl that lives in UK, AND she has a bf...
The problem is that we flirt all the time when we talk on msn or whenever we call each other. Oh, and on top of that, I don't think that her bf knows about me. I don't really care that she's seeing someone else either cos I know it's just kinda flirting and I'm pretty sure we'll hook up next time go to there.
so I knew that her bf is kinda a busy person, just from the fact that she has so much time for me, and I knew that he'd either forget about V-day or not plan anything really big, and she kept telling me how he's not very romantic and stuff, so I decided that if he's not something and she's not happy with it, I should do it.
I decided to fly out to England... No, just kididng =)
I decided to send her flowers... Now, for those who don't know me, I'm a very tactical person and I'm very very thorough with things when I put my mind to it. The flowers that I sent her, I made sure that there were a lot of them, and the reason I decided to send her 3 dozen roses was for the following reason; I knew the guy would either not get her flowers, or if he did it would just be a single rose. and I didn't get that many roses so that she would see that I'm the "better" guy, but I got it more for the reason to piss him off. I personally think that the plan was really good, but I was just being a bit of a jerk =/
Oh, the best part is that she knew that only 3 people would send her flowers, her dad, her bf or me... Obviously I had forgotten to put my name on the card, so she didn't know whom they were from and she called her bf first to see if he had sent her flowers... you can only imagine how pissed he was when he found out that someone else got her flowers =)
Comments
Stop going for a girl who has a boyfriend; it's in every way wrong.
You know you're doing something wrong and you're still doing it, according to your quote. That's even worse.
And it seemed like they were in an alright relationship too, at least what I felt was implied in your story.
Yes, you were.
Sorry if I sounded harsh, but what you're doing is wrong.
Sucks you forgot to include your name though
so the guy might not like someone sending flowers to his gf.. that's a reality check for him that there are plenty of fishes in the sea.. if you take a girl or anyone for granted.. chances are they aren't going to stick around..
Plus, sure V-Day is a bit of a commercialism day, if you don't want to celebrate that, so be it. But don't forget about it? Whats next, anniversary? Birthdays?
btw fwiw, I wouldn't feel threatened by someone overseas, but thats just me.
Even if the girl was flirting, it's still a dick move.
but then again this is coming from a guy who homewrecks.
Guess everyone approves of homewrecking...
Gosh, where are the morals these days!
She obviously doesnt like her current boyfriend much if shes flirting back with this guy.
On the other hand, planning to hook up with someone inspite of the fact they are with someone is kinda douchey, but you can be no more than 33-50% to blame, theres two other people involved.
I mean, I know I'm wrecking a home, but who's to say that he's the right one for her anyway?
I don't believe in first come first serve for relationships... I believe in being with the better person...
If she is to be with you rather than her current boyfriend. She will most likely leave you for someone else.
YOU believe in being with the right person? What the hell does that have to do with pissing off her bf? Why are you doing something that you know is wrong?
Nobody is to say who is right for her except her self (which I stated earlier).
So with your theory of the better person: You would be okay if were married to a girl for 40 years and she suddenly finds a 'better person' and divorces you for him? I mean, he is the 'better person' in her eyes.