So with your theory of the better person: You would be okay if were married to a girl for 40 years and she suddenly finds a 'better person' and divorces you for him? I mean, he is the 'better person' in her eyes.
That might be exactly what some guys want. Don't need to do anything directly to get rid of their current girl, so that they can find a fresh younger one.
and I didn't get that many roses so that she would see that I'm the "better" guy, but I got it more for the reason to piss him off.
You didnt seem to send the flowers for the right reasons, which you said in the quote i put above. You did it to piss him off. You've made it about you and him, and the girl herself doesnt really matter to you it seems.
I think it was very mean what you did. Dont be a homewrecker. If she doesnt like him and hes not right for her, thats for her to decide, not you. Dont go around trying to break people up because you think that hes not right for her.
Just imagine if some guy did that to you and your gf. I doubt that you would be happy about it.
You didnt seem to send the flowers for the right reasons, which you said in the quote i put above. You did it to piss him off. You've made it about you and him, and the girl herself doesnt really matter to you it seems.
I think it was very mean what you did. Dont be a homewrecker. If she doesnt like him and hes not right for her, thats for her to decide, not you. Dont go around trying to break people up because you think that hes not right for her.
Just imagine if some guy did that to you and your gf. I doubt that you would be happy about it.
she's back!
by the way, i'm extending you an invitation to our talksfu meet up.
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I think it was very mean what you did. Dont be a homewrecker. If she doesnt like him and hes not right for her, thats for her to decide, not you. Dont go around trying to break people up because you think that hes not right for her.
Just imagine if some guy did that to you and your gf. I doubt that you would be happy about it.
by the way, i'm extending you an invitation to our talksfu meet up.
I dont know when it is either and cant be bothered to look through 11 or so pages of that other thread to find the date and time.