HAHA! Everyone has their days :P But I really do wonder sometimes... meh!
hahah ya u gotta take those thoughts, lock em in a box and throw that bitch in the ocean :P
imo from what you've said, if u give guys too much then why would they wanna be in a relationship if they already get all the perks :P maybe thats not the case since i dono you nor really wanna know what u do behind closed doors (or public spaces, depending on how adventurous u are)
or maybe ur just picky when it comes to guys for which i wouldnt blame ya since im picky as fuck when it comes to girls lol
I am genuinely confused as to why so many posters want to fuck virgins. Randomuser: You cite their greater willingness to try new stuff, but wouldn't an experienced, imaginative, and communicative partner be better in that regard?
If the other three of you are also female then my best guess is that the guy being inexperienced makes him nonthreatening and puts you in a position of authority. If you're guys then I guess it must have something to do with being territorial and preferring your partner to lie completely still in the missionary position while quietly weeping.
I am genuinely confused as to why so many posters want to fuck virgins. Randomuser: You cite their greater willingness to try new stuff, but wouldn't an experienced, imaginative, and communicative partner be better in that regard?
If the other three of you are also female then my best guess is that the guy being inexperienced makes him nonthreatening and puts you in a position of authority. If you're guys then I guess it must have something to do with being territorial and preferring your partner to lie completely still in the missionary position while quietly weeping.
It's the feeling that I'm doing something I've never done before. I've never been with a virgin, even though it's always been something I've wanted to try.
ladies, lets not give half the forum too much false hope lol
but having said that, id love to date/fuck a virgin too haha
Maybe they like the 'deflowering' aspect... makes them feel naughty :tongue: You know... as the CS boys have noted... more than 40% are virgins :angel:
The problem is that virgins/CS people are not just regular people who happen to be virgins/major in CS. There is usually something behind their situation.
For example, I've been the the CS common room a few times and people there just won't make eye contact with you. I actually tried.
The problem is that virgins/CS people are not just regular people who happen to be virgins/major in CS. There is usually something behind their situation.
For example, I've been the the CS common room a few times and people there just won't make eye contact with you. I actually tried.
I think you mean bad social skills. The geeky majors are all that.
I'm sorry, why wasn't I informed of this before I was gay???
cuz its a load of bs :P i bet it would be fun for them for like the first 5mins then they would get frustrated with the armature and go rant about how bad he was on talkSFU, compare him to some other guy they did that was well experienced etc. etc.
cuz its a load of bs :P i bet it would be fun for them for like the first 5mins then they would get frustrated with the armature and go rant about how bad he was on talkSFU, compare him to some other guy they did that was well experienced etc. etc.
Sex is like a restaurant - you get what you order. In other words, like any other activity it can have a clearly defined purpose and parameters, or can osmose those from your subconscious.
Sex doesn't beget feelings, but is begotten by them (no pun intended). The most sex can do is illuminate the feelings that are already there, or are in the process of forming. So if you feel like bolting for the door after, it's probably because you've felt like that (or were going to) before, and the act merely amplified those feelings to the point of being noticeable.
What the hell is this shit even supposed to mean. I'm pretty sure that if (for instance) the guy "accidentally" tries to get in the back door instead of the front more than once in the same night that might "beget" some feelings. Similarly if the girls cries out the wrong name, which turns out to be her father's. Guy might have felt fine before but I imagine that some brand new feelings are begotten of that experience. I apologize if this is some actual claim that you have some evidence for, but it reads like psychobabble at the moment. Especially given the overwhelming evidence that everything we feel is effected by external factors. Correct me if I'm wrong.
LOL - the restaurant comparison is a joke, clearly ;-)
You make some excellent points, however they are outliers or "extreme examples." Clearly we are affected by external factors, but the effect those factors have on us is often (not always) determinable (note the case) prior to the event. This is essentially a nature vs. nurture question, in that the same situation may affect two different sets of people quite differently.
I believe the original post did not refer to a specific instance where the guy tried to do something other than what is expected. The original question seems to relate to "sex" generally in the experience of that particular individual.
You make some excellent points, however they are outliers or "extreme examples." Clearly we are affected by external factors, but the effect those factors have on us is often (not always) determinable (note the case) prior to the event.
some evidence that the term "outliers" is at all appropriate here please tia
Ok fine, I used the term colloquially, though "extreme examples" should cover that.
Outlier is a person or a thing excluded from a group, or, in statistics, a data point on a graph or in a set of results that is very much bigger or smaller than the next nearest data point.
So yes, the my usage of the term vis-a-vis its statistics definition is a little sloppy, though the first definition fits. The two people you've described SHOULD be excluded from an answer to that particular question for reasons already stated.
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imo from what you've said, if u give guys too much then why would they wanna be in a relationship if they already get all the perks :P
maybe thats not the case since i dono you nor really wanna know what u do behind closed doors (or public spaces, depending on how adventurous u are)
or maybe ur just picky when it comes to guys for which i wouldnt blame ya since im picky as fuck when it comes to girls lol
i guess some girls just want a good screwing:teeth:
but having said that, id love to date/fuck a virgin too haha
If the other three of you are also female then my best guess is that the guy being inexperienced makes him nonthreatening and puts you in a position of authority. If you're guys then I guess it must have something to do with being territorial and preferring your partner to lie completely still in the missionary position while quietly weeping.
Hence the term, making love.
So there should never be an expression like sex > love.
When you are talking about loving someone but the sex is not so great... you obviously don't love them as a mate. You love them as a friend.
You know... as the CS boys have noted... more than 40% are virgins :angel:
For example, I've been the the CS common room a few times and people there just won't make eye contact with you. I actually tried.
i bet it would be fun for them for like the first 5mins then they would get frustrated with the armature and go rant about how bad he was on talkSFU, compare him to some other guy they did that was well experienced etc. etc.
I'm lacking in the sex department at the moment,
textbook sex doesn't count according to my standards
..or maybe "textbook sex" as in regular, not-kinky sex?
.. or are you paying your tutor for some extra services on the side?
and three virgin girls you say? WHERE?
i need some fun
... i guess its a self esteem thing =P JOKING =P
Sex doesn't beget feelings, but is begotten by them (no pun intended). The most sex can do is illuminate the feelings that are already there, or are in the process of forming. So if you feel like bolting for the door after, it's probably because you've felt like that (or were going to) before, and the act merely amplified those feelings to the point of being noticeable.
You make some excellent points, however they are outliers or "extreme examples." Clearly we are affected by external factors, but the effect those factors have on us is often (not always) determinable (note the case) prior to the event. This is essentially a nature vs. nurture question, in that the same situation may affect two different sets of people quite differently.
I believe the original post did not refer to a specific instance where the guy tried to do something other than what is expected. The original question seems to relate to "sex" generally in the experience of that particular individual.
Outlier is a person or a thing excluded from a group, or, in statistics, a data point on a graph or in a set of results that is very much bigger or smaller than the next nearest data point.
So yes, the my usage of the term vis-a-vis its statistics definition is a little sloppy, though the first definition fits. The two people you've described SHOULD be excluded from an answer to that particular question for reasons already stated.
Picky! I like that ;-)
Cheers,
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