I was drinking with my friends last weekend and there were a few girls there...one of em was a little more into the casual sex than the others I guess because she was basically making out (and getting felt up) by two guys that were there. At the end of the night they basically took turns having sex with each other....I'm guessing they enjoyed it, but I was kind of disgusted by that girl and deleted her off my facebook. Casual sex is ok as long as no ones getting hurt but I don't like whores.
Casual sex is ok as long as no ones getting hurt but I don't like whores.
This is arbitrary and stupid. If everyone's agreed to couple rounds of tag-teaming and having a grand old time what's the problem? The only sensible objection to casual/anonymous sex is the issue of STD safety, and even in that case getting it on with two people in one night isn't really worse than getting it on with two different people on two consecutive nights, which it sounds like everyone is okay with.
Also hello again everyone, did you miss me? You know you did.
Did you delete both of the guys, or did you know them?
I would like to know the answer to this one as well...it seems to me that good old double standard is still in play. If you are a girl who has casual sex your a whore, if your a guy who has casual sex your a god!
No one wants to date a virgin but everyone wants to marry one.
I think that girl is better off not having you as a friend!
I would like to know the answer to this one as well...it seems to me that good old double standard is still in play. If you are a girl who has casual sex your a whore, if your a guy who has casual sex your a god!
i believe anyone is perceived as a whore if you have casual sex.. girl or guy.. but then again.. casual sex is more of a personal choice so i don't see why or what place double standards come into play.. what's there to judge? (bedroom skills aside)
taradaisy;51882 said:
No one wants to date a virgin but everyone wants to marry one.
hahaha.. i don't know about this one.. personally i wouldn't want to get married..
No one wants to date a virgin but everyone wants to marry one.
I wouldn't mind dating a virgin. Atleast they'll have a good teacher.. haha.
I sure as hell wouldn't want to marry one. I'd expect to be having some crazy sex before we got married. And if you did get married to a virgin, what happens if the sex life just sucks?!? You're pretty much saying goodbye to your marriage. It's like driving a car; you need to testdrive it before buying. ;)
What I wouldn't do to date/fuck a virgin. The funny thing is that there are hardly any attractive guy virgins out there. And settling with unattractive guy virgins is just so..disappointing.
At any rate, I wouldn't trade the type of closeness with my boyfriend for any type of casual sex.
Unless it's casual sex with a cop. I have a thing for authoritative figures.
I like having sex with virgins, this one guy was really inexperienced and I could get him to do things other guys wouldn't do.
like what? get the showover with in record time? lol
randomuser;51913 said:
Its not even necessarily taking advantage or doings bad things...
Just some guys are so set in their ways of doing things that they think girls like, that we really just don't.
That said, inexperienced guys can be really passive and sometimes you just want someone to take control.
ya i agree with u, virgins can be cool if they actually wanna play and lean, but others are just so passive and boring, and worse some are insecure as shit which is a massive buzz kill, also there are the clingy ones that are a whole other story...
then again, i know chicks who were supposedly good in bed, but when it came down to it, were actually insecure and passive/boring..
IMO in the end tho i think its all the same, it dosnt really matter if their virgins or not, it all comes down to motivation and both guys/girls should not be going backwards in relationships nor settle for a partner thats less then what the best they've had
I wouldn't mind dating a virgin. Atleast they'll have a good teacher.. haha.
I sure as hell wouldn't want to marry one. I'd expect to be having some crazy sex before we got married. And if you did get married to a virgin, what happens if the sex life just sucks?!? You're pretty much saying goodbye to your marriage. It's like driving a car; you need to testdrive it before buying. ;)
what happened to "if the feelings are strong enough..." does that not apply to sexual experience? Just wondering.
what happened to "if the feelings are strong enough..." does that not apply to sexual experience? Just wondering.
Yes, but sex is such a huge part of married life, in my opinion. A life without sex would be tragic. Have you seen how many marriages fail due to lack of sex??!
what happened to "if the feelings are strong enough..." does that not apply to sexual experience? Just wondering.
i dont see why a girl should have to settle for a guy that cant satisfy her... i mean ya he can be sweet as hell and she can be madly in love with him but if he cant deliver physically then why should she stick around? aren't actions > words
i dont see why a girl should have to settle for a guy that cant satisfy her... i mean ya he can be sweet as hell and she can be madly in love with him but if he cant deliver physically then why should she stick around? aren't actions > words
well then it should go the other way too, which brings us back to the subject in that other thread:smile:
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Sex with an agenda = O-so-fucking-fantastic.
And this is why I don't have a facebook account.
Also hello again everyone, did you miss me? You know you did.
No one wants to date a virgin but everyone wants to marry one.
I think that girl is better off not having you as a friend!
@ferrous: yes.. you were sorely missed.. :tongue:
I sure as hell wouldn't want to marry one. I'd expect to be having some crazy sex before we got married. And if you did get married to a virgin, what happens if the sex life just sucks?!? You're pretty much saying goodbye to your marriage. It's like driving a car; you need to testdrive it before buying. ;)
Just some guys are so set in their ways of doing things that they think girls like, that we really just don't.
That said, inexperienced guys can be really passive and sometimes you just want someone to take control.
At any rate, I wouldn't trade the type of closeness with my boyfriend for any type of casual sex.
Unless it's casual sex with a cop. I have a thing for authoritative figures.
ya i agree with u,
virgins can be cool if they actually wanna play and lean, but others are just so passive and boring, and worse some are insecure as shit which is a massive buzz kill, also there are the clingy ones that are a whole other story...
then again, i know chicks who were supposedly good in bed, but when it came down to it, were actually insecure and passive/boring..
IMO in the end tho i think its all the same, it dosnt really matter if their virgins or not, it all comes down to motivation
and both guys/girls should not be going backwards in relationships nor settle for a partner thats less then what the best they've had
I've had good dates and bonds with guys, and one time this guy had a tiny tiny tiny penis...
I really couldn't go on at that point, he was nice, but it was just too small. I'm not saying that size matters, but it was grotesque.
i mean ya he can be sweet as hell and she can be madly in love with him but if he cant deliver physically then why should she stick around?
aren't actions > words
Sex is a basic human function that needs to be satisfied. And if the guy isn't satisfying her, he can GTFO.
In my opinion at least.
Maybe this is why I'm still single.
for example
spitters are quitters :teeth: sucky for u =p
Sometimes love just isn't enough.
uve gone on in a few threads with the general message of "oh why am i still signle"
haha im just buggin u tho