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A girl asked me to party this weekend
It turns out this girl, we'll call her Tiffany, invited me to this party on saturday that her friend Melanie is hosting. Well I'm kind of into this girl, and I want to go but theres a few problems:
1) I've never drank, nor do I really have big intentions to
2) I'm athletic, and if I would get caught, I'd probably get in huge trouble with that. I also have a wrestling meet this weekend, which determines if we go to the tournament in kelowna or not(basically the playoffs).
I guess all I'm asking of you guys is to give me some of your thoughts about pros/cons of drinking in university, and how women can influence it.
1) I've never drank, nor do I really have big intentions to
2) I'm athletic, and if I would get caught, I'd probably get in huge trouble with that. I also have a wrestling meet this weekend, which determines if we go to the tournament in kelowna or not(basically the playoffs).
I guess all I'm asking of you guys is to give me some of your thoughts about pros/cons of drinking in university, and how women can influence it.
Comments
Besides, if she asks, just be real with her, and tell her why you can't drink. If she's the type to think that drinking = cool, then you'll probably have a few more things to learn about her.
I drank a lot in late highschool, but I haven't touched the stuff in years. I still have a lot of fun at parties and hanging out with friends, even if everyone else is drinking but me. What you put in your body is your business, especially if you are making a choice that will help you to be a better athlete, and you don't owe any further explaination apart from "nope, I don't drink".
Like ShadySimon said, you are old enough to make decisions for yourself. Plus if this girl gets all weird by you not drinking, then she's probably not as great as you think anyway.
just strike up a convo with the girl, and tell her somethin like i'll treat u to coffee for missin the party the other day
ur overthinkin if u say she's not gonna talk to ya again