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Dating Tips
Hi,
what are the best things to do when dating a girl the first time? And what are the absolute DONT's? I think that when dating a girl you should leave your college life away so DO NOT talk about college.. show some interest in her and try to be original and nice.
I would like to know from you what are further tips useful to be successful in a dating :D thank you!
what are the best things to do when dating a girl the first time? And what are the absolute DONT's? I think that when dating a girl you should leave your college life away so DO NOT talk about college.. show some interest in her and try to be original and nice.
I would like to know from you what are further tips useful to be successful in a dating :D thank you!
Comments
Girls want to know how you think and if you have compatible interests. Talk about things that interest you and then ask her opinion. And then listen to what she has to say. I'd stay away from stereotypical guy topics, like sports and cars, unless she indicates a genuine interest.
I wouldn't worry too much about being original. That sounds more like a script or routine than getting to know you conversation. But yes, be nice. And don't comment, look at or otherwise attend to other girls while you're with her.
Then, when you're ready ask that special girl out for coffee and see what happens. But, always keep it real.
Just ask her if she has any hobbies, what kind of movies she likes, etc. Talking about college is a great source of topics - you can talk about current classes, majors, exactly HOW many papers you're dreading doing and such :D
Have fun, be yourself and don't stress out on it.
but of course if ur naturally sweet and charming u got it made:)
Do be yourself
Do talk about common ground
Do open doors for the lady
Do pick up the tab
Don't chew with your mouth open
Don't try to fondle everything on the first date
Don't talk politics or religion
Don't talk about other girls
Don't watch the TV at the restaurant
Don't tell off colored jokes
Just a few suggestions. The key to a good date is to enjoy yourself and to enjoy the company you are with.
Don't be arrogant
Be confident (not arrogant)
Don't talk down
Smile as much as possible
Act a little bit nervous most girls like that I've noticed
Don't assume you're going to have sex
Be nice.