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Asian guy looking to get to know a caucasian girl=)

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  • edited July 2009
    took me some time tbh
  • edited July 2009
    it is ok dude,when you go to the profile it is a guy not a girl?
  • edited July 2009
    Hope_2016;58832 said:
    Thanks for your attempt in explaining to the kids...
    I need this translated. Any multilingual in the house?
  • edited July 2009
    daammn..i wanted to see the craigslist post...but it says it was removed by the author lol

    what was the height he posted?? lemme guess...shorter than 5'6''?

    plus, i dint think he'd be back for more...
  • edited July 2009
    hey geogeek,yah this site is good for laughs,i won't be posting no more as craigslist is more for the dating scene so i will try my luck on there. Funny that guy said i kinda look like jet li,that is hilarious but what is funny why does he have a girls name? Is he gay?

    Anyways have fun on this sfu fourm,thanks for the fun laughs,
  • edited July 2009
    sfuasianboy;58852 said:
    hey geogeek,yah this site is good for laughs,i won't be posting no more as craigslist is more for the dating scene so i will try my luck on there. Funny that guy said i kinda look like jet li,that is hilarious but what is funny why does he have a girls name? Is he gay?

    Anyways have fun on this sfu fourm,thanks for the fun laughs,
    really? craigslist = dating scene? seriously? or am i missing the point here..:confused: somebody please clarify..
  • edited July 2009
    that guy is WACK
  • edited July 2009
    craigslist is NOT for dating...LOL

    There are tons of hookers/escorts posting that they're looking for love...but once they pull a dollar amount, u know whats up...
  • edited July 2009
    You are right geogeek it is not the best site,but there are not many sites out there unless you know any other ways to meet people?
  • edited July 2009
    I have tryed in person from school friends everything,when it comes down to it finding someone who wants a relationship and is not into headgames is a difficult task. Does anyone know any good places to get a good airconditioner?
  • edited July 2009
    Hey, if you can't get a girlfriend, an air conditioner is the next best thing. Right?
  • edited July 2009
    @sfuasianboy

    Honestly, the best way to meet poeple is to go out and meet them. Nothing is instantanious, but, given time and effort, you will eventually find something worthwhile.

    It can't be that hard to figure out. Wasting time here on this forum won't get you closer to your goal, especially with weather this nice. All the pretty girls, if not participating in this forum, are downtown or at the beach.

    Robson street would be a good place to start. Head down to English bay after. Lots of girls; uber spectacular white girls just like you specified earlier.
  • edited July 2009
    try in person...thru friends...when ur going out...i mean, ur a real estate agent, u dont go thru a day without talking to someone...i wouldnt imagine this part being hard for you.
  • edited July 2009
    yah well the thing is this,i have talked to many white girls and we have hanged out as friends but when it comes to a relationship most say i'm a nice guy but they are not attracted to asian guys in a romantic way and most just want to keep me as a friend? Any suggestions how to deal with that,they always say i have nice qualities as a guy but they are just not attracted to asian guys and prefer caucasian guys?

    If you guys have any pointers on that,i would appreciate it,thanks
  • edited July 2009
    I have tryed both ways online dating and also meeting girls through friendsor a friends party from school work but i just need some pointers on that situation when they say they like me as a friend but won't take it any further cause they have there own nationality preference for dating. I understand everyone is attracted to certain races.
  • edited July 2009
    You never explained why ;)
  • edited July 2009
    All kidding aside with sfuasian boy, I'm not sure if you really know why you're attracted to certain cultures/not attracted to others. I'm not attracted to Asian men at all and I have no idea why, but I do have a few friends who are and similarly they can't explain why.
  • edited July 2009
    Hey nicole,i saw your pics and i have to say you are a beautiful girl and i read couple of your posts about you being only attracted to white guys. Honestly i don't know how to answer your question. It started in high school i have nothing against asian woman,i know some who only date white guys as that is there choice and such. I'm definately not into dark skin so like persian spanish black east indian i don't find tham attrcative,i would keep tham as friends but not long term material.

    White girls in my opinion are just breathtaking,they have beautiful facial features,skin,nice body and most i find very smart and a great personlaity to go with there looks and how can you forget there differnt eye color.

    I guess i'm not the typical guys in vancouver,i'm not huge on the party scene and stuff,i work 2 jobs so most of the time if i do go out with friends it is just regular friends activities,other than that i do enjoy my time at home and stuff.

    It is tough to find white girls who like asian guys or asian culture but i know in due time i will find my match.

    Anyways take care nicole and would you mind if i added you to msn sometime to chat on msn?
  • edited July 2009
    ROFL
  • edited July 2009
    Thanks sfuasianboy (= I don't use MSN though. Good luck on your search!
  • edited July 2009
    aights thanks nicole and good luck if you have a bf or on your search finding a bf=) You seem like a nice girl,enjoy your rest of your day
  • edited July 2009
    nicole;58876 said:
    Thanks sfuasianboy (= I don't use MSN though. Good luck on your search!
    REJECTED

    Nah, I'm sorry. Mocking people is a favourite past time here at SFU.

    Anywho, why not just get out there and have fun? Meet people without the intention of looking for a relationship. I'm sure there are girls that will come along and like you for who you are, not what you represent. Go out with your friends and have fun. Experience some things so you can have interesting stories to tell and share. Don't go up to a Caucasian girl and tell her you're a nice guy and want to have babies with her, show her that you're fun to be around with.

    You're only 28 and still very young. You have well over 40+ years to look for a Caucasian girl. Don't waste your youth stressing over a relationship with some Caucasian girl. I'm only 20 and I could care less about a relationship right now. I'm in University studying with some great people, I'm in a band and I'm able to enjoy my passion for music with others who are just as passionate. Sure a lot of my evening plans fall through and I ended up alone, but I still get out there and explore the nature of BC. Those make for some interesting stories and I've met a few great people along the way as well.

    Show that you're an interesting and fun person to be around with through your actions and experience, not through your words. If a Caucasian girl won't date you because you're Asian, well that's too bad for her. She's missing out.

    Anyways, that's all I have to say. I know you're probably a social person and loves to meet people, but asking them for their MSN right away is kind of a bad start.

    Good luck.

    Also remember, do what you want, and what makes you happy. Don't do things because your parents says so, or what the media or what society tells you. Fuck the status quo and do what you want. Don't listen to anyone. I've been doubted numerous times and I always come back to prove them wrong.
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    edited July 2009
    Ether;58865 said:
    Hey, if you can't get a girlfriend, an air conditioner is the next best thing. Right?
    well they are both good at blowing!
    Hey-Oh!
    sfuasianboy;58874 said:
    Hey nicole,i saw your pics and i have to say you are a beautiful girl and i read couple of your posts about you being only attracted to white guys. Honestly i don't know how to answer your question. It started in high school i have nothing against asian woman,i know some who only date white guys as that is there choice and such. I'm definately not into dark skin so like persian spanish black east indian i don't find tham attrcative,i would keep tham as friends but not long term material.

    White girls in my opinion are just breathtaking,they have beautiful facial features,skin,nice body and most i find very smart and a great personlaity to go with there looks and how can you forget there differnt eye color.

    I guess i'm not the typical guys in vancouver,i'm not huge on the party scene and stuff,i work 2 jobs so most of the time if i do go out with friends it is just regular friends activities,other than that i do enjoy my time at home and stuff.

    It is tough to find white girls who like asian guys or asian culture but i know in due time i will find my match.

    Anyways take care nicole and would you mind if i added you to msn sometime to chat on msn?
    you sound like a super desperate creep. Step one to meeting girls: stop being a desperate creep
  • edited July 2009
    I agree agentbob i am almsot the same as you,i don't do what people tell me to do. Anyways thanks for the advice,i'm just going to see what happens and meet new people and take it day by day.

    Nicole doesn't like asian guys so don't worry lol,i was only asking her if she wanted to chat on msn. She likes white guys so that is kool. Good luck in your bad

    Anyways have a great day dude!
  • edited July 2009
    go pick up a random girl at a bar or something
  • edited July 2009
    Damn. How many times do you have to say you're a nice dude, don't party/drink/do drugs, etc..

    Anyway, I'm sure Vancouver has certain places where Caucasian chicks are available... for a certain price. You know what I'm saying. Give it a try and figure out if this is only a fetish or not. I'm sure it wouldn't hurt.
  • edited July 2009
    maybe that's why he isn't scoring the white girls.. the fact that he doesn't party/drink/do drugs.. although the last point is optional.. something to reflect upon asianboy..
  • edited July 2009
    IVT;58881 said:
    well they are both good at blowing!
    Hey-Oh!



    you sound like a super desperate creep. Step one to meeting girls: stop being a desperate creep
    He also sounds like the most boring motherfucker ever.

    Step 2: Stop being a boring motherfucker.


    "I'm a nice guy."

    Translation: Please walk the fuck all over me.
  • edited July 2009
    date.ca or match.com? There's an ad for that on msn every now and then.

    or... you need to go out more....

    I ain't gonna lie... I met my bf over plentyoffish.. 2 years strong and talks on getting married someday. You just need to know how to pick them. Luckily I didn't choose a pyscho :)
  • edited July 2009
    SpectreFire;58888 said:
    He also sounds like the most boring motherfucker ever.

    Step 2: Stop being a boring motherfucker.


    "I'm a nice guy."

    Translation: Please walk the fuck all over me.
    zing!

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