Can you just tell the others there's no chance I'll ever come back (especially after all this. I checked the TalkSFU forum and there's like, 2 more threads about this?!)
If this whole "stalking summerheaven" thing is "not a big deal" and I'm just "overreacting" to you guys, then everyone should just let it go. Sure, this was just a joke that I was only slightly annoyed at at first, but now it's become some really creepy and weird issue.
As for Student's departure, that's not any of my business since I'm not connected to Student in any way. It was his decision. About his mod powers, I'm sure you can solve this quickly and easily if you just send Simon an email instead of making a thread about this. I think the other mods can only close threads and stuff, they can't do much else.
Actually, We've only made 1 thread about this, and it didn't even concern SH. The only person that did the stalking is Student, who left the forum, and whom she isn't even pissed off at. She doesn't even understand that we want her to come back, and that nobody is 'stalking' her besides Student.
and really.. if there's "no chance I'll ever come back" just why the hell are you checking/lurking around the talksfu forum?
and to put you at ease dear.. stalking summerheaven IS NOT a big deal anymore.. what's done is done so let the past stay in the past.. quit making yourself an issue when you aren't one to begin with because there is a term for that.. and it's called attention whoring.. don't make yourself one when there's no reason to...=)
wtf is wrong with you guys? How do you know stalking actually occurred here?
even she put stalking in quotations, all she was irked about was that somebody told everyone her real name, which i doubt anyone even remembers by now. She chose to leave because of that, its her choice....
its not like student sat outside her house wearing night-vision goggles taking pics of her. im sure most of you have creeped facebook at least once. Does that make you a stalker?
This is just an online forum--no one cares much who comes and goes--no one is a celebrity here.
As for the way those two behaved as a result of the situation, it's a bit more dramatic for the likes of me, and I'm glad that they don't frequent here now.
And as for them being attention whores--aren't we just adding oil to fire by making threads and speculating about what went on?
So hopefully this explanation will set all of your curious minds at ease:
1. Some guy joined a forum. 2. Some girl joined a forum. 3. Some other guy revealed her name. 4. Girl is pissed off and leaves. 5. Some guy is penis sad. 6. The other guy apologized. 7. Some guy too penis sad to come back. ~FIN~
Seriously, hope this helps. And hopefully a mod, or Student himself, will lock this thread again.
and really.. if there's "no chance I'll ever come back" just why the hell are you checking/lurking around the talksfu forum?
and to put you at ease dear.. stalking summerheaven IS NOT a big deal anymore.. what's done is done so let the past stay in the past.. quit making yourself an issue when you aren't one to begin with because there is a term for that.. and it's called attention whoring.. don't make yourself one when there's no reason to...=)
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Seriously, if you wanted to leave the forum, just leave. If you never want to come back, then DON'T COME BACK. Why make a point to tell us about it? Apparently summerheaven is under the impression that we give a damn if she's here or not. Why still lurk around and now complain that people are talking about you. People are actually more concerned about Student and his departure, not so much about the loss of summerheaven. If you want to make a point about leaving, GTFO and STFU, and stop being an attention whore.
Can you guys please stand down and ease off? She didn't left the forum just for you guys to make fun of her more than you already did before she left.
Seriously, can you guys please leave her alone and quit bringing her up again?
Look, I am back with a vengence and ready to raise some hell. Let's leave it at that, shall we?
We'd be happy to leave her alone, but she's the one that doesn't seem to want to leave the issue alone. She told Vonnie to give us her "announcement", in what appears to me as a vain attempt at bringing the topic back up. If she didn't want us discussing it, SHE should leave it alone and not play telephone with Vonnie, or lurk around the forum anymore. If you ask me, I think she's loving this.
Wow that comes across as harsh MB. I thought I was harsh and blunt, but "GTFO and STFU" is a whole 'nother level.
SH is playing the victim card. The spotlight wasn't on her to begin with, she just happens to get a mention because we're talking about Student. I agree with MB, making the announcements serves absolutely no purpose, and SH may be getting the wrong idea about these threads.
Seriously, if you wanted to leave the forum, just leave. If you never want to come back, then DON'T COME BACK. Why make a point to tell us about it? Apparently summerheaven is under the impression that we give a damn if she's here or not. Why still lurk around and now complain that people are talking about you. People are actually more concerned about Student and his departure, not so much about the loss of summerheaven. If you want to make a point about leaving, GTFO and STFU, and stop being an attention whore.
ill start off by sayn i dono the story behind this issue, but even with that said i find ur comment a little harsh. there are 2sides to every story, maybe SH was just tryn to share her side in her message.
personally i think this drama is a lil childish their personal business is none of ours, ya its fun to poke at but once someone gets pissed off i believe its in everyones best interest to lay off
SH is playing the victim card. The spotlight wasn't on her to begin with, she just happens to get a mention because we're talking about Student. I agree with MB, making the announcements serves absolutely no purpose, and SH may be getting the wrong idea about these threads.
student.. i will stand down and ease off when she does.. because honestly.. i'm fed up with the stupid drama that's happening as of late.. if she truly wanted people to stop mentioning the issue.. she should've NOT msged vonnie.. NOT tell her pass on the msg but tell others herself.. and most importantly.. NOT bring up the issue and instead.. let it die down on its own.. and right now.. she's doing the complete opposite..
i'm with the ppl who says she's pulling the victim card because that's exactly what it looks like.. and i will keep calling on her attention whoring tactics if i see them.. so summerheaven.. if you're still lurking around here and reading this.. that's my take on the issue..
This is probably the only thing I will disagree with you on, Suiying.
You won't stand down and ease off until Summerheaven does? What exactly has she done towards this issue other than made ONE POST through Vonnie? I don't know how you can classify THAT as Summerheaven being GUNG HO and all on your case.
I mean, Summerheaven didn't exactly bring this up, did she? As the thread already existed before she even said anything.
And also, I find it hard to believe for her to have cared enough to be checking up on TalkSFU even after she was gone--and Vonnie didn't EXACTLY say that Summerheaven contacted HER... think about it... Vonnie said she ran into Student on another forum and she was the one to start the conversation with him on their end. Who is to say that Vonnie did not inquire Summerheaven herself? Rather than the other way around?
All of the users on here who ASSUMED that Summerheaven decided to check up on here and be an attention whore should really wait until Vonnie actually verifies that Summerheaven contacted her. And who is to say that it wasn't Student who contacted Summerheaven? As he is the one with the impression that we are bothering her.
The fact that a few users on here started this discussion... and then decided to blame SH for being an attention when she became alerted of some talk, that's just an asshole thing to do, no? I've insulted members on here quite a lot, but I'm not going to be so quick to seriously place blame on someone else for something that I DID.
So yes, a mod, or Student, should close this thread, because it no longer matters what Summerheaven SAID in ONE FUCKING POST. This thread hasn't heard from her (or Vonnie) on the topic for the entire day. Surprising enough, YOU GUYS are the ones perpetuating the drama.
You've all made your point, that you don't think she the right to come here and check up on threads. Whether she did or not, WHO THE FUCK CARES? She made ONE FUCKING POST to defend herself through Vonnie. It's not as if she is spamming up the place.
So, either those of you bothered by this learn to bigger people, or this goes on and I get to call YOU GUYS DRAMA QUEENS, I leave it up to you.
I don't think any of us are trying to prolong the drama here. Regardless of whether Vonnie approached summerheaven, or vice versa, she still included in her message that she wanted to "tell the others". Why even include that? If you don't care, don't pay heed to anything that is said in this forum. Why even go through all the trouble of visiting the forum after saying that you want to leave forever, writing a private message to somebody else, and requesting that the message be relayed to the other members of the forum? I've refrained from saying anything about summerheaven in any of the threads, but that one message is just unnecessary.
If she truly didn't care, and truly wanted to leave the topic alone to die, she wouldn't have used Vonnie as a messenger. As I said before, GTFO and STFU. That is all.
Besides, the only topic that was about her in this thread was how she was related to Desmond's departure. Nobody was really making negative remarks about her at all, at least until her message came through. I don't feel that it's so outlandish that people on this forum talk about events that are happening within the forum community. We just wanted to know the whereabouts of Student0667. So once again, why summerheaven would pay heed to any of this is beyond me.
In order for everyone to calm down and leave Student and Summer alone once and for all, I think Siuying and I should go on a date and be the new center of attention.
Siuying, I think we should go for it. I'm voluntarily offering myself to do this as a public service. This is a big sacrifice for me but I know it's a win-win solution.
LOL I have a better idea. You can play a part in our relationship: by being the guy who reveals our true identities and then it's the same old controversy all over again. But do it after I break up with her. That way we give TalkSFUers more than what they have right now.
- Where's Student? - Disappeared because he's been found out for stalking. - Ok, so about the stalking... - SH: "Tell the others that I'll be gone forever and tell them not to talk about it" - Ok... - So, let's create a Jerry Springer episode in form of a love triangle! - WTF?>!
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The only person that did the stalking is Student, who left the forum, and whom she isn't even pissed off at.
She doesn't even understand that we want her to come back, and that nobody is 'stalking' her besides Student.
and really.. if there's "no chance I'll ever come back" just why the hell are you checking/lurking around the talksfu forum?
and to put you at ease dear.. stalking summerheaven IS NOT a big deal anymore.. what's done is done so let the past stay in the past.. quit making yourself an issue when you aren't one to begin with because there is a term for that.. and it's called attention whoring.. don't make yourself one when there's no reason to...=)
even she put stalking in quotations, all she was irked about was that somebody told everyone her real name, which i doubt anyone even remembers by now. She chose to leave because of that, its her choice....
its not like student sat outside her house wearing night-vision goggles taking pics of her. im sure most of you have creeped facebook at least once. Does that make you a stalker?
As are the subjects of the threads.
This is just an online forum--no one cares much who comes and goes--no one is a celebrity here.
As for the way those two behaved as a result of the situation, it's a bit more dramatic for the likes of me, and I'm glad that they don't frequent here now.
And as for them being attention whores--aren't we just adding oil to fire by making threads and speculating about what went on?
So hopefully this explanation will set all of your curious minds at ease:
1. Some guy joined a forum.
2. Some girl joined a forum.
3. Some other guy revealed her name.
4. Girl is pissed off and leaves.
5. Some guy is penis sad.
6. The other guy apologized.
7. Some guy too penis sad to come back.
~FIN~
Seriously, hope this helps. And hopefully a mod, or Student himself, will lock this thread again.
Seriously, if you wanted to leave the forum, just leave. If you never want to come back, then DON'T COME BACK. Why make a point to tell us about it? Apparently summerheaven is under the impression that we give a damn if she's here or not. Why still lurk around and now complain that people are talking about you. People are actually more concerned about Student and his departure, not so much about the loss of summerheaven. If you want to make a point about leaving, GTFO and STFU, and stop being an attention whore.
Seriously, can you guys please leave her alone and quit bringing her up again?
Look, I am back with a vengence and ready to raise some hell. Let's leave it at that, shall we?
SH is playing the victim card. The spotlight wasn't on her to begin with, she just happens to get a mention because we're talking about Student. I agree with MB, making the announcements serves absolutely no purpose, and SH may be getting the wrong idea about these threads.
there are 2sides to every story, maybe SH was just tryn to share her side in her message.
personally i think this drama is a lil childish their personal business is none of ours, ya its fun to poke at but once someone gets pissed off i believe its in everyones best interest to lay off
This sounds like e-dorama... with secret identity-like twists and turns!
It's all about e-rape these days.
i'm with the ppl who says she's pulling the victim card because that's exactly what it looks like.. and i will keep calling on her attention whoring tactics if i see them.. so summerheaven.. if you're still lurking around here and reading this.. that's my take on the issue..
You won't stand down and ease off until Summerheaven does? What exactly has she done towards this issue other than made ONE POST through Vonnie? I don't know how you can classify THAT as Summerheaven being GUNG HO and all on your case.
I mean, Summerheaven didn't exactly bring this up, did she? As the thread already existed before she even said anything.
And also, I find it hard to believe for her to have cared enough to be checking up on TalkSFU even after she was gone--and Vonnie didn't EXACTLY say that Summerheaven contacted HER... think about it... Vonnie said she ran into Student on another forum and she was the one to start the conversation with him on their end. Who is to say that Vonnie did not inquire Summerheaven herself? Rather than the other way around?
All of the users on here who ASSUMED that Summerheaven decided to check up on here and be an attention whore should really wait until Vonnie actually verifies that Summerheaven contacted her. And who is to say that it wasn't Student who contacted Summerheaven? As he is the one with the impression that we are bothering her.
The fact that a few users on here started this discussion... and then decided to blame SH for being an attention when she became alerted of some talk, that's just an asshole thing to do, no? I've insulted members on here quite a lot, but I'm not going to be so quick to seriously place blame on someone else for something that I DID.
So yes, a mod, or Student, should close this thread, because it no longer matters what Summerheaven SAID in ONE FUCKING POST. This thread hasn't heard from her (or Vonnie) on the topic for the entire day. Surprising enough, YOU GUYS are the ones perpetuating the drama.
You've all made your point, that you don't think she the right to come here and check up on threads. Whether she did or not, WHO THE FUCK CARES? She made ONE FUCKING POST to defend herself through Vonnie. It's not as if she is spamming up the place.
So, either those of you bothered by this learn to bigger people, or this goes on and I get to call YOU GUYS DRAMA QUEENS, I leave it up to you.
If she truly didn't care, and truly wanted to leave the topic alone to die, she wouldn't have used Vonnie as a messenger. As I said before, GTFO and STFU. That is all.
Besides, the only topic that was about her in this thread was how she was related to Desmond's departure. Nobody was really making negative remarks about her at all, at least until her message came through. I don't feel that it's so outlandish that people on this forum talk about events that are happening within the forum community. We just wanted to know the whereabouts of Student0667. So once again, why summerheaven would pay heed to any of this is beyond me.
At least it livens up talksfu a bit, a talkworthy issue that everyone is going back and forth on :)
In order for everyone to calm down and leave Student and Summer alone once and for all, I think Siuying and I should go on a date and be the new center of attention.
Siuying, I think we should go for it. I'm voluntarily offering myself to do this as a public service. This is a big sacrifice for me but I know it's a win-win solution.
- Where's Student?
- Disappeared because he's been found out for stalking.
- Ok, so about the stalking...
- SH: "Tell the others that I'll be gone forever and tell them not to talk about it"
- Ok...
- So, let's create a Jerry Springer episode in form of a love triangle!
- WTF?>!