lol i find it hilarious how everyone automatically categorized them as attention whores, I think summerheavan is just telling everyone to fuck off in her usual polite manner
lol i find it hilarious how everyone automatically categorized them as attention whores, I think summerheavan is just telling everyone to fuck off in her usual polite manner
I agree. We do tend to over analyzesometimes to a pointwhere it becomes too judgmental. But sometimes things are just what they are. Nothing more. Nothing less.
my point is that her choice of telling people to fuck off is stupid and irrational... and that alone isn't very hard for anyone to deduce.. hence i went ahead inferred that it was probably staged because the chances of someone being this stupid and this irrational but still manages to make it this far in life is minimal.. that said.. minimal does not mean impossible.. so yes.. it is possible that attention whoring isn't her intention and perhaps i was too rash to call her on it.. but ultimately..she knows what she's doing and i'm sure some of us also have an idea..
what she has done lixie.. is to bring up a long discarded topic back to life and stir up some drama that this site could do without...more importantly.. why would she concern herself with the content of this thread when she was the one who said she wants nothing to do with this site anymore? now if people (or better yet summerheaven herself) can offer me a sound explanation on why such a message would surface on talksfu and what the intention of the message is when she announced that she won't be returning to this site for obvious reasons.. i would gladly retract my statement but until then.. i'm going to hold onto my position...
now onto a less serious note.. no predator i will not take up your offer to do some "public service" when i don't even do private servicing.. =P and i'm no one's property so *hmph* >_
what she has done lixie.. is to bring up a long discarded topic back to life and stir up some drama that this site could do without...more importantly.. why would she concern herself with the content of this thread when she was the one who said she wants nothing to do with this site anymore? now if people (or better yet summerheaven herself) can offer me a sound explanation on why such a message would surface on talksfu and what the intention of the message is when she announced that she won't be returning to this site for obvious reasons.. i would gladly retract my statement but until then.. i'm going to hold onto my position...
I don't meant to beat a dead horse, but like I said earlier--we don't know that SHE even started this. We don't know whether Vonnie approached SH and asked her about what happened.
If I were SH, and Vonnie came to me asking me about what the hell went on, OF COURSE I would think that TalkSFUers are still talking about me.
So like I said, don't judge someone's actions without knowing the cause first.
The response is the same to MB's argument... how can you automatically say that SH is the one who started all this drama when we were the ones to bring up the issue in the first place?
Yes, I acknowledge that the thread wasn't made about Summerheaven to begin with--but her name came up in connection with Students. Perhaps that was enough to set her off.
Anyhow... I wish Vonnie would clear this up once and for all, whether she had asked Summerheaven about this or not. Because that little information could really end this childish argument we're all participating in.
This is getting really out of hand. This thread was started with the intention to examine rather I should still be a mod after my hiatus from TalkSFU. Now that I am back and am committed to staying for the foreseeable future, mission accomplished, job's done.
You guys claim that these two threads you guys created had nothing to do with SH and she is being an “attention whore” for raising the issue again with the message/ announcement she sent Vonnie. Let's see how the threads has absolutely everything to do with me and nothing to do with SH...
In the "What the fudge yo?!?!" thread...
hikin;56720 said:
he wont come back till u get summerheaven back so good luck with that.
siuying;56747 said:
but yeah.. if we are to put together a fund.. it'll make more sense if it's a fund to get summerheaven back on here.. =P
Lixie;56755 said:
Quick, someone take over Summerheaven's account.
Magnificent_Bastard;56760 said:
Damn, my plan to call him, and say "Hey! Guess what?! I'm banging summerheaven right now!" might just push him over the edge then. I shall refrain from doing that.
It seems that you guys do indeed want her back, but as a mean to get me back onto TalkSFU...
Then, I downloaded the chat-log since my departure and...
siuying: man.. i miss her now that you mentioned her.. =(2009-06-06 2:17 AM
hikin: SH lives a sheltered life where she can act like how she wants on the itnernet but in real life shes some quiet reserved asian goody two shoes bitch 2009-07-17 12:06 AM
Then, hikin went on a full on rant that I don't even feel good quoting...
In June alone, there are approximately 21 mention of SH on the shoutbox and in July, there are approximately 26 mentions...
Therefore, everyone have been "beating the dead horse" of SH's departure and my haitus. Now that I am back, I hope that this issue will be buried and never mentioned again.
Look, I have already created enough trouble for her. I really want to close this thread. However, based upon the reaction from my last closure, I will wait for another mod's approval.
^ She was brought up those times because of her relation to the story. It's quite well-known that you left the forum temporarily because of that incident involving her. So it's no wonder that her name would come up. Try to tell a coherent story about the events of World War II and not mention "Germany" or "Hitler". It's not going to happen.
Prior to the SH message through vonnie, nobody really had anything bad to say about her. She was just part of the overall story. The drama was more around your departure, Desmond.
As for Lixie...yes, I guess I/we assumed that SH contacted vonnie about it. But this isn't just one isolated incident where I, or several other members, have noticed a pattern in SH's behavior. Not just regarding this incident, but other times as well. But fine, let's reserve further judgment until all the facts are in. I guess we need Vonnie to verify this. I still don't understand why the direction of the communication matters. Because if you believe that vonnie messaged SH...SH still didn't have to reply, she could just ignore it.
Kind of like this: SH: FUCK TALKSFU, they suck, I never want to go back. I don't care what people say on there. *Few months later vonnie: Hey SH, some people on the internets are talking shit about you. SH: OMG!!! How dare they! I must say something about this! SHUT. DOWN........EVERYTHING....
Then, I downloaded the chat-log since my departure and...
Then, hikin went on a full on rant that I don't even feel good quoting...
ROFLMAO
Student0667;58196 said:
In June alone, there are approximately 21 mention of SH on the shoutbox and in July, there are approximately 26 mentions...
thats kinda creepy, lol.
Student0667;58196 said:
Look, I have already created enough trouble for her. I really want to close this thread. However, based upon the reaction from my last closure, I will wait for another mod's approval.
So you're taking the responsibility now...? Also now that you're no longer mod you cant close the thread. Lastly, the way i see it you still have that internet infatuation with her. trying to defend her on talksfu by returning and having people not talk about her.
but like mb said, we still gotta mention hitler once in a while :smile:
@lixie: hence i'm asking questions.. which no one is able to answer at the moment so i don't feel all that out of place for holding onto my deductions.. i'm not saying i'm absolutely right.. but i'm definitely waiting for someone to prove me wrong with some concrete evidence/explanation to which i will retract what i said earlier.. that's not too much to ask for is it? =)
<3 fuck you predator =P
@Simon: woah.. for a second there i thought you were gonna lock down this thread after seeing you post... hehehehe.. =P
SH, on my other forum, complained in the SFU thread that her classes were gonna be full before her registration was open.
Another member w/ 3 posts asked why she didn't get senior friends to save them for her, and then told her to check FB.
SH replied asking if it was Student, and that she was suspicious it was.
I said... "Omg desmond". (this is the point where I posted in the fudge thread that I found Student.)
He replied "hi vonnie".
SH said she hoped TalkSFU members don't migrate to the other forum because she didn't want to leave that forum too.
Then Student replied telling me not to tell anyone he was there (in which this case it was too late).
Then SH blames me for telling everyone, and investigates into each thread containing Student. After, she states she wants to retire her username so nobody can find her.
Student replies all saddened and concerned, and tells her he doesn't want her to retire her username.
I tell them they're being too overdramatic.
She write me a huge paragraph and then PM's me what I quoted in the previous pages.
SH said she hoped TalkSFU members don't migrate to the other forum because she didn't want to leave that forum too --> how presumptuous of her to think that ppl will migrate to the other forum
Then Student replied telling me not to tell anyone he was there (in which this case it was too late). --> i see student has resumed his.. interests again... old habits die hard..
Then SH blames me for telling everyone, and investigates into each thread containing Student. After, she states she wants to retire her username so nobody can find her. --> okay this i don't get.. why investigate "student"? and if you don't want ppl to find you.. GET OFF THE INTERNET... starting with fb
Student replies all saddened and concerned, and tells her he doesn't want her to retire her username. --> take heed..it's just a username.. atleast she isn't the one retiring
so..indeed overdramatic.. =.=" and thanks vonnie for clearing things up.. =)
NNNNNOOOOOO.. why is everyone taking my fuck you the wrong wwwaaayyyy.... :cry:
SH said she hoped TalkSFU members don't migrate to the other forum because she didn't want to leave that forum too --> how presumptuous of her to think that ppl will migrate to the other forum
How is she being presumptuous? She said she "hopes" people don't go there....I think you're being a little bit too critical of her, when she didn't really do anything other than pm Vonnie.
okay this i don't get.. why investigate "student"? and if you don't want ppl to find you.. GET OFF THE INTERNET... starting with fb
Its up to her what she wants to do on the internet....unfortunately some personal info of hers was released here and it was the reason she left here....that doesnt mean she has to leave the internet altogether. Im sure if someone put your address or phone number off you would be perfectly content with it...right? I guess she felt that this was a breach of privacy to that degree.
so..indeed overdramatic.. =.=" and thanks vonnie for clearing things up.. =)
This has been made overdramatic by ppl here. Yah it was a running joke for a while trying to get them to go on a date, but that ran its course a while ago and now everyones ragging on the 2 of em for no reason at all.
Student now has no mod rights because of things said here, and he has probably contributed more to this forum than anyone else. Stay classy....
SH, on my other forum, complained in the SFU thread that her classes were gonna be full before her registration was open.
Another member w/ 3 posts asked why she didn't get senior friends to save them for her, and then told her to check FB.
SH replied asking if it was Student, and that she was suspicious it was.
I said... "Omg desmond". (this is the point where I posted in the fudge thread that I found Student.)
He replied "hi vonnie".
SH said she hoped TalkSFU members don't migrate to the other forum because she didn't want to leave that forum too.
Then Student replied telling me not to tell anyone he was there (in which this case it was too late).
Then SH blames me for telling everyone, and investigates into each thread containing Student. After, she states she wants to retire her username so nobody can find her.
Student replies all saddened and concerned, and tells her he doesn't want her to retire her username.
I tell them they're being too overdramatic.
She write me a huge paragraph and then PM's me what I quoted in the previous pages.
Heeey, thanks Vonnie, for clearing it up!
So it's mostly Student's at it again.... and yah, overdramatic, of course, but it would be difficult to say that any of the girls here would NOT BE freaked out to investigate the issue like SH did.
Put yourself in her shoes, right... some guy from here stalked her to another forum, of course she's going to find out why the fuck he did it. Sure, her way of handling it is a bit immature--but keep in mind she's more sheltered than most of us.
Very weird that Student did that. And sorry for making you explain, Vonnie--you might not have wanted to reveal what Desmond did.
And Lazyguy, I've been trying to say what you're saying now for about four posts--no one here wants to admit their part in it, though. So good luck!!
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what she has done lixie.. is to bring up a long discarded topic back to life and stir up some drama that this site could do without...more importantly.. why would she concern herself with the content of this thread when she was the one who said she wants nothing to do with this site anymore? now if people (or better yet summerheaven herself) can offer me a sound explanation on why such a message would surface on talksfu and what the intention of the message is when she announced that she won't be returning to this site for obvious reasons.. i would gladly retract my statement but until then.. i'm going to hold onto my position...
now onto a less serious note.. no predator i will not take up your offer to do some "public service" when i don't even do private servicing.. =P and i'm no one's property so *hmph* >_
I say we make a vote and cast a female to be stalked and a male to be the stalkee. (yes gender stereotypes I know)
If I were SH, and Vonnie came to me asking me about what the hell went on, OF COURSE I would think that TalkSFUers are still talking about me.
So like I said, don't judge someone's actions without knowing the cause first.
The response is the same to MB's argument... how can you automatically say that SH is the one who started all this drama when we were the ones to bring up the issue in the first place?
Yes, I acknowledge that the thread wasn't made about Summerheaven to begin with--but her name came up in connection with Students. Perhaps that was enough to set her off.
Anyhow... I wish Vonnie would clear this up once and for all, whether she had asked Summerheaven about this or not. Because that little information could really end this childish argument we're all participating in.
You guys claim that these two threads you guys created had nothing to do with SH and she is being an “attention whore” for raising the issue again with the message/ announcement she sent Vonnie. Let's see how the threads has absolutely everything to do with me and nothing to do with SH...
In the "What the fudge yo?!?!" thread... It seems that you guys do indeed want her back, but as a mean to get me back onto TalkSFU...
Then, I downloaded the chat-log since my departure and... Then, hikin went on a full on rant that I don't even feel good quoting...
In June alone, there are approximately 21 mention of SH on the shoutbox and in July, there are approximately 26 mentions...
Therefore, everyone have been "beating the dead horse" of SH's departure and my haitus. Now that I am back, I hope that this issue will be buried and never mentioned again.
Look, I have already created enough trouble for her. I really want to close this thread. However, based upon the reaction from my last closure, I will wait for another mod's approval.
Prior to the SH message through vonnie, nobody really had anything bad to say about her. She was just part of the overall story. The drama was more around your departure, Desmond.
As for Lixie...yes, I guess I/we assumed that SH contacted vonnie about it. But this isn't just one isolated incident where I, or several other members, have noticed a pattern in SH's behavior. Not just regarding this incident, but other times as well. But fine, let's reserve further judgment until all the facts are in. I guess we need Vonnie to verify this. I still don't understand why the direction of the communication matters. Because if you believe that vonnie messaged SH...SH still didn't have to reply, she could just ignore it.
Kind of like this:
SH: FUCK TALKSFU, they suck, I never want to go back. I don't care what people say on there.
*Few months later
vonnie: Hey SH, some people on the internets are talking shit about you.
SH: OMG!!! How dare they! I must say something about this! SHUT. DOWN........EVERYTHING....
but like mb said, we still gotta mention hitler once in a while :smile:
<3 fuck you predator =P
@Simon: woah.. for a second there i thought you were gonna lock down this thread after seeing you post... hehehehe.. =P
SH, on my other forum, complained in the SFU thread that her classes were gonna be full before her registration was open.
Another member w/ 3 posts asked why she didn't get senior friends to save them for her, and then told her to check FB.
SH replied asking if it was Student, and that she was suspicious it was.
I said... "Omg desmond". (this is the point where I posted in the fudge thread that I found Student.)
He replied "hi vonnie".
SH said she hoped TalkSFU members don't migrate to the other forum because she didn't want to leave that forum too.
Then Student replied telling me not to tell anyone he was there (in which this case it was too late).
Then SH blames me for telling everyone, and investigates into each thread containing Student. After, she states she wants to retire her username so nobody can find her.
Student replies all saddened and concerned, and tells her he doesn't want her to retire her username.
I tell them they're being too overdramatic.
She write me a huge paragraph and then PM's me what I quoted in the previous pages.
/derail thread
nice bumpin into ya today btw, how was your time?
Then Student replied telling me not to tell anyone he was there (in which this case it was too late). --> i see student has resumed his.. interests again... old habits die hard..
Then SH blames me for telling everyone, and investigates into each thread containing Student. After, she states she wants to retire her username so nobody can find her. --> okay this i don't get.. why investigate "student"? and if you don't want ppl to find you.. GET OFF THE INTERNET... starting with fb
Student replies all saddened and concerned, and tells her he doesn't want her to retire her username. --> take heed..it's just a username.. atleast she isn't the one retiring
so..indeed overdramatic.. =.=" and thanks vonnie for clearing things up.. =)
NNNNNOOOOOO.. why is everyone taking my fuck you the wrong wwwaaayyyy.... :cry: and i don't like sharing... hikin.. =P
This has been made overdramatic by ppl here. Yah it was a running joke for a while trying to get them to go on a date, but that ran its course a while ago and now everyones ragging on the 2 of em for no reason at all.
Student now has no mod rights because of things said here, and he has probably contributed more to this forum than anyone else. Stay classy....
so...
fuck = sex
gay = happy
fag = cigarette/smoke
So it's mostly Student's at it again.... and yah, overdramatic, of course, but it would be difficult to say that any of the girls here would NOT BE freaked out to investigate the issue like SH did.
Put yourself in her shoes, right... some guy from here stalked her to another forum, of course she's going to find out why the fuck he did it. Sure, her way of handling it is a bit immature--but keep in mind she's more sheltered than most of us.
Very weird that Student did that. And sorry for making you explain, Vonnie--you might not have wanted to reveal what Desmond did.
And Lazyguy, I've been trying to say what you're saying now for about four posts--no one here wants to admit their part in it, though. So good luck!!