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when a guy carries you and seems
there's this really weird guy in my class that whenever i diss him, he threatens to "carry me"... and then he'd do it anyway. he's a cool guy and all, but what the heck? what is he trying to say?
cmon, i'm desperate to know, cuz this is getting on my nerves.
cmon, i'm desperate to know, cuz this is getting on my nerves.
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Sounds weird to me.
Not the kind of guy I'd be spending my time with.
wait let me say that again. all OTHER guys should do it .
Seriously, girls just don't get it sometimes. Guys need you to be very VERY explicit and clear about your feelings.
- If something creeps you out, then tell him. Don't continue to let it happen to a point where you're secretly trying to work it out without having to confront him about it.
- When you don't like a guy and he keeps asking you out, don't say, "Well, I'm kinda busy this week, maybe next week?" Just say, "Sorry, but I'm not really interested."
- If you really do like a guy, however, then tell him straight up. Don't mess around.
Honestly, guys can get messed up with different signals pretty easily. I've been noticing this a lot recently, but whenever we make a girl laugh, our manbrains take a note. It's like we're playing The Sims or something. The love-meter gets incremented. So, with that creepy guy, he's probably thinking that he's doing something right, since you're always around him in class. Whereas if you were to let him know that he creeps you out, then he'll hopefully realize his mistake and change his attitude.
girls, you do need to be straight up, trust me, its way better