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The Homeless

edited November 2007 in General
This got brought up in the other thread, but I didn't want to derail it.

What's your opinion of the homeless? I've had some fairly close contact with the homeless over the years, and I think I can break down their demographic into three major parts, and even assign them frequencies.

10% - Lazy assholes. These people have no real reason to be where they are, they just like welfare and beggary, and are willing and able to get along on that. These people deserve to be spit upon.

40% - Hopeless addicts. These people bring it on themselves, they're certainly not "victims." However, I can't say that I don't still have some sympathy for them.

50% - People with mental illnesses, who have nobody to take care of them, and who are genuinely unemployable. They're on the street because they're literally not capable of holding a job. Many (most) of them are schizophrenics, who can go six days out of the week totally cogent and coherent, as sane as anybody. But that one day a week where they have a schizoid episode makes it literally impossible for them to exist in normal society. They can't hold a job, and thus they become homeless.

Overall, I think I'm more sympathetic towards the homeless in Vancouver, from having interacted with them a bit.

How do you all feel about it?

Comments

  • edited October 2007
    Well, I have trouble believing that a whole 50% of Vancouver's homeless are there because they have mental illnesses. If this is true, I can cut them a bit of slack, but not much.

    As for the drug addicts and the lazy bums..
    People should take responsibility for their own lives. There's always the option of getting drug treatment and/or getting a job. I'll claim that, with some effort, almost anyone could get cleaned up and get a job. I'm pretty sure the city provides the resources.
  • edited October 2007
    To break it down very simply:

    5% to 10% - Lazy assholes
    70% - Addicts (some may be treatable others are hopeless)
    20% to 25% - The mentally ill

    100% - Criminal. If you're lazy, you'd rather steal than work. If you're an addict, you'll obtain money by any means necessary. If you're mentally ill, crime is inevitable (not that I have anything against the mentally ill; merely, being poor and having no treatment to address mental illness is the perfect recipe for a varying spectrum of crimes). Because many of them have engaged/are engaging/will engage in criminality, this makes them 100% unemployable as well.

    Keep in mind, however, that these categories do not have to be mutually exclusive. I will not exclude the possibility of a mentally ill addict in a hopeless situation.

    I do sympathize with the homeless. I would say 40% of their poverty can be traced to a choice that they made (i.e. a bad decision). I still sympathize with this group because we all make bad decisions at some point in our lives which we later regret. 50% of their poverty has to do with either being born and brought up in the wrong atmosphere or with some sort of mental deficiency (whether inborn or acquired in life). Again, I can't blame most of them: how would each of us turn out if we were brought up with little guidance and in a poor environment (and of course I won't blame the mentally ill). Perhaps the remaining 10% may be blameworthy but even their cases have to be closely examined.
  • edited October 2007
    It's also worth noting that the majority of the workforce in Canada and the US (in particular the US) is about one or two paychecks away from being in the same situation, although it is true that there are assets that working people often have which the homeless don't, but past a certain point if you've liquidated all your assets and you're stuck for a job, you'll be homeless too.

    It always amazes me that I see viciousness in the media and in popular discourse directed at a group of people that have comparatively little ability to alter their situation, but I suppose that is another manifestation of picking on the person that looks or acts different that I got to experience in high school thanks to a hearing impairment. People say things about homeless people that they wouldn't say about an abandoned dog.
  • edited October 2007
    LOL

    I highly doubt that 50% of them are mentally ill.

    The MAJORITY of them are lazy. There have been studies done on this (professional and otherwise). I know people who went downtown to spend A LOT of time with them and a lot of those bums said that they were too lazy to go and find a job.

    There is no shortage of jobs here. Therefore, no, they will not get my money when they ask me for it. And yes, i will look down on them and give them horrid looks when they even TRY to talk to me. Fuck off, get a job and a life and stop being a complete and utter loser and bringing the image of our (and other) city down.

    They cant find a job?? Bullshit! Go out and look. There are tons.
  • edited October 2007
    They cant find a job?? Bullshit! Go out and look. There are tons.
    Exactly. It's not difficult to improve your situation, if you're able. That's why I'm surprised you doubt my experience with them. The vast majority of them are just unable to improve their situation - because they have mental problems. If you're a schizophrenic and you don't have people to take care of you, you WILL be homeless, given a bit of time. That's just the way it is.
  • edited October 2007
    baby e;16607 said:
    There is no shortage of jobs here. Therefore, no, they will not get my money when they ask me for it. And yes, i will look down on them and give them horrid looks when they even TRY to talk to me. Fuck off, get a job and a life and stop being a complete and utter loser and bringing the image of our (and other) city down.

    They cant find a job?? Bullshit! Go out and look. There are tons.
    So, uh, you'd hire a guy off the street with a grade 10 education, no teeth, smells like yesterday's garbage dump?

    You can kick someone in the ass all you want but past a certain point it's just counterproductive.
  • edited October 2007
    I sympathize with them as well because it can't be deemed completely their fault that they are in the state they are in. Though some are merely lazy, I think most can't find employment because they lack the quintessential necessities that are not available to them, such as a decent resume, clothing, and etc. that is needed in order to obtain a vocation.

    I think your breakdown is accurate, in terms of the mental illness percentage portion because it is a very candid assumption. Because I believe mental illness also encompasses the fact that most homeless, at least the ones that I've seen, are rather socially awkward which is an indication of social anxiety. It's hard to find a job when you're not able to cope with being around other people without breaking out into hives, profuse sweating, and just plain nervousness.

    On a side note, I've always wondered at the inherent, and perhaps cruel, irony that is prevalent when taking a bus downtown. There's a certain area where it is homeless ridden.....then it becomes downtown, the supposed prosperous location. Just like that. I've always wondered where that invisible line was and how the homeless and the supposedly wealthy are so close, yet so far.
  • edited October 2007
    I have only given money to THREE homeless people in my life (at least i assume they are all homeless):

    1) A guy who had a dog and i felt for the dog, not the person, even tho the money i gave him prolly went towards drugs and not to the dog at all, i still gave it to him

    2) A guy who had a sign that said, "Need money for marijuana." At least he was being honest, so i gave him some money for his honesty.

    3) The guy on Hastings at that big intersection (by the Cassiar tunnel) that actually goes around and waves to people and picks up trash and what not....ive given him some money....he NEVER asks for money from anyone. People give it to him because he actually picks up trash and what not.

    The others out there, no way. Seriously, its just sad, most of them are able to work. And yes, im sure that some company somewhere in Vancouver will hire someone who looks like them. Nonetheless, i dont personally know enough about this subject to argue about it. :)
  • edited October 2007
    I gave money to a guy in victoria who had a sign that said, "Father was killed by ninjas, needs money for karate lessons." Because it made me laugh so hard I had to give him money.

    But it is funny that We're in one of the richest countries in the world,
    but the minimum wage is lower than it was thirty five years ago.
    There are homeless people everywhere.
    This homeless guy asked me for money the other day.
    I was about to give it to him and then I thought he was going to use it on drugs or alcohol.
    And then I thought, that's what I'm going to use it on.
    Why am I judging this poor bastard.
    People love to judge homeless guys. Like if you give them money they're just going to waste it.
    Well, he lives in a box, what do you want him to do? Save it up and buy a wall unit?
    Take a little run to the store for a throw rug and a CD rack? He's homeless.
    I walked behind this guy the other day.
    A homeless guy asked him for money.
    He looks right at the homeless guy and says why don't you go get a job you bum.
    People always say that to homeless guys like it is so easy.
    This homeless guy was wearing his underwear outside his pants.
    Outside his pants. I'm guessing his resume isn't all up to date.
    I'm predicting some problems during the interview process.
    I'm pretty sure even McDonalds has a "underwear goes inside the pants" policy.
    Not that they enforce it really strictly, but technically I'm sure it is on the books.
  • edited October 2007
    baby e;16670 said:
    I have only given money to THREE homeless people in my life (at least i assume they are all homeless):

    1) A guy who had a dog and i felt for the dog, not the person, even tho the money i gave him prolly went towards drugs and not to the dog at all, i still gave it to him

    2) A guy who had a sign that said, "Need money for marijuana." At least he was being honest, so i gave him some money for his honesty.

    3) The guy on Hastings at that big intersection (by the Cassiar tunnel) that actually goes around and waves to people and picks up trash and what not....ive given him some money....he NEVER asks for money from anyone. People give it to him because he actually picks up trash and what not.

    The others out there, no way. Seriously, its just sad, most of them are able to work. And yes, im sure that some company somewhere in Vancouver will hire someone who looks like them. Nonetheless, i dont personally know enough about this subject to argue about it. :)
    Hmmm... only three people huh? I suppose I can't blame you for doing as you feel, but I think you're one of those frugal individuals who'd rather keep her money than give it to the poor because, hell, they're poor for a reason, right? And if they really wanted to, they could find a job, since there's "some company in Vancouver [that] will hier someone who looks like them", right?

    I also think that you'd rather have these beggars break into people's houses and obtain money for drugs through theft because to give to a beggar is tantamount to supporting his habits and we'll have none of that, right?

    I admire your integrity (you won't give to a poor person because you don't believe it's right and of course you won't support the drug trade by giving to them), but let me fill you in on something else. Pay attention because "[you] don't personally know enough about this subject to argue about it". Sometimes (and quite often with the homeless) it is not within a person's powers to change his/her environment. The will to change it is there and of course there is incentive. Yet the fact that the homeless are ostracized by people like you is what makes this change harder. If everyone (including prospective employers for the homeless) thought like you, who would hire these people? Why would anyone support the drug trade? The fact that intense addiction often blurs the line between the moral and the immoral does not help either. Some homeless may be good people yet temporarily rendered amoral by the unbridled desire for heroin. You, of course, come off as indifferent to their needs and couldn't care less.

    Granted that people make mistakes, but should our blaming them stick with them for the rest of their lives? It is human nature to make mistakes (however significant or inconsequential) but it takes character to empathize and truly understand another. You, of course, don't want them begging for change, let alone want them looking at you, so enough about character...

    So here's to making the world a safer place :thumbs_up: you thrifty little miser. May you conduct your day-to-day affairs ever more economically.
  • edited October 2007
    JayDub;16672 said:
    I gave money to a guy in victoria who had a sign that said, "Father was killed by ninjas, needs money for karate lessons." Because it made me laugh so hard I had to give him money.

    But it is funny that We're in one of the richest countries in the world,
    but the minimum wage is lower than it was thirty five years ago.
    There are homeless people everywhere.
    This homeless guy asked me for money the other day.
    I was about to give it to him and then I thought he was going to use it on drugs or alcohol.
    And then I thought, that's what I'm going to use it on.
    Why am I judging this poor bastard.
    People love to judge homeless guys. Like if you give them money they're just going to waste it.
    Well, he lives in a box, what do you want him to do? Save it up and buy a wall unit?
    Take a little run to the store for a throw rug and a CD rack? He's homeless.
    I walked behind this guy the other day.
    A homeless guy asked him for money.
    He looks right at the homeless guy and says why don't you go get a job you bum.
    People always say that to homeless guys like it is so easy.
    This homeless guy was wearing his underwear outside his pants.
    Outside his pants. I'm guessing his resume isn't all up to date.
    I'm predicting some problems during the interview process.
    I'm pretty sure even McDonalds has a "underwear goes inside the pants" policy.
    Not that they enforce it really strictly, but technically I'm sure it is on the books.
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    It wasn't this person, was it?
  • edited October 2007
    i remember walking down robson after dinner once and this guy came up to me and asked for money because he was hungry.. i said i won't give him money.. but i will buy him a meal and he can eat to his heart's content.. he said no thank you and walked off... =\ what am i suppose to make out of that?

    then there's a guy who's always at the richmond bus stops asking for change.. some ppl did give him some.. but those who regularly bus knew him and didn't bother.. i was one of them..

    so i might not be helping them buy giving them cash.. yet i feel that sometimes giving them cash poses a certain degree of ignorance.. homeless people may need money.. but i think they need care more than that.. things like clothing.. food and shelter are much more useful than giving them a 20 dollar bill.. that's why i chose to help them in the way i feel they would truly benefit from.. i donate clothing and food every christmas and if time allows me.. i volunteer at the union gospel to cook up a meal or two..
  • edited October 2007
    Occasionally I will, but generally I don't like to give money to people on the streets, because I don't know where its going to. I prefer to give my money/donations to organizations that help them, like food banks, shelters, etc.
  • edited October 2007
    Insatiable;16674 said:
    Hmmm... only three people huh? I suppose I can't blame you for doing as you feel, but I think you're one of those frugal individuals who'd rather keep her money than give it to the poor
    Thats very true, I am. I would rather keep my money for me then give it some homeless person that will use it for god knows what reason. Its my money, i'll do what i like with it.
    Insatiable;16674 said:
    I also think that you'd rather have these beggars break into people's houses and obtain money for drugs through theft because to give to a beggar is tantamount to supporting his habits and we'll have none of that, right?
    Please dont start with this bullshit of "if i dont give them money then they'll break into people's homes." They're the scum of the earth breaking into people's cars and homes, and me giving some of them money wont change that. You care so god damned much about them breaking into people's homes, why dont you give them all of your money then? My money stays in my pocket.
    Insatiable;16674 said:
    You, of course, come off as indifferent to their needs and couldn't care less.
    Thats right. Im not arguing with you at all here. I...dont...care...about...them. They should all go and jump off a bridge....would make our city look a lot better if they werent around :)
    Insatiable;16674 said:
    You, of course, don't want them begging for change, let alone want them looking at you
    Please, explain to me why i should give them MY money. Have they done any work for it? Are they working for ME to get MY money? Are they helping my city in any way? Oh right....im preventing them from breaking into people's homes right? Yah....sure.


    Bottom line: You care so much, go give them YOUR money. Ive told you the three times ive given money to a homeless person. I would much rather support giving money to my local animal shelter than to them.

    I think there should be a way to get them off of the streets, but its not up to me to do it. You wanna bitch about people not giving them money, go bitch to the government to do something, not to me. Its my money and i'll do what i please with it. Just like you'll do what you please with yours, which i assume will be giving it all to the homeless people downtown, right? Oh but of course!
  • edited October 2007
    siuying;16678 said:
    i remember walking down robson after dinner once and this guy came up to me and asked for money because he was hungry.. i said i won't give him money.. but i will buy him a meal and he can eat to his heart's content.. he said no thank you and walked off... =\ what am i suppose to make out of that?

    Exactly. If he didnt want food, then what did he really want the money for?

    Hmmm i wonder....what could it be? Whatever could he have wanted that money for?

    :/
  • edited October 2007
    One time I was downtown with some friends and had some left over pasta from Antone's in the car. Instead of eating there, I decided to find a fork and munch out on that so I got a homeless guy to run into the burger king and get me a fork (they come in plastic packaging). It was the expensivest plastic fork ever, but the pasta was damn good

    That may be weird to some but it's not as bad as some of my friends who pay bums to entertain them while they stand in line at a club...speaking of which has anyone seen Bum Fights?
  • edited October 2007
    If I'm drunk as hell I usually give the money and keep asking them what they are going to do with it, lol.
    I remember one guy saying he's getting a big mac, but I couldn't remember any Mcdonalds for a long ways around there, hahah
  • edited October 2007
    what we can do is follow hitler's ways and just bbq all of them!!! I think that is what baby e is getting at!
    and yes no need to call me an asshole for asshole comments, I already know!
  • edited October 2007
    Some Bums come up with the most elaborate stories, and u wonder where they get the time to come up wid something like that ;)
  • edited October 2007
    baby e;16694 said:
    Exactly. If he didnt want food, then what did he really want the money for?

    Hmmm i wonder....what could it be? Whatever could he have wanted that money for?

    :/
    You base your opinion solely on one instance. If it were you in their stead, I think you'd think otherwise. Your lack of compassion and apathy towards this matter is disheartening. I'm not bashing you, per se, only saying that it's people with personalities like yours that I dislike the most.
  • edited October 2007
    ^Well I dont know you, so i could really care less if you dislike me or not :)
  • edited October 2007
    i agree with baby e on that..
  • edited October 2007
    he didn't say he didn't like her
    just doesn't like her horrible personality.
  • edited October 2007
    same idea.. deal with it..
  • edited November 2007
    ^Exactly, thank you. :)
  • edited November 2007
    Has anyone ever ran into this bum downtown? Hes this guy, and he starts with "Are you from around here"--then he goes on about how he lives on something like 54th and granville and his car broke down etc and he needs money for gas and blah blah blah.

    Anyway I didn't have change, thats too bad for the homeless that most people carry cards now a days, so I'm walking away and he starts belting out swear words at me, and a few f bombs.

    Then I just thought what the fuck? People like that are reasons why you can justify that aggressive pan handling law.

    Then the other day I run into him and he tries his story on me again but this time after he asked me if I was from around here I just said no.

    And I was thinking the other day too, whos going to hire a homeless person? I mean even if they do where is the homeless person going to stay and shower etc...if someone has no family or friends how can they even find a job? I dont mind homeless people, but the aggressive kind that approach you with their bullshit stories need to be shot.
  • edited November 2007
    What's with people hating on the homeless? Aren't they already in a shitty enough place? Does it make anybody feel any better to bash them, or demean them any further? Does it make you feel better about your life?

    Okay, fine, there are different types of homeless people. Some are legitimately mentally ill, and are just cast aside by society because nobody gives a fuck what happens to them, and nobody cares. Some leave home because of stress. Some are there by choice, it's how they want to live. Some aren't there by choice, rather they just don't have the means to get a good enough job to rent a place to live.

    My point is that you can't just lump all of them into one single category "homeless people" and then make generalizations about them. It might be true for some of them, but it's definitely not for others. Personally, I feel compassionate enough about it to help them out sometimes; buy a guy outside a gas-station a sandwich or something. If I have some small change, sure, I'll give it to them.

    Hell, I treat them like Mormons or Jehovah's Witnesses. In fact, I'd much rather have a homeless person approach me any day, cause they have much more interesting things to say. And just like any homeless person, if a Mormon or Jehovah's Witness gets aggressive with what they're trying to preach, I just tell them to fuck off. It doesn't change my perception about all Mormons, just that one asshole.

    My philosophy is, if you can or want to help them, then help. If you can't or don't want to, then don't. Just don't pass judgment on them about how they need to live their lives.

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