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Doubts, but don't know what to do!

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  • nicole
    edited May 2008
    Call me naive but I didn't really think about that. He called last night and apologized but it was pretty casual and it felt a forced apology.
    Thanks for the insight though. If that's what it is, things make a little more sense.
  • JayDub
    edited May 2008
    I'm gonna agree with Morro.
  • buflibufli
    edited May 2008
    JayDub;30451 said:
    I'm gonna agree with Morro.
    me too :)

    moreover, girls really need to learn to control and suppress their emotions at times
    also keep in mind the sooner u move on (weather u want to or not) the sooner ull have the opportunity to meet someone new and a lot better
    just a thought ;) stop wasting ur emotions on someone who’s passive towards u
  • Broken Lizard
    edited May 2008
    nuke him
  • Morro
    edited May 2008
    ...from orbit. It's the only way to be sure.
  • nicole
    edited May 2008
    bufli;30455 said:
    me too :)

    moreover, girls really need to learn to control and suppress their emotions at times
    also keep in mind the sooner u move on (weather u want to or not) the sooner ull have the opportunity to meet someone new and a lot better
    just a thought ;) stop wasting ur emotions on someone who’s passive towards u
    I find myself to be really, really understanding and passive with him (to a fault almost), so I'd say that's a really general statement to make. I'm the kind of person who will just let the emotion out on my own time, and I'll put up a front when I'm with other people.

    I tried to move on months ago, but then I started dating a ton of different people and nothing felt the same at all.

    I guess I need time!
  • randomuser
    edited May 2008
    Start thinking about what an asshole he is for blowing you off, after a while you will get over and wonder how you wasted any of your time on it
  • Makall
    edited May 2008
    Vice versa.
  • vonnie
    edited May 2008
    Well, sometimes it's better to wait until you aren't even looking.
    I find that most people usually find great relationships when they weren't looking to find anyone or start any relationship, but it just "happened" lol.
  • nicole
    edited May 2008
    Makall;30517 said:
    Vice versa.
    What?



    I wouldn't really consider myself as someone who's looking per se (always kind of on the lookout, but not pursuing something for the sake of being with someone). Buuut I'm feeling a lot better, probably because I've been way too busy to be concerned about it, haha.
  • nicole
    edited June 2008
    Text last night:
    "Are you at work tomorrow? I'd like to talk to you."

    After 2 weeks of no communication whatsoever. Goddammit, I hate men.
  • Jimmy
    edited June 2008
    He wants pussy.
  • JayDub
    edited June 2008
    I agree.
  • nicole
    edited June 2008
    We talked and sorted things out...he said he wants to start as friends because we never really worked on that before. I gave in, but I really don't want to...

    ...so does this mean I can start dating again?
  • JayDub
    edited June 2008
    You could, but it wouldn't be a wise choice. He is only doing it for sex.
  • nicole
    edited June 2008
    Probably, but that's been the case for the past few months and it was more like mutual understanding.
  • Broken Lizard
    edited June 2008
    nicole;31048 said:
    Probably, but that's been the case for the past few months and it was more like mutual understanding.
    yeah but I doubt he's asking other people for advice on what to do and saying "i hate women" lol
  • randomuser
    edited June 2008
    you should not have even responded to his text, sigh, you should have waited at least 3-4 days before responding
  • Morro
    edited June 2008
    Why not just tell him that he's pissing you off?
  • IVTIVT
    edited June 2008
    nicole;31043 said:
    We talked and sorted things out...he said he wants to start as friends because we never really worked on that before. I gave in, but I really don't want to...

    ...so does this mean I can start dating again?
    i've said it before ands i'll say it again:

    girls are suckers for jerks. I feel sorry for you
  • JayDub
    edited June 2008
    A very agreeable statement.
  • Lixie
    edited June 2008
    Go to his house and smash his face in.

    It always works.
  • nicole
    edited June 2008
    Haha.
    I've been pretty cool with things for a few weeks, and I have a first date on Saturday....I haven't been on a first date in months. Exciting!

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