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so i met this girl...

edited June 2008 in General
so, this would be my third time writing this. never submitted it because i probably won't take any of your advice anyway, because it's ultimately up to me. but i guess i'm a little bored.. so...let's get some opinions.

i met this girl.

i'm really starting to like her... we have a lot in common, share a lot of interests, which is a rare find. heck, she's even got all the little details right. oh..and she's still feminine! lol. sometimes you meet people, and you have so much in common with them..but it's just because they're another one of the boys...and that sucks too. they need to retain some femininity to maintain their sexiness :p which she's got. she's really really great..

anyway. couple problems. (1) she won't be around this summer. she doesn't live around here..and she's taking the summer semester off. so i figured i had two options (a) wait until fall, or (b) try something now so that I don't have to think about it all damn summer only to come back and realize she's found someone. long story short, pretty sure she likes me too... but it's kinda hard to find time to see her when she's studying all the time for these exams..


okay. i'm kinda getting side tracked and forgot where i was going with this.

just..right. i'm just going to hit submit now.
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  • edited April 2008
    do it before she leaves, cause if shes dating someone when she comes back you will be punching yourself

    live for the moment
  • edited April 2008
    GO FOR IT!!!
  • edited April 2008
    randomuser;26581 said:
    do it before she leaves, cause if shes dating someone when she comes back you will be punching yourself

    live for the moment
    i think you just came up with a solution to your problem.. ;)
  • edited April 2008
    siuying;26594 said:
    i think you just came up with a solution to your problem.. ;)
    lol I was going to say
    this forum needs a "just do it already" sticky thread under this topic since all the q's ppl ask get the same answers :P
  • edited April 2008
    Do eet. Do eet now!
  • edited April 2008
    bufli;26599 said:

    this forum needs a "just do it already" sticky thread under this topic since all the q's ppl ask get the same answers :P
    Agreed.

    I dont know why people ask these sorts of questions when the answer seems so obvious.
  • edited April 2008
    take a hit of lsd

    do what your trip tells you to do
  • IVTIVT
    edited April 2008
    ok let's put a spin on this:
    there's this girl that i've been chatting with online since September. We went to the same high school, have mutual friends but we met online (facebook....don't ask) We seem to have some stuff in common and she's really nice. (and yes, i've met her in person before, but only a few times) I'm thinking of asking her out to a movie or something like that. Comments/thoughts?
  • edited April 2008
    grab her breast, see what she does
  • edited April 2008
    the only difference between this and my problem is he knows hes into her, i dont know if im really into my guy
  • edited April 2008
    bufli;26599 said:
    lol I was going to say
    this forum needs a "just do it already" sticky thread under this topic since all the q's ppl ask get the same answers :P
    it's not easy to see the answer if you're involved even if its dangling in front of you.. "you can be logical with other people's lives but not your own".. =)

    for reference.. please disregard triple's advice.. just think about what happens when your package gets grabbed by random ppl.. =)
  • edited April 2008
    haha what if shes aching for it and wants him to!!!

    u never know lol
  • edited April 2008
    ^ that's another story.. (to be told in the closet or behind bedroom doors).. ;)
  • IVTIVT
    edited April 2008
    can we actually be serious about this for once? :sad:
  • edited April 2008
    lol.. serves you right for posting all those pictures.. HAHA
    i'm kidding.. =P

    there's is serious advice here if you look close enough..
  • edited April 2008
    what serves me right for the pictures? lol
  • edited April 2008
    ^ was referring to IVT's post.. =)
  • edited April 2008
    oh lol
    my bad :embarassed:
  • edited April 2008
    LOL @ Triple's advice in this thread
    IVT;26613 said:
    ok let's put a spin on this:
    there's this girl that i've been chatting with online since September. We went to the same high school, have mutual friends but we met online (facebook....don't ask) We seem to have some stuff in common and she's really nice. (and yes, i've met her in person before, but only a few times) I'm thinking of asking her out to a movie or something like that. Comments/thoughts?
    Ask her out.
  • edited April 2008
    i hate these forums. i don't want to say too much. she might be reading this for all i know. but.. grabbing her tits doesn't sound like such a terrible idea. i got pretty close to her before and she didn't complain.

    only thing though..ever since i explicitly told her i liked her (even though it should have been obvious by then) she's been a little more distant....and i don't know if it's because she's stressed with exams, or i actually scared her off :\
  • IVTIVT
    edited April 2008
    siuying;26638 said:
    lol.. serves you right for posting all those pictures.. HAHA
    i'm kidding.. =P

    there's is serious advice here if you look close enough..
    i'm in a weird situation here because i pretty much only talk to her online so i'm not really sure whether i should "go for it" and how
  • edited April 2008
    callonmeee;26651 said:
    Ask her out.
    wait..are you trying to give me the same advice? i already did ask her out. although i was a little subtle and didn't call it a date...but i paid for her just the same.
  • edited April 2008
    IVT;26653 said:
    i'm in a weird situation here because i pretty much only talk to her online so i'm not really sure whether i should "go for it" and how
    yes..there was too much online chattage for me too, which is why i keep trying to move it into the physical realm. it's a tricky business though....i don't want to push too hard. but so far she's usually shown interest...
  • IVTIVT
    edited April 2008
    see that's the thing with online communication its impossible to tell whether she actually like talking to me or is just too nice to tell me to fuck off
  • edited April 2008
    IVT;26657 said:
    see that's the thing with online communication its impossible to tell whether she actually like talking to me or is just too nice to tell me to fuck off
    do you usually start the convos or does she?

    whenever i'm feeling particularly low self-esteemed i just wait until they msg me first :p
  • edited April 2008
    ralph2087;26652 said:
    grabbing her tits doesn't sound like such a terrible idea.
    See, someone agrees with me.
    Do the ole, "woops i tripped"
  • edited April 2008
    lol if u find ur the one thats always starting online convos wen both of u r online just eff it, thats a block and delete situation as it clearly isnt goin newhere
    but if she occasionly says wutsup , give it a chance n just ask her out. Not necccesarily on a date but to a pub nite or a house party os sumthing where theres gunna be mutual friends and whatnot so u can get to know each other instead of just jumping into the dating scene rite away.
  • edited April 2008
    Triple;26660 said:
    See, someone agrees with me.
    Do the ole, "woops i tripped"
    clever. i like it.


    if this goes well though, i'm totally just going to depress myself. have one more nice night together............and then she's gone for a good 4 months.

    oh well. i can concentrate on my other crap..(work and such)..but damn.

    just when i was starting to feel cold-hearted and career-oriented, this girl comes and shakes stuff up and gives me a little bit of hope for a real relationship :\
  • IVTIVT
    edited April 2008
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  • edited April 2008
    haha Michael Cera is the man

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