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Just had coffee with a girl...

da_prodigy
edited July 2007 in General
So what do you guys think? What are some signs to look for (one the first date) to know if she's interested or not?
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  • JohnnyBoy
    edited May 2007
    Have you thought of asking her?
  • da_prodigy
    edited May 2007
    Well, I'm thinking on the first date it might be difficult to ask such a direct question, no?

    Anyways, I told her I had a great time with her and proposed another date to her, so let's see what her response is.

    Anyways, the good thing is she let me pay for her drink, so perhaps that means she's open to something more?
  • toast
    edited May 2007
    maybe she just forgot her wallet at home lol
  • illicit
    edited May 2007
    maybe she's bringing out her golden shovel already.
  • siuying
    edited May 2007
    lol @ golden shovel..
    yup.. every girl has one in her so watch out illicit.. =P
  • toast
    edited May 2007
    all hail to the golden shovel lmao...
  • JohnnyBoy
    edited May 2007
    It's not a big deal man...the only way to know is via communications, so talk to her more, ask her if she would like to go out again.. Its just that easy..
    How do you think girls feel about wanting a guy.. she will be waiting for the guy to ask her out again.. and will give hints in the conversation..
  • illicit
    edited May 2007
    OR , even better, body language/contact ;)
  • Magnificent_BastardMagnificent_Bastard
    edited May 2007
    Whip it out, and hope for the best. You can usually tell if she likes you by her reaction.
  • da_prodigy
    edited May 2007
    LOL whip it out I wanna know how it goes
  • Jimmy
    edited May 2007
    +1 for whipping it out
  • Bhambra
    edited May 2007
    +2 :)
  • Pro
    edited May 2007
    +3 !!
  • Mike^
    edited May 2007
    +4.1 oh yeh....
  • da_prodigy
    edited May 2007
    we went on another date last night and it was nice and easy, just walked around downtown and had dinner afterwards. things were really nice, she touched my arm a couple times (blush) but she isn't being aggressive at all so I don't know how much she likes me..either she wants me to make a move or maybe she just wants to be friends I don't really know but I really felt like kissing her a few times...i have a feeling whipping it out isn't *quite* what she's looking for lol
  • Magnificent_BastardMagnificent_Bastard
    edited May 2007
    da_prodigy;12994 said:
    ...i have a feeling whipping it out isn't *quite* what she's looking for lol
    Well you'll never know unless you try now...will you?

    "When in doubt, whip it out!"
  • imelting
    edited May 2007
    touching is a good sign

    id say make a move
  • Pro
    edited May 2007
    you're so in. now whip it out.
  • meeshmeesh
    edited May 2007
    i think you're definitely on the right track. go for it. carpe diem.
  • da_prodigy
    edited May 2007
    I did it...
  • Magnificent_BastardMagnificent_Bastard
    edited May 2007
    YOU WHIPPED IT OUT??

    How'd she take it? (double entendre fully intended)
  • da_prodigy
    edited May 2007
    Well I don't wanna get too X Rated, but ya it was a hot day so we had a few drinks and came back to my place and one thing kinda lead to another so I whipped it out lol...I was kinda nervous at first but at least I gott sommee :shade:

    The weird thing is, she hasn't called since it happened (which was the day before yesterday). So I dunno if I should call, maybe now she thinks thats all I want from her?
  • Bhambra
    edited May 2007
    hahaha bestt...


    call. but take it easy this time.... dun scare her off!!
    :P
  • toast
    edited May 2007
    call her out for another whipping lol.. jk...
  • Jimmy
    edited June 2007
    told ya whipping it out is worth it haha

    edit: holy crap i just notice i have 500 posts :| im getting old hah
  • JohnnyBoy
    edited June 2007
    props dude, some summer love don't hurt nobody
  • schroed
    edited June 2007
    Magnificent_Bastard;13079 said:
    YOU WHIPPED IT OUT??

    How'd she take it? (double entendre fully intended)
    Hey this is completely random...but are you the same "Magnificent_Bastard" from revscene??
  • Magnificent_BastardMagnificent_Bastard
    edited June 2007
    schroed;13111 said:
    Hey this is completely random...but are you the same "Magnificent_Bastard" from revscene??
    Not that I know of. I've been to RevScene a few times, and registered there, but I believe it's under a different username. But whoever that Magnificent_Bastard is, he's a damned imposter.
  • vik_lane
    edited July 2007
    Well... of course naturally you could be an asshole for all I know, but you sound like a nice guy. In other words, it doesn't sound like you're all that aggressive either. I could give you the opinion of "a girl", but frankly, how many times have you behaved in an identical way to any of your guy friends when out on a date/asking a girl for her number, etc.?

    I mean, this is one girl. Obviously if she's been on two dates with you, she likes you and is attracted. The fact that she isn't throwing you against the wall and wildly making out with you after a second date doesn't mean she isn't into you.

    And so she hasn't called you since it happened - have you called her?

    Can I ask a question, though? Why does her letting you pay mean she might like you? - a serious question from a girl, not a snotty crack.
  • Morro
    edited July 2007
    Oh God, I hope I'm one day man enough to just whip it out. That's a power-move. I don't think it's ever worked, but to be able to say you had the hutspa to actually do it... oh man. That would be awesome.

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