Just because it's over the internet doesn't mean there can't be a physical aspect to an extent. Cybersex and dirty webcamming and whatnot is physical-like.
I wouldn't be too happy if I found out a guy I was dating was jerking off while talking dirty to another chick online or something.
Watch porn all you want; porn doesn't talk back...lol. But if you're watching some girl strip for you on webcam that actually chats back to you - not cool.
what i was referring to when i said physical aspect is when two people are actually physically touching each other.. cybersex and dirty webcamming (while physical) is only one sided.. the other person can't physically lay hands on you albeit some level of interaction is permitted.. but really it's no more than masturbating with a live audience.. and certainly i don't think being an exhibitionist automatically makes you a cheater..
yup.. totally agree with anonymous1. It was the fact he was stating he was single when he clearly was not... and looking for local girls on an online dating site to hook up with. Even if he didn't do any actual cheating yet physically, there was the intent on cheating given the fact of how he had his profile info set up.
what i was referring to when i said physical aspect is when two people are actually physically touching each other.. cybersex and dirty webcamming (while physical) is only one sided.. the other person can't physically lay hands on you albeit some level of interaction is permitted.. but really it's no more than masturbating with a live audience.. and certainly i don't think being an exhibitionist automatically makes you a cheater..
so i don't know.. what do other people think?
I dont think just a physical aspect is cheating, I think it is the intent.
Would you want to date someone who wants to cheat on you, but hasn't? Or has made plans, but maybe the other party cancelled?
I think there is a big difference though between wanting to cheat, and being attracted to other people. It is all in intent.
Today, I found out that my husband thinks its okay to have an online girlfriend and have naked pictures sent to his email because he's not "physically touching, making love, or kissing". The sad part is that the online girlfriend gets more action than me. FML
Doesn't seem to be any different from porn. Married people can't look at porn now? Ok, maybe it's a little bit more interactive but so are video games. This is almost as bad as Japanese women.
In this case, the husband is still interacting with someone in a sexual way and he shouldn't be doing that if he's married. It crosses a line.
No physical interaction. They talk online and joke with each other.
Must women condemn their husbands for having female acquaintances now? Can men do the same to their wives? No of course not! Society condemns the man for being a control freak/drunk wife beater that doesn't let his wife make male acquaintances.
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I wouldn't be too happy if I found out a guy I was dating was jerking off while talking dirty to another chick online or something.
Watch porn all you want; porn doesn't talk back...lol. But if you're watching some girl strip for you on webcam that actually chats back to you - not cool.
so i don't know.. what do other people think?
Would you want to date someone who wants to cheat on you, but hasn't? Or has made plans, but maybe the other party cancelled?
I think there is a big difference though between wanting to cheat, and being attracted to other people. It is all in intent.
Must women condemn their husbands for having female acquaintances now? Can men do the same to their wives? No of course not! Society condemns the man for being a control freak/drunk wife beater that doesn't let his wife make male acquaintances.
It's a double standard.