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How Much Would You Spend On a Girl?

edited September 2008 in General
Okay... so I wanna take this girl to a concert, but am not sure if I'm willing to spend $130 on her ticket... hmmm...

so i know it depends on a) how much i like her
b) how rich i am

any other suggestions?

and another q. for the girls: are you willing to spend $100+ to go see a concert with a guy that you're friends with?
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  • edited September 2008
    If you're friends only I wouldn't spend that much. If this is uour first date, I also wouldn't spend that much. You're just setting the bar too high for yourself. When I started dating my gf I took her to expensive restaurants. Now she expects me to take her to expensive restaurants all the time. She would always tell me we should go somewhere where we can dress up.
  • edited September 2008
    $50.

    I think that's the usual price.

    You might be looking into a few hundred if you want a high-class one.
  • edited September 2008
    Yes, it is worth it if you really like the girl.

    The only time where I think it's not worth it is when you are sure you have no chances with the girl.
  • edited September 2008
    lol, friends? if ur friendzoned i wouldnt pay for shit

    comming from some1 who blew $200 at a club last weekend LOL
  • edited September 2008
    If you like her/have it available, why not?

    Its a bit too much though.

    I'd pay a 100 dollars to see a concert i like with a friend. I wouldn't pay for something i didn't enjoy just to be with him though.
  • edited September 2008
    DONT DO IT!!!

    FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DONT DO IT!!!!

    PLEASE DONT DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    lol... all kidding aside, if shes just ur friend then i dont think u should pay for it, unless of course shes broke and she really wants to go see the concert, then maybe you could chip in a bit but i dont think you should pay the whole thing.

    if she was your gf? ya i could see you paying for the whole thing.

    but seeing as how you just say that shes a friend then i dont think you should
  • edited September 2008
    Save up some more and get a hooker. Less hassle and straight to business.

    Jokes aside, like others have said before, it depends on how close you are with her (as in, are you actually going out with her), and can you afford this without starving yourself.
  • edited September 2008
    What are you talking about numbers...if you can't afford it dont do it, if you can do it.

    A girl isnt going to calculate how much money you spend to how quick she will put out or love you.

    In general, I think if you ask someone to a concert its etiquitte to pay for their ticket...I mean, who goes alone?

    If i had the money, and really wanted to see a concert I wasnt sure someone else would want to, I'd buy two tickets always.
  • edited September 2008
    130 bucks is girlfriend-type cash. If she's not your girlfriend, officially, don't even consider it. Unless you're just loaded, but even then it sends the wrong message.
  • edited September 2008
    No.

    Not unless she's your girlfriend and you've been together for awhile. And even then, if you've been spending a lot on her recently, tell her to cough it up. Us guys aren't made of money.

    I had one GF pay for like 30-40% of stuff... didn't realize what a catch she was ... shame shame.

    Anyway, point is, don't let them bitches walk all over you and eat your hard earned money. They'll take you for granted and it won't buy you no lovin.

    - Ralph
  • edited September 2008
    from a girl's POV... if it's a concert i really want to go.. i would pay for my own ticket.. if i'm not really into that concert but a guy wants me to accompany him and he's being really insistent on it then yeah... i would expect him to pay for the ticket since

    a) i wouldn't want to spend $130 on a concert i have no interest seeing
    b) he's requesting my company and not offering me a choice to say no

    therefore.. i would suggest you make sure that this girl you're taking is atleast moderately interested in the concert so she would actually be willing to pay for the ticket herself but more importantly.. so you can enjoy the concert and enjoy her company..=)

    but if you haven't made any promises yet.. don't say you'll pay for her ticket!!! girl's don't like to be lied to.. especially on monetary terms.. =P
  • edited September 2008
    okay... so basically, I SAID i'll pay for her... (the situation is like siuying said, she's not that into the concert, but I want someone to go with). but i asked her and said i'll pay for her, and she's like i'll think about it... wtf! who doesn't want to go to a CONCERT for free ?? So i'm thinking either

    a) she already is seeing someone
    b) she's getting the wrong message from me.
  • edited September 2008
    c) she's playing hard to get
  • edited September 2008
    For me it's not really that easy.

    I date persian women.

    Persian women = materialistic bitches for the most part who will eat out your soul (and wallet).



    However if i'm not with a persian girl, i wont spend anything on any other girl - unless say like a mcdonalds meal or something stupidly cheap like that.
  • edited September 2008
    I once went to McDonalds with this girl and I didn't even pay that for her. True story
  • edited September 2008
    Iran1988;36969 said:
    For me it's not really that easy.

    I date persian women.

    Persian women = materialistic bitches for the most part who will eat out your soul (and wallet).

    It's the same with most HK chicks. I always try to find girls who have been away from HK for awhile, hoping that this materialistic mentality will be gone.
  • edited September 2008
    Iran1988;36969 said:
    For me it's not really that easy.

    I date persian women.

    Persian women = materialistic bitches for the most part who will eat out your soul (and wallet).



    However if i'm not with a persian girl, i wont spend anything on any other girl - unless say like a mcdonalds meal or something stupidly cheap like that.
    What????
  • edited September 2008
    nicole;36984 said:
    What????
    He's probably saying non-Persians aren't worth paying for, 'cause they are not materialistic hoes.

    BTW, what kind of silly concert is this?
  • edited September 2008
    Alright...

    Back to the topic, I wouldn't pay over $100 for just a guy friend.
  • edited September 2008
    nicole;36984 said:
    What????
    Oh i can see how you got the wrong meaning lol.

    I meant other girls (who aren't persian) are hardly near as materialistic (from my experience) as persian ones. Therefore I don't need to spend nearly as much because they aren't gold digging hoes.
  • edited September 2008
    That makes much more sense.
  • edited September 2008
    sarcasm?
  • edited September 2008
    let's just say the bitch better be able to cook and clean.

    otherwise the other joker can have her. life's too short to be doing our those chores.
  • edited September 2008
    ^ Agree.

    Actually, I wouldn't pay over $50 for "just a guy friend".
  • leo
    edited September 2008
    that's more or less the amount of money I spend on my girlfriend in a year... by the way we've been having an awesome relationship for three years :teeth:
  • edited September 2008
    it's the a. keys concert. iran so you're saying i should just ignore her for now?
  • edited September 2008
    No man should want to go to an alicia keys concert.
  • edited September 2008
    JayDub;37047 said:
    No man should want to go to an alicia keys concert.
    second that
  • edited September 2008
    Dang, I should've ask "what kind of gay-ass concert is this?"
  • edited September 2008
    And you want to try and impress this girl by taking her to an Alicia Keys concert???

    Good luck buddy, you are going to need it. She will probably only consider you a friend after this because she will think you are a homosexual.

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