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What is it with girls and digging through cells phones?

edited December 2006 in General
Pretty much every girl I talk to asks sooner or later(most when they've just met me) to see my phone. Some will put their number in without asking, which I dont mind, but then they and all others go digging through the phone, checking out my music, my pictures, text messages, who's in my address book, whatever. I mean, I dont really have anything to hide, but I dont ask to dig through their phone, which would be like digging through their purse(many also ask to see my wallet)
How do I avoid this without being a dick about it? I mean, i dont care that they leave their number there, but if it means them going through my shit then I'd rather ask for their number.

Comments

  • edited December 2006
    Lol, what a bunch of prying girls. Tell them that's your personal shit.

    I personally wouldn't care if a chick did go through my phone though. I've got nothing to hide there.

    If she went through my closet or my computer though, then there would be some intervention.
  • edited December 2006
    they just want a shortcut. something faster to get to know about you a bit more.

    say you got lots of guys txting you hate txts and shit, they know you're a shitstarter etc

    or in your wallet you carry around a condom, then its up to their own interpretation yeknow
  • edited December 2006
    cell phone=tracking device...

    I always leave mine at home when I go to school, I found pay phone better:shade:
  • edited December 2006
    No girls go through my cell phone. They would ask for my number and they would give me there's but it's not like they even call. I usually just ask for their email if I have to contact them.
  • edited December 2006
    haha thats like guys going through my purse...i dont know why they do it, but it doesnt really bother me.
  • edited December 2006
    talula said:
    haha thats like guys going through my purse...i dont know why they do it, but it doesnt really bother me.
    My friend punched me when I tried to go through her purse once your surpisnglly lenient :secret:
  • hta
    edited December 2006
    it is a very good thing that i dont have a cellphone
  • edited December 2006
    i don't mind people going through my cellphone.. but i have a problem with guys going through my purse.. usually i just tell them i have pads in there.. XP
  • Pro
    edited December 2006
    really as a guy i don't see a big deal if there are pads in a girl's purse.. we're not dumb, we know what happens to you once a month, it's nature, and i don't see the shame/embarassment in it... given that it's not a used one of course
  • Pro
    edited December 2006
    da_prodigy said:
    Lol, what a bunch of prying girls. Tell them that's your personal shit.

    I personally wouldn't care if a chick did go through my phone though. I've got nothing to hide there.

    If she went through my closet or my computer though, then there would be some intervention.

    computer i can somewhat *cough*pr0n*cough* understand... but CLOSET? what's in YOUR closet?!
  • Pro
    edited December 2006
    oh shiet.. i'm going off topic.. but yeah back to the topic... yeah i try to not to leave anything too personal on my phone unless i want a girl who i know will be going through my phone to see it.. it's amazing to see how the would react if they see pics of you with another girl or interesting texts from another girl who is "only a friend"
  • edited December 2006
    Pro said:
    really as a guy i don't see a big deal if there are pads in a girl's purse.. we're not dumb, we know what happens to you once a month, it's nature, and i don't see the shame/embarassment in it... given that it's not a used one of course
    well pro.. some guys get squeamish when they see one.. and the point was just to deter them from going thru my purse.. so as long as it does its primary job and the secondary one.. it's going to stay in there.. =)
  • edited December 2006
    The funny thing is, I've tried looking through my (ex) gf's purse a couple times and just seeing a pad makes me freak out and drop the bloody thing...so i guess it works ahaha
  • edited December 2006
    lol who in their right mind would put a used pad in their purse

    lol
  • edited December 2006
    talula said:
    lol who in their right mind would put a used pad in their purse
    you're right.. who would? i was talking about new pads in case i misled anyone there..
  • edited December 2006
    talula said:
    lol who in their right mind would put a used pad in their purse
    you're right.. who would? i was talking about new pads in case i misled anyone there..=)
  • edited December 2006
    I would never let a girl touch my cell phone! And I use the term "girl" loosely
  • edited December 2006
    Pro said:
    computer i can somewhat *cough*pr0n*cough* understand... but CLOSET? what's in YOUR closet?!
    the same thing...
  • edited December 2006
    haha ew porn is so gross:tongue:
  • edited December 2006
    ha.. ironic you got a PB signature there jenny.. =P hehehe..

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