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Social networking

edited December 2009 in General
Well I already posted about how I dislike 'my generation' but on a related note.. does anyone else have a great disdain for social networking? I know, it's ironic. This is a forum after all. I like forums. I like posting on imdb. Between 2000-2004 I even liked IRC. But since then I have pretty much totally ignored msn messenger / chat / yahoo messenger / etc. I don't have a facebook. I don't have a myspace.
I don't just not have them but I actually hate them. I hate how people waste so much time on facebook and myspace sending each other little glittery pics that just say WASSUUP?!? It really annoys me when I go to a lecture and 90% of the class is on their laptops checking their facebooks. Then they complain that they didn't get As. Isn't it obvious?
There's just something about networking that seems wrong, so fake, and like McDonald's employees when they tell you to have "a nice day". It's all about people you don't really know, having thousands of acquaintances you rarely even see, and wasting time.
I don't think it's good.

Comments

  • edited December 2009
    I think it's great. I have met so many great people through social networking. Social media in general has opened up so many doors and opportunities for me and overall, I think it's just a great way of communication. During the end of September and October, I was offered a position as a style blogger for The Style Spy. Blogging, by the way, is a huge trend right now and honestly, one of the easiest "jobs" ever. The stint was great as everything was done online via email and Twitter and I only had to meet in person with the editors once which was extremely convenient for me and the other contributors due to our busy schedules.

    The whole point of social media is to make things more convenient for us which is also the point of updating technology. But then again and as you stated earlier, older forms of communication (ie. phoning someone or MSN) are becoming obsolete.

    Sounds like you're living in the wrong generation... or just need to adapt to the new times! Haha.
  • edited December 2009
    Yes to some extent I feel like I am stuck in the past despite being young!
    I think blogging is actually a good thing because it involves sitting down and writing about an opinion, event, etc. But social networking not so much - since it involves collecting 'friends' like trophies.
  • edited December 2009
    But it's not about collecting friends like trophies. I don't know how many friends I have on facebook/twitter/whatever. Nor do I care.

    When a friend wants to plan a party, they create a facebook event, and invite everyone. It's a handy, central checklist of who's going and who's not going. It provides information and a wall for people to post messages on.

    It's the same for sharing videos, or links. Rather than msn everyone on your contact list: "hey look at this interesting article", you can just post it on facebook or twitter instead.

    It's a useful tool, and that's all.
  • edited December 2009
    xxk1nky;62548 said:
    During the end of September and October, I was offered a position as a style blogger for The Style Spy. Blogging, by the way, is a huge trend right now and honestly, one of the easiest "jobs" ever. The stint was great as everything was done online via email and Twitter and I only had to meet in person with the editors once which was extremely convenient for me and the other contributors due to our busy schedules.
    Oh god, don't get me started on the whole blogging thing, which I dub hack-journalism.

    The whole blogging plague has pretty much killed off what was left of proper well grounded journalism. It's the system of "getting the news out first" that really ruins the entire blogging experience. When your site's revenue depends on being the first to report something, then you don't have time for fact checking, copy editing, or even competent writing. What you end up with is a lot of hack writers pumping up the slightest rumours just to get page count. Journalism has pretty much been transformed into mindless regurgitation of information.

    Granted, there are a few blog writers who do excellent content driven work, but that's mostly because their sites are nestled in niche markets. The mass majority of major blogging sites are all just a place where a bunch of news editors rush out hot information to the public without any consideration for quality.
  • edited December 2009
    Meh. Facebook is nice but I don't see the desire or attraction in spending ages on it. To each his or her own. :)
  • edited December 2009
    To me, Facebook degraded in value when the apps started appearing.
  • edited December 2009
    ^no, it's when they let people other than university students join.
  • edited December 2009
    ^yeah! back in the day they only allowed ppl with university emails to sign up :/

    and to OP, i think u are stressing out on stuff that really shouldnt concern u, u use words like 'hate' on things that you can just choose not to involve yourself with
    maybe spend time on improving your own quality of life, rather than hating on things that other ppl enjoy

    social networking/media wont go away any time soon, if anything, its gonna get bigger, much bigger
  • edited December 2009
    Oh how I wish I lived in the Dark Ages when all it took to get a message like "O EM GEE, EFF EM EL, my mother-in-law walked in on my husband and I..." to your friends were a few good horses, some trusted messenger boys, and good weather.

    Why oh why can't we revive those times.
  • edited December 2009
    I love farmville.
  • edited December 2009
    mafia wars all the way
  • edited December 2009
    mafia wars and tycoon$, fun stuff

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