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Slept with my roomy on rez

johnny
edited April 2008 in General
fck last weekend i got totatly wasted and had sex with mah roomate and now its just freakin wierd Now its just awkward. I would just say hi 2 her and stuff like its usual. The worst part is that I have a girlfriend. fck its so fck up its not even funnie. ***in acholhol and weed...
any1 been in this situation plllzzz help me.....I think i gotta move out
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  • NukeChem
    edited November 2006
    Quit panicking. People make dumb mistakes like that every day. The challenge is to take stock of the situation and smooth things out. So...

    Step 1. The obvious - did you use a condom? Was she on the pill? STD tests?

    Step 2. Talk to her. Make it clear that you consider it to have not been one of your finer moments, and that you'd really like to keep the situation on a roommate level as opposed to a roommate-with-benefits level.

    Step 3. The girlfriend. You need to figure out for yourself if it's worth telling her or not. What should sway your decision is whether your roomie might feel tempted to blab it around to someone else or to the girlfriend. Damage control and all, you know...

    Anyway, keep your spirits up, it ain't the end of the world. :)
  • Steven
    edited November 2006
    Isn't your girlfriend concerned that your roommate is a girl in the first place?
  • guess4lifeguess4life
    edited November 2006
    wow, he sounds retarded.....seriously, he does. Learn to spell, for the love of God!! Don't blame alcohol and weed...blame yourself. Hopefully your gf finds out and dumps you.
  • CollegeDude
    edited November 2006
    There's no easy out in this scenario. Be a man, step up and tell your GF what happened. It sucks but it's better than lying. It's the only chance you have at keeping a shred of trust and self-respect in the relationship.

    As for your roommate you guys need to talk about it and find out what/how it happened.

    Don't blame it on the weed/booze.
  • johnny
    edited November 2006
    wow havent u people like live with any1 thats soo hott and u just wanted to fckd them......I just try to enjoy life like it is.
  • guess4lifeguess4life
    edited November 2006
    Just cuz there is someone hot, it doesn't mean you should go and sleep with them. Have some self control.
  • Tinana
    edited November 2006
    guess4life said:
    Just cuz there is someone hot, it doesn't mean you should go and sleep with them. Have some self control.
    I agree with ya.

    You should honestly blame yourself.
  • jat3
    edited November 2006
    pics of your roommate or ban
  • siuying
    edited November 2006
    lol.. well what can i say?? had a good fu*ck? i agree with what most people said here.. don't blame it on alcohol and weed.. and cheers to guess4life for pointing it out.. you don't sleep with someone just because they're hot..
  • nipples
    edited November 2006
    tell ur gf, and let her cheat on you once so you guys will be even. y'know what, normally i wouldnt be so selfless...but tell u what i'll do...i'll sleep with ur gf to make your relshp with her better
  • OrphanBoy
    edited November 2006
    Is your roomy hot?

    How about your gf?

    lol, j/k dude.
  • andysh
    edited December 2007
    why would you post this type of thing on the internet? wouldn't your girlfriend find out?

    sorry about this but i didnt know this site a year ago.
  • Student0667
    edited December 2007
    You should confess honestly to your girlfriend and suffer the consequence. By the way, you are one of the Townhouse guys, are you?
  • NukeChem
    edited December 2007
    Damn, an old thread. I wonder if the guy ever worked it out with the roomie and the gf, heh.
  • DaNoobie
    edited December 2007
    well hes pretty much stopped posting here, so I'm gonna go with his gf found out and buried him in a shallow grave, and theres no wireless connection down there
  • illicit
    edited December 2007
    jat3;2780 said:
    pics of your roommate or ban
    you can tell he's from revs too.
  • imelting
    edited December 2007
    it was rather ironic he would post this with a nice pic of him on his avatar as well
  • Kami
    edited December 2007
    imelting;20001 said:
    it was rather ironic he would post this with a nice pic of him on his avatar as well
    haha I was thinking the EXACT same thing; Im assuming his GF isnt in SFU, and never uses talksfu or checks it, or doesnt have internet connection!, coz posting a pic is rather bold hey ! :))

    I agree to other people that have posted here about you sittuation Sir, talk to your girl friend, but fix the mess with your roomate first..if you can blame it on booz and weed then dont be shy, tell your roomate you blame it on booz and weed and you love your gf etc, although it seems to me the booz and weed were an excuse to shag the "hot roomate" you always wanted to do, and maybe ..just maybe..being under the influence was an apportunity .. never the less, you realize its a mistake..and want to save your relationship..which is brave and a step forward towards fixing the mess..so do what needs to be done and stand up to your mistakes like a man..evryone does mistakes..its ok.. but not evryone learns from there mistakes yah.

    I truely believe in the toughest sittations the true colours of people shine, tough sittations are always a challange with ones self to check if they practice what they preech, if they stick to there morals or chose to follow there desires... bla bla...anyway...enough of my philosophy, talk to the girls kiddo and take responsibilty for your actions..

    Good luck!
  • Kami
    edited December 2007
    imelting;20001 said:
    it was rather ironic he would post this with a nice pic of him on his avatar as well
    haha I was thinking the EXACT same thing; Im assuming his GF isnt in SFU, and never uses talksfu or checks it, or doesnt have internet connection!, coz posting a pic is rather bold hey ! :))

    I agree to other people that have posted here about you sittuation Sir, talk to your girl friend, but fix the mess with your roomate first..if you can blame it on booz and weed then dont be shy, tell your roomate you blame it on booz and weed and you love your gf etc, although it seems to me the booz and weed were an excuse to shag the "hot roomate" you always wanted to do, and maybe ..just maybe..being under the influence was an apportunity .. never the less, you realize its a mistake..and want to save your relationship..which is brave and a step forward towards fixing the mess..so do what needs to be done and stand up to your mistakes like a man..evryone does mistakes..its ok.. but not evryone learns from there mistakes yah.

    I truely believe in the toughest sittations the true colours of people shine, tough sittations are always a challange with ones self to check if they practice what they preech, if they stick to there morals or chose to follow there desires...so use this as an apportunity to be fair... bla bla...:secret: anyway...enough of my philosophy, Bottom line...talk to the girls kiddo and take responsibilty for your actions..

    Good luck!
  • Kami
    edited December 2007
    Kami;20042 said:
    do what needs to be done and stand up to your mistakes like a man..
    Good luck!

    which reminds me of Russel Peters famous line "Be a man" :))) loooooooool just messin,

    No seriously, I was serious about what i said !
  • baby e
    edited December 2007
    LOLOL at this thread.

    What a moron.

    You know what, I hope he DID tell his gf and that she cut off his penis with a knife. Thats the punishment that all cheaters should get.

    :)
  • Morro
    edited December 2007
    LOL.

    I love how confused he was. "Wha... what... what do I do?!?" As though it's a riddle. :p The best part was when he claimed that he just likes to "enjoy life like that," right after having flipped his lid in the previous post. Yes, you seem to enjoy life quite a bit.
  • Jimmy
    edited December 2007
    baby e;20055 said:
    LOLOL at this thread.

    What a moron.

    You know what, I hope he DID tell his gf and that she cut off his penis with a knife. Thats the punishment that all cheaters should get.

    :)
    You know penis' grow back right? lol

    i think its been over 6 months by now....probably has a baby and is too busy to be posting on here

    Ps. I wish i could sleep with my roomy:omg:
  • Master Of Illusion
    edited December 2007
    Animal or man, feral or thinker, choices and consequences, if you are an animal you will continue the tauri excrementi behavior of immature feral sexual encounters with roommate, et al, etc, and face the consequences. From which you will hopefully learn to be a man, who can become a thinker, that can see what choices are in front of him and make the right decision for himself. (where applicable use : she, in places where you are a woman).

    May all your decisions not be feral in disguise! Cheers.
  • callonmeee
    edited April 2008
    this proves it... boys are stupid, throw rocks at them.

    LOL at this thread for the guy who posted his problem with horrible grammar and an avatar of himself. Some of the replies in this thread are just plain awesome.

    I bet this gf is looong gone after she realized what a pathetic loser this guy is...
  • vonnie
    edited April 2008
    Way to bump at 2007 thread.
  • IVTIVT
    edited April 2008
    deadhorse.jpg
  • siuying
    edited April 2008
    hmm... is that a horse or a deer?

    just wondering... o"o
  • IVTIVT
    edited April 2008
    dead horse
  • baby e
    edited April 2008
    callonmeee;26087 said:
    boys are stupid, throw rocks at them.

    Hahaa, I bought a shirt that said that line a loooooong time ago.

    lol good times.

    lgst3241+boys-are-stupid-throw-rocks-at-

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