Hey guys,
The problem i'm having is that there's this girl I always see in the gym. We've checked each other out a few times and she smiles at me whenever I see her. I want to approach her and ask her out but this is kinda hard in the gym.
Any suggestions?
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"Well that was a tough work out, let's hit the showers"
"excuse me, I'm filming a music video for eric prydz and I was wondering if you could.."
"hey, whats a woman like you doing here?"
"what do you mean?"
"Why aren't you cooking or cleaning!"
just when you see her doing an exercise, just ask if you can work in on the machine with her, then wham bam thank you ma'am. you got your conversation starter.
just don't pick some woman exercise like the inner/outer thigh machine lol.
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On the other hand, if the girl the OP is talking about is smiling every time they meet and checking him out like he said (and it's not just in his imagination), she's probably interested. In that case, I don't see why it would be creepy if he said hi.
"mang" has nothing to do with chinese accents..
it was made popular by scarface and mexican gangs..
"Joo cang tuch me, mang! Latino kangs!"
man have I had that happen too many times...
"Those weights look awfully heavy for you, are you sure you can handle it?"
this will spark a conversation.
Don't say "I'll spot you" allow her to suggest it.
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Smile, look straight in the eyes as you're talking obviously - make her feel you're confident as opposed to insecure. Be funny.. tell a funny story.. grab her attention.. but at the same time make it so that she needs/wants you.. not that you want/need her... ie: act disinterested (not indifferent.. there's a difference), tease her.. etc..
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Make sure you end the conversation, not her, this kinda shit gets girls thinking. Make it seem like you've got a lot of things happening for you.. girls enjoy exciting people - dull people suck.
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The rest is up to you.
you have two routes to go down:
1) "Hey, how are you doing?"
a) Her: "Im good, how are you" - She asks you something back, shes probably interested
b) Her: "I'm good" - Full stop, she doesnt ask you anything, she isnt interested, move on
If she answers back then proceed to ask her something else, dont patronize her with something dumb like her needing your help to lift something, trust me thatll get you nowhere besides slutty chicks with no personality who will giggle after you use that line
I mean if she is smiling like the OP says shes either doing it because she feels uncomfortable cause hes staring, or because she likes him, theres no need ot use corny ass lines
i just flex really hard while pumpin the iron till my face goes red
usually girls hit on me after taking a fresh wiff of my manly bodily fumes
It would probably be a good idea to try this ^^ approach on some strangers first to 1) raise your confidence 2) if you mess it up you can always analyze your mistakes and not make them next time and not make them on the girl you're trying to ask out. Besides, if you can't do a good job doing this on a stranger, how do you expect to do a good job when you're talking to her?
Most importantly, have fun, because if you ain't, she won't either!
Good luck buddy. :smile:
You know what, it's cool. You can stop caring now.
sounds too easy but see how she feeds off that and take it from there :)
take it from there :)