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stupid guys
hey ya'll
i seriously hate guys they are such pricks
ok so my bf thinks that hes superior to me and that guys are always superior to girls and he has major double standard about things. hes in denial bout it but i know it for a fact because in multiple scenarios that have happened both to me and to him the way he handles it is totally different. ie. say its about goin out to a club wit some friends. if its him that wants to go out and do that, its supposed to be fine and i shuoldnt butt in and he knows what hes doin and i cant tell him what to do. ok fine whatever but when the tables are turned and its me who wants to go answer is NO! no reasons given no nothin and if i say what the hell u cant tell me what to do either especially when no reasons r given.. he gets mad at me and says he doesnt want a gf that goes out.. when i say ok but i told u i dont like it when u go out either why should i have to put up wit a bf that does... and he doesnt care he says fine then dont go out wit me!
ok so i tell him he needs to change he needs to find some sort of compromise here cuz im starting to really feel worthless here and hes so stubborn he says hes never changing and if i cant accept how he is then i shuldnt be wit him.. and ive accepted it for a year and half i kept hopin maybe hell try to change at least for my sake so i can feel better bout myself at least feel like a damn equal.. i was jus tryin to make him a better person and make our relationship better
so what does that show? that he doesnt love me right
i seriously hate guys they are such pricks
ok so my bf thinks that hes superior to me and that guys are always superior to girls and he has major double standard about things. hes in denial bout it but i know it for a fact because in multiple scenarios that have happened both to me and to him the way he handles it is totally different. ie. say its about goin out to a club wit some friends. if its him that wants to go out and do that, its supposed to be fine and i shuoldnt butt in and he knows what hes doin and i cant tell him what to do. ok fine whatever but when the tables are turned and its me who wants to go answer is NO! no reasons given no nothin and if i say what the hell u cant tell me what to do either especially when no reasons r given.. he gets mad at me and says he doesnt want a gf that goes out.. when i say ok but i told u i dont like it when u go out either why should i have to put up wit a bf that does... and he doesnt care he says fine then dont go out wit me!
ok so i tell him he needs to change he needs to find some sort of compromise here cuz im starting to really feel worthless here and hes so stubborn he says hes never changing and if i cant accept how he is then i shuldnt be wit him.. and ive accepted it for a year and half i kept hopin maybe hell try to change at least for my sake so i can feel better bout myself at least feel like a damn equal.. i was jus tryin to make him a better person and make our relationship better
so what does that show? that he doesnt love me right
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just give up on him, u can do so much better.
but yeah i guess jenny shouldnt state thats as a general comment.. just the way ur bf is acting is very stupid and old fashioned
Me, personally, I think it's a load. But maybe I'm just a different kind of guy than your bf is. I don't see any problem with a woman speaking her mind and if we both decide on something I'm not gonna be a hypocrite and not allow us to follow the same outcome that I was able to. Honestly I just think your bf is insecure because ur super hot or he got bullied in school and hence wants to be in control now, since he never had the chance growing up.
In the end, it's not your fault hes like this and not willing to change. All he's going to do is bring you down from things you want to accomplish in life and make u a slave to his wishes.. this isn't the middle east and its not 100 years ago if he can't see that, at least you should.. and leave him
actions speak louder than words
If he's controlling you beyond reason, it's only going to get perpetually worse. Wanting you to stay home because he "doesn't want a girlfriend that goes out" is pretty damn unreasonable. If he was concerned about your safety, or the place you were going, or maybe that you have a test tomorrow, that would all be reasonable and you could discuss it like adults.
Since he sounds like a crazy control-freak, you should escape while you can. Find someone who respects you!
and you're not a miracle worker...you cant change ppl. even if they said they've changed, they havent.
like the cliche, you're supposed to like someone for who they are, not to mention LOVING them right?
secondly, you cant just say i love you, you gots to prove it yeknow?
Why wouldn't you leave someone that youre not happy with?? Staying would be a total waste of time...
(why you bashing me?!?!)