Did i just get rejected?

IVT

I was talking to this girl online* and i casually suggested that we go see Forgetting Sarah Marshall. We both think its a good movie. She said that she was too busy to watch movies.

It should be obvious but here's the catch: she works A LOT so maybe she is that busy.

Should i take this as a "no" or should i try something else later? I'm really confused right now:confused:

A question for the girls: how can I tell whether a girl is interested or just too nice to tell me to get lost? :confused:

kthxbye


*We've been chatting since September and yes, we have met before

Morro

If she was busy she would say "no, BUT" and then suggest a different time or activity. But simply saying "No, too busy" with no alternative suggested, is just a no.

Sorry. :(

callonmeee

sorry, but that's a plain ol' rejection.

siuying

agree with what morro said.. if a girl is honestly interested in you.. she would go out of her way to make sure you fit into her schedule.. as busy as she is..

so yeah.. i would say that's a rejection.. but.. if you believe otherwise.. try suggesting something else later.. you'll know for sure when the same answer (or a similar one) pops up.. hope this helps.. =)

illicit

siuying;27968 said:

agree with what morro said.. if a girl is honestly interested in you.. she would go out of her way to make sure you fit into her schedule.. as busy as she is..

that's why from what i've learned if i asked once and she said no, i refuse to continue and ask to reschedule it. otherwise the girl thinks you're desperate.


^ did i get this right?

toast

it sucks, I know... :(

randomuser

too busy to watch movies is definately a cop out as previously stated if someone is interested they will suggest an alternative

maybe she doesnt know you well enough, or even she does shes just not interested in what she knows

IVT

toast;27970 said:

it sucks, I know... :(

well, shit....

yeah i'll try something else later

Furia101

orr maybe just move on. (usually better)

Ether

If she was busy she would say "no, BUT" and then suggest a different time or activity. But simply saying "No, too busy" with no alternative suggested, is just a no.

I beg to differ..

I asked this one girl out to a movie. She gave me her number and said she was busy, but maybe some other time. Then I asked her two more times in the next few weeks with the same response before I took the hint. Apparently "another time" is "never".

Kevin M.

burrnnn buddy

imelting

lol keep your head up, just a girl

move on

vonnie

Kevin M.;27984 said:

burrnnn buddy

Poor guy :(
Don't be mean!

It's doesn't hurt to try again~! =D

Iran1988

you got raped.

toast

try it for a second time after few weeks, if it's still a no, then forget it

siuying

illicit;27969 said:

that's why from what i've learned if i asked once and she said no, i refuse to continue and ask to reschedule it. otherwise the girl thinks you're desperate.


^ did i get this right?

pretty much.. but some girls do like to turn down the first time.. =) just to see if the guy is sincere/have enough guts to ask again.. i wouldn't consider asking a 2nd time as desperate because things don't always work out right.. especially when it's totally unexpected.. anything after a 3rd rejection would be desperate in my books..

Jimmy

you got rejected

randomuser

but maybe some other time is basically the same thing in the general picture

if interested she will suggest a time, the word 'maybe' is generally a bad sign

ive used maybe a lot, just cause you get maybe'd once doesnt mean its over for good, sometimes i just dont know people well enough or what i know of their personality does not intrigue me

baby e

Try again another time, if you get the same response, its a definite no.

JayDub

It's a no but I also suggest don't ask a girl out over msn.

IVT

JayDub;28047 said:

I also suggest don't ask a girl out over msn.

well obviously its not a good way, but in this case there is no other way:sad:

lazyGUY

U can ask her out again without seeming desperate, just make sure u ask in a casual way (somewhere you can still go without her, but u ask if she wants to tagalong), and make sure its not to another movie or wtvr lol.

randomuser

JayDub;28047 said:

It's a no but I also suggest don't ask a girl out over msn.

Yes its a lot harder for a girl to reject you in person :shade:

siuying

^lol.. really? i don't find it so.. atleast i could read his body language and facial expressions to see what's going on through his mind.. who knows if he's going to take it seriously or not.. =\

JayDub

randomuser;28084 said:

Yes its a lot harder for a girl to reject you in person :shade:

Haha this makes me think of all those guys who ask girls to marry them on tv because you know she could not say no there.

jonathann*

lazyGUY;28058 said:

U can ask her out again without seeming desperate, just make sure u ask in a casual way (somewhere you can still go without her, but u ask if she wants to tagalong), and make sure its not to another movie or wtvr lol.

Ask them out casually at first, and gradually ask them to dinner or something.

Lixie

A question for the girls: how can I tell whether a girl is interested or just too nice to tell me to get lost?

If you're confident and have something to offer, she is interested; if you're lacking in several departments, then she is too nice to tell you to go away.

IVT

But I do know one thing though
Bitches they come, they go
Saturday through Sunday Monday
Monday through Sunday yo


good song:teeth:

Makall

I think it's cause her cover was blown.

The person you thought was her was actually her cousin. And her cousin sure as hell doesn't want to date you.

She still wants to maintain her online friendship with you but she doesn't want you to know how grotesquely disgustingly vile and ugly she really is.