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Guy Question
My sister swears that guys are actually attracted to high-maintenance kind of girls. Ones that play head games and demand all the attention, and whine and such. I am NOT high maintenance, if anything I'm more of a tomboy and prefer hanging out to fancy dinners. I think she's full of it, because a lot of guys I know are turned off by high maintenance. Which one of us is right?
Comments
Also, attractiveness has a lot to do with self-confidence and how you project yourself. A lot of high-maintenance sorts are just full of confidence (maybe a little too much :P) and so make themselves very attractive.
In the end, the types of guys that go for the high-maintenance gals due to "hot"ness are not the guys you want yourself. They are all about flavor-of-the-week, so to speak.
But this is just my opinon so take it with a grain of salt. I'm like you - a tomboy. If I'm high maintenance in anything, it's my anime collection.
They dont want someone that wants them to constantly buy things and is constantly ragging on them (unless they were a doormat to begin with).