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Question for the guys and girls

randomuser
edited January 2008 in General
If you buy a girl a drink at a bar whom you do not know, what do you expect?

If they arent interested are they supposed to send the drink back or can we keep it as a nice gesture?

And girls what have you done in the past in this situation, I always kept the drink even if I wasnt interested, why should forcing rejection be my job, I think a smile suffices

Comments

  • DaNoobie
    edited January 2008
    "yah... I'm gonna need that drink back!"

    Just kidding
  • randomuser
    edited January 2008
    i had some guy get bitchy with me at the roxy the other night i was shocked i woulda threw it at him if i hadnt downed it
  • baby e
    edited January 2008
    I have always accepted the drink, and then made up some excuse as to why i couldnt stand there and chit chat with him, such as:

    "Thanks. I have to go to the bathroom."
    "Thanks. I have to go find my friends now."
    "Thanks. Oh there's my bf!"
    "Thanks. Bye!"
  • randomuser
    edited January 2008
    i tried this guy got like all in my face until some guy told him to fuck off, ive never had this happen before. he kept running his mouth i think he was a bit drunk
  • siuying
    edited January 2008
    most of the guys who buy me drinks are mutual friends.. or a friend of a friend's so all in all.. things don't usually get as ugly as that.. but if it was some random guy.. yes i would take the drink (as long as it's something i like or feeling for) and if i ever got into a situation like yours.. i would've punched the daylights out of him even though i'll probably complain about the ugly bruise afterwards.. but yup totally worth it.. =D
  • Morro
    edited January 2008
    If he buys the drink and sends it over, the drink is bought and that's that. If he comes over and offers to buy you a drink, and you're not interested, you're obligated to turn it down. If you let him spend money on you while having no intention of continuing to talk to him, that's just bitchy.

    But again, if the drink is already bought then that's that. Drink up. :)
  • baby e
    edited January 2008
    randomuser;20898 said:
    i tried this guy got like all in my face until some guy told him to fuck off, ive never had this happen before. he kept running his mouth i think he was a bit drunk
    Ugh, what a jerk. Not cool when that happens. I would have just yelled as loud as i could and it would have drawn attention from everyone else around.

    And then i would have thrown the drink at him. :)
  • vonnie
    edited January 2008
    Haha.. I wouldn't know. Never happened... because I don't go clubbing.
    Hmm...
  • jackandjerry
    edited January 2008
    I don't go to clubbing often but one time I was at this club called A******S, this girl came up to me and asked me to buy a drink for her....and I just say "sorry, but I am just busy right now" and then she just walked away from me and disappeared into the crowd. In conclusion, I think if a guy buys a girl a drink then that means a guy wants to get down with the girl obviously. and if she accepts the drink then she is obligated to return a favor to the guy.
  • no_one_cares
    edited January 2008
    If I send a drink over to a girl, it will be some girl drink. Keep that shit, like I am going to be caught finishing it off myself. Pff...
  • no_one_cares
    edited January 2008
    baby e;20897 said:

    "Thanks. I have to go to the bathroom."
    OK, I'll meet you there in 15 seconds - I am so lucky to have met you! :angel:
  • siuying
    edited January 2008
    jackandjerry;20918 said:
    I don't go to clubbing often but one time I was at this club called A******S, this girl came up to me and asked me to buy a drink for her....and I just say "sorry, but I am just busy right now" and then she just walked away from me and disappeared into the crowd. In conclusion, I think if a guy buys a girl a drink then that means a guy wants to get down with the girl obviously. and if she accepts the drink then she is obligated to return a favor to the guy.
    is the club by chance on richards? ^________^
    hahaha.. =P

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