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Do women Prefer the Nice Guy or the Bad Boy?

da_prodigy
edited December 2007 in General
Do women prefer the bad boy when there younger?
When they get older they look for the nice guy?


What do they really want? Do they even know?

Comments

  • Morro
    edited December 2007
    Few chicks ever prefer a "bad boy." They just like guys with confidence and drive, which are things you'll usually find in a total d-bag. Too often guys confuse being "nice" with being a "pussy." A nice guy who is confident and has self-esteem is better than a bad-boy any day.
  • tere_lai
    edited December 2007
    What do you even consider a "bad boy"? A drug-dealer? Haha. If that's the case, the girl we're talking about probably ain't so good herself...I guess what I'm saying is that I dont think girls like bad boys in particular...but people with similar moral backgrounds often times pair up.
  • Broken Lizard
    edited December 2007
    Morro is correct, for the most part.
    I'm sure some are turned on by nerds with low self-esteem, and others who like the pricks that spit all over everyone, lol.

    of course im a guy, so who knows, lol.
  • IVTIVT
    edited December 2007
    ^so where do the nerds with the high self esteem fit in?
  • Broken Lizard
    edited December 2007
    a nice guy who is confident. lol
  • Kevin M.Kevin M.
    edited December 2007
    depends on how you define "nice guy" and "bad boy".

    women don't want a "nice" wussy submissive guys that sucks up to them, basically gives up all their power, can't stand up for themselves, always tries to make her happy

    women want men that are confident, strong, leaders, bold, dominant, capable of standing up to themselves, uncontrollable, unpredictable, etc; and in doing so, sometimes you will come off as a "bad boy" or jerk.

    be assertive, not passive.
  • illicit
    edited December 2007
    oh. so being spineless isn't what girls are looking for. i understand.

    i joke. i despise those guys , basically waiting on hands and knees for their girlfriends next demand.

    so ladies, define some traits of confidence, eg. the guy calling the girl (before official relationship)
  • Morro
    edited December 2007
    I know a guy who left hanging out with his buddies (me included) to go to the pizza place to pick up a take-out order his girlfriend had put in, drove the pizza to their place, then came back to his house to continue hanging out.

    That was the moment I lost all respect for him. heh
  • Master Of Illusion
    edited December 2007
    Try asking the one you are interested in...maybe she'll give some insight to what she is looking for at present. That could change in the future. Today the so-called 'Bad Boy', tomorrow the so-called 'Nice Guy'. As far as I am concerned, I will only go out with the woman who takes the time to get to know me. So if the (woman/girl) doesn't have the confidence to strike up a meaningful conversation that doesn't involve the latest trends in beauty, fashion, modeling, music, or otherwise following the crowd; then she should take the time to grow up and get some life experience. Other then that each to their own. :)

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