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tell me if this girl likes me

Kevin M.Kevin M.
edited July 2007 in General
Ok, this girl always invites me to events, writes me messages on facebook, and talks to me when I am with her..but sometimes it also seems she is trying to avoid me..like she used to study in the quiet room in the dorm and I used to see her often but now I rarely see her. I don't know if she likes me and I am confused..help me out.

Comments

  • JohnnyBoy
    edited April 2007
    try asking her out on a date. Seriously people, to anyone asking stuff like this, just go out there and live. If she doesn't like you, that sucks and if she does...great. you know, even if you never ask her out or if she likes you, she still will have the same opinion in her head. Don't be afraid because that's just delaying the inevitable.
  • toast
    edited April 2007
    probably see you as a friend
  • Pro
    edited May 2007
    she's playing you hot and cold!
  • Steven
    edited May 2007
    Just ask..
  • illicit
    edited May 2007
    cat and mouse. and she wants to be the mouse. now be the cat and pounce on her.
  • toast
    edited May 2007
    i say mouse trap haha
  • vik_lane
    edited July 2007
    You're pretty much describing what I do to the guy I like, fwiw.
  • Morro
    edited July 2007
    Note to guys: If you ask a female friend out, and she rejects you, you're NO WORSE OFF. Girls are usually capable of shrugging it off and going back to being friends. So, you can not ask them out and definitely stay friends. Or you can ask them out, and maybe get with them, or maybe stay friends. Where's the downside?
  • vik_lane
    edited July 2007
    I'm thinking the lack of sex. lol.
  • baby e
    edited July 2007
    1) invites you to events: does she invite other people as well? If so, then that doesnt necessarily means she likes you.

    2) writes on your facebook: what does she write? That can be very important in determining if she likes you. I write on guy friend's facebooks all the time....i dont like them tho.

    3) talks to you when you two are together: well yes, most people talk to each other when they are together, otherwise there would just be silence. Again, it doesnt mean that she likes you.

    4) the studying thing: maybe she's really busy and is involved in other things...or has a bf and goes out with him when she used to study.

    You have to look out for her body language, that will tell you. Does she touch your arm or leg a lot? Stuff like that. Seriously tho, just ask her out, or else you will be wondering for a very long time. Good luck.

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