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Mama's Boy
ARGGGGGGGGGH.
I am so effin' pissed off right now.
My bf is visiting from Waterloo for his reading break.
He already went to Calgary (our home town) to visit relatives and hang out with his parents for 4 days.
Then he arrived in Vancouver a couple of days ago.
We only have tomorrow and friday to spend together. and it's not even for the whole day. It's basically just 4-5 hours.
I've asked him to at least have lunch with me on either tomorrow or friday but he has refused to just because his mom won't let him. Like WTF.
He says that his mom says he needs to spend more time with his parents. They have spent like a week together already. I only get a couple hours for 2 days to spend with him.
And he visits once every 2-3 months. SO FKING ANNOYING.
ARGHHGHGH.
Seriously, I hate how he never stands up for himself.
He's legal now yet she still makes all his decisions for him.
Whenever I tell him that, he threatens to break up with me because I've somehow "insulted" his parents.
I really admire the respect he has for his parents but seriously. I just want to spend a few more hours with him. (He leaves on Saturday by the way).
It's not fair. And he supposedly say its fair. he's like "what makes you think you deserve half of the time I am on my vacation?"
LIKE WTF. It's not even half the time. Not even close. He gets to see his parents for a week. I get to see him for a couple of hours. It's not fair. and he yells at me because he says I'm counting it wrong. "THe time that I've spent in Calgary with my parents do not count". How the fk does it not count??!! Either its in Calgary or Vancouver, it's one break. You're still spending time with them no matter where you are. Why does it "not count" just bcuz its in a different city.............. :angry: :cry:
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR STUPID MAMA'S BOYS.
MAKE YOUR OWN FRICKEN DECISION. and STAND UP FOR YOURSELF.
So that's my rant. Sorry folks.
I didn't really know which section to put this under.... but yeah. :angry:
OH AND BTW- he doesn't drive. That I don't mind what so ever.
But I ask him to go pick me up at school, he refuses to. Because "little princess" NEVER uses transit. and doesn't want to try to use it. Although I told him I'll give him directions and provide him with maps. I even told him I'll go to his fricken condo and pick him up and we can skytrain together. But noooooooooooo, he's too precious to use transit. Fricken spoiled brat. Everywhere he goes, his parents follow and gives him ride. GOSH...................
OoKOKOK.. that's all for now..........
I am so effin' pissed off right now.
My bf is visiting from Waterloo for his reading break.
He already went to Calgary (our home town) to visit relatives and hang out with his parents for 4 days.
Then he arrived in Vancouver a couple of days ago.
We only have tomorrow and friday to spend together. and it's not even for the whole day. It's basically just 4-5 hours.
I've asked him to at least have lunch with me on either tomorrow or friday but he has refused to just because his mom won't let him. Like WTF.
He says that his mom says he needs to spend more time with his parents. They have spent like a week together already. I only get a couple hours for 2 days to spend with him.
And he visits once every 2-3 months. SO FKING ANNOYING.
ARGHHGHGH.
Seriously, I hate how he never stands up for himself.
He's legal now yet she still makes all his decisions for him.
Whenever I tell him that, he threatens to break up with me because I've somehow "insulted" his parents.
I really admire the respect he has for his parents but seriously. I just want to spend a few more hours with him. (He leaves on Saturday by the way).
It's not fair. And he supposedly say its fair. he's like "what makes you think you deserve half of the time I am on my vacation?"
LIKE WTF. It's not even half the time. Not even close. He gets to see his parents for a week. I get to see him for a couple of hours. It's not fair. and he yells at me because he says I'm counting it wrong. "THe time that I've spent in Calgary with my parents do not count". How the fk does it not count??!! Either its in Calgary or Vancouver, it's one break. You're still spending time with them no matter where you are. Why does it "not count" just bcuz its in a different city.............. :angry: :cry:
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR STUPID MAMA'S BOYS.
MAKE YOUR OWN FRICKEN DECISION. and STAND UP FOR YOURSELF.
So that's my rant. Sorry folks.
I didn't really know which section to put this under.... but yeah. :angry:
OH AND BTW- he doesn't drive. That I don't mind what so ever.
But I ask him to go pick me up at school, he refuses to. Because "little princess" NEVER uses transit. and doesn't want to try to use it. Although I told him I'll give him directions and provide him with maps. I even told him I'll go to his fricken condo and pick him up and we can skytrain together. But noooooooooooo, he's too precious to use transit. Fricken spoiled brat. Everywhere he goes, his parents follow and gives him ride. GOSH...................
OoKOKOK.. that's all for now..........
Comments
And now you are going to be bitter and angry and not enjoy the few hours you DO have together. It's better than nothing, so I'd suggest you enjoy it!
and also if u really love this person, cherish the time u have together, or u'll just end up kicking your self a week from now when u look back on it /shrug
Cuz he's too spoiled.
His parents live in HK but they're here most of the time.
But........
when we lived in Calgary, it was MY parents who drove us everywhere.. Dates and everything.. always MY PARENTS.
My parents are pretty easy about it and they love him, but seriously.......
My mom always tells him to get his learners and license but he still hasn't
Like really, lets just say you guys get married, how "bad" can a mama's boy turn into?!
I want to address this, but will be wary of thread drift... People like that are what really provoke resentment from the single mothers and students that don't get to live rent-free with their parents.
Why?
Because they have no idea how good they have it compared to those people that must meet all the expenses out of their own pockets.
To get back to the subject of this thread, my feeling is that if he's used to having things done for him, then it may be wise to break up with him, because the tendencies are already there for him to use you to do things he doesn't want to do for himself.
Let another girl indulge his silly phobias about transit. You go find someone who can stand on his own two feet. :smile:
:tongue:
hahaha all the guys are coming onto Tinana now.. even tho she's still technically taken
They had to drag my little brother's ass down here too because he was a bad boy in Calgary...
Our whole family moved for my schooling and to get my brother away from bad influences. :tongue:
Calgary (at least when I was there, and what I saw), is a pretty bad scene. Scary shite.
my brother's high school here (Moscrop Secondary) seems a lot "safer" than the one in Calgary that I went to and that my brother went to. And I went to one of the best high schools in the city.
Calgary isn't some hick town like you think it is, Messiah. Hahaha, it's pretty bad. Worst than Vancouver, I've seen so far.
Like crime rates in Calgary aren't as much as here in Van/Surrey, but high schools are bad over there.