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Bloodsucking girlfriend
I've been seeing with this girl recently, she's the most spoiled person I've ever seen. It started in early december, and ended earlier this week. In this month or so, I spent 3 grands. I didn't really like her at first, I just stole her from her boyfriend because I hate that guy. At first the plan was to steal her and then dump her right away, but then I became attached and decided to stay with her. I mean, why throw away something you worked so hard for? And we had a good time together, she maybe spoiled, but she's very sweet and caring, and the sex is great. I was with her alot during the christmas break, her parents went back to HK and she asked me to stay at her house to keep her company, I was like yeah. And then we went shoping and she wants me to buy her this juicy couture handbag, I didn't want to at first, but she was all pouting and sh*t so I caved in. Then we went for dinner at this really expensive place where they serve the food in a really big plate with a little sh*t bit of actual food in the middle, and it takes like 45 minute for them to prepare it. The bill came out to $150, so I put down $15 for tips. She was like"No, don't be so cheap! You should tip at least 20%." I was like f*ck that, and she gives me the face again, and I caved in and gave a $30 tip. This kind of sh*t went on for a few times a week, we would go shopping, then have dinner at somewhere expensive, then go back to her house and tap that ass. I know I was spending an ungodly amount of money and it's unfair for me to pay for everything, but then I thought I was staying at her house and driving her car and everything, so paying for her stuff is like paying rents.
So school started and we can't hang out like that anymore. The credit card bill came last week, I opened the envelope, and collapsed onto the couch. It was $1753, it was 3 pages and everything came from a 2 week period. Then I checked my bank account transactions, and I took out $2000, after I pay off my bills, I have 200 bucks left. I can't even pay tuition right now, and have to get student loan.
Then she called last week and said that she's going back to HK for a while, when she comes back, we're going to a 3 day cruise for valentines day, the ticket's gonna be around $900. And that's when I knew that I have to break up with her, or else I'll be broke and have a sh*t load of loans that will take 10 years to pay off. So I met up with her this tuesday and told her that we're breaking up, cause she'll be leaving the day after, and I don't wanna do it over the phone. It felt great when the words "I think we should stop seeing each other" came out of my mouth, she gave me the face and I just stared blankly. This is the first time in my life that I'm actually glad to end a relationship, it's like having a tumor removed. She's not a bad person, I just can't afford living like that. I don't think I want another girlfriend for a while, this one's gonna take sometime to recover.
So school started and we can't hang out like that anymore. The credit card bill came last week, I opened the envelope, and collapsed onto the couch. It was $1753, it was 3 pages and everything came from a 2 week period. Then I checked my bank account transactions, and I took out $2000, after I pay off my bills, I have 200 bucks left. I can't even pay tuition right now, and have to get student loan.
Then she called last week and said that she's going back to HK for a while, when she comes back, we're going to a 3 day cruise for valentines day, the ticket's gonna be around $900. And that's when I knew that I have to break up with her, or else I'll be broke and have a sh*t load of loans that will take 10 years to pay off. So I met up with her this tuesday and told her that we're breaking up, cause she'll be leaving the day after, and I don't wanna do it over the phone. It felt great when the words "I think we should stop seeing each other" came out of my mouth, she gave me the face and I just stared blankly. This is the first time in my life that I'm actually glad to end a relationship, it's like having a tumor removed. She's not a bad person, I just can't afford living like that. I don't think I want another girlfriend for a while, this one's gonna take sometime to recover.
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"Look sweety, do I look like Bill Gate to you? Money won't come out from my ass even if you make faces like that."
Keeping track of how much you spend is a pretty basic survival skill if you plan to be able to manage your own affairs. Else, someone else will end up doing so and it will usually be done in their interest, not yours.
Hopefully you learn from this little (expensive) mistake...
therefore you totally could have use the sex tape to get back at her. you can't go wrong!
Good sex is not worth losing $3000 to the point where you've had to borrow money to make it through the semester.