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My girlfriend won't sleep with me!

Mac83
edited June 2008 in General
Seriously, we've been goin out for over a year now and the first 6 months were amazing. By amazing I mean it was the best time of my life and the sex was mind blowing. Anyways, I thought we were pretty much in cruise control by now , but for sum reason she just won't put out! I have never even touched another girl while I've been with her so I don't know what to do. I have neeeedssss arhhh is there any females that can tell me whats goin thru her head?

Comments

  • Berlyn
    edited September 2006
    dude..talk to her! Ask her if everything is ok and why she doesn't seem to want to be intimate anymore (and act like you genuinely care!!) Hopefully she'll open up..if she refuses to talk, then you have a bigger problem on your hands!
  • Helen
    edited September 2006
    maybe she doesnt like u anymore T_T and being intimate causes her to stay attached and emotionally involved when shes trying to distance herself from u so its easier to break up... hate to break it to ya but thats how it sounds.. i mean if u guys never had sex to start wit then thats a diff story..
  • babygurl
    edited September 2006
    it seems to me that this sex issue is ur only concern in ur relationship and obviously the issue is deeper then that, definately talk to her, maybe shes jus goin through something and needs time to herself, maybe shes only been doing it cuz she feels pressured by u? all i know is that usually girls cant seperate emotions from sex, the problem to her is not bout sex so u need to sit down with her and figure it out!!
  • johnny
    edited September 2006
    dude man she prolly sleepin wit someone else
  • PoliChic87
    edited September 2006
    johnny said:
    dude man she prolly sleepin wit someone else
    thats so mean! my opinion is that the first 6 months went by really fast for her n she jus wanna take things a lil slower or that u guys spend too much having sex n she wanna do more productive things instead... but asking for our ideas is pointless before u even talk to her... COMMUNICATION is key:tongue:

    ~Becs~
  • tater03
    edited September 2006
    Don't jump the gun and start accusing of things before you sit down and really understand what is going on. It could be any number of things. Good luck to you, let us know how it goes.
  • noobie
    edited September 2006
    yea good luck, i bet its nothin to even worry over
  • jpsn
    edited September 2006
    It's probably not much to worry about. Although, I feel bad for you! She has to have her reasons. How is your relationship other than that? Because that might be your first clue. If things aren't so good--like she doesn't want to hang out or you guys don't talk-- I would consider moving on if I were you. Otherwise, if things are good in every dept but that.. maybe she just wants to slow down. Maybe she's tired of having sex everytime you guys get together or bored with things?

    Maybe she would like a more romantic connection than a physical connection. Romance goes a long way.. and you just might "get some" going that route.
  • kelkat
    edited September 2006
    There is no way to know what is going through her head without actually talking to her - even if we are women ;). If you really care for her, then talk to her. If it's just about sex, then there is more wrong with your one year relaitonship than not getting any!
  • Mac83
    edited September 2006
    Thanks for all the tips people...I think the reason I avoided talking about it with her is that Im afraid there might be a reason behind it like she doesnt love me anymore or she's interested in someone else... I dont think I could handle that
  • Mikaela
    edited September 2006
    jpsn said:
    Maybe she would like a more romantic connection than a physical connection. Romance goes a long way.. and you just might "get some" going that route.
    I agree! Nothins better than a lil chivalry:wink:
  • Claritin
    edited October 2006
    i think she might be gettin nailed by someone else, you better watch out. thats pretty wierd that she just cut you off
  • jipmerite
    edited October 2006
    It's better to discuss the problem face to face and frankly rather than keep conjuring up the worst case scenarios inside your head. Maybe there is a good reason. Just ask her straight.
  • Gunta
    edited October 2006
    get over it
  • Makall
    edited June 2008
    Her pussy has been tainted by a foreign penis. She probably doesn't want you to find out that it's been loosened.

    Ask her to have sex with you, if she refuses. Take her out to dinner and either get her drunk or drug her then take her home and test her. If it indeed has loosened and has been dirtied, finish your business and dump her the next day.
  • siuying
    edited June 2008
    ^ hence she should be wearing one of those surgically implanted condoms.. =P jun probably knows what i'm talking about..

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