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edited April 2009 in General
Hello,

Since I came to SFU, I have not had difficult time with any of my instructors. But it seems this semester, a little embarrassment and discouragement would be inevitable from one of annoying and hardcore profs I ever come across. I took one class with him last semester and the likelihood of seeing him again in a class was unavoidable since he is the only prof who was teaching that course since its inception (I think).

To be honest, I am not that student who asks lots of questions in class and I am academically strong with a very good GPA (3.57).

Generally, I always go to class prepared, energetic and very enthusiastic about the material. But when I try to ask him a question while the class is in session, you can easily tell from his face that he feels a little bit disappointed and bombards me with several irrelevant material to the course like you are not prepared for the course. And the most annoying thing he said to me was and I quote "you were lucky enough to pass the previous course" ( I got a B+ in the course he is referring to). I really felt bad when I heard that from a prof that is trying to dishearten and ruin my academic progress. I am really sad about this guy and I don't know what to do.

In addition, I was thinking of postponing the course to fall 2009 but still the same guy will teach again. I won't even get access to other courses without doing this course. It is a prerequisite to so many courses that are required in my major.

For now, I may not disclose the prof or the course but I highly appreciate your contribution to the solution of this problem.

Please..please advice.

Thank you.

Comments

  • edited January 2009
    what class is it?
  • edited January 2009
    You can't do anything about it that will help you, maybe stop asking questions in class and see office hours?

    Frankly, if you don't provide us an example of what you ask it's hard to assess the fairness of what you're saying.

    You can go complain to the department head mid way through the semester -- but don't expect this to help you, as more make the teacher even more annoyed at you.

    You could even appeal your grade after the course, not that it will do you any good.

    What is it that you are exactly asking? From what it sounds like, you're asking questions that are missing the point, and hes trying to tell you what you should be seeing.
  • edited January 2009
    randomuser;44781 said:
    You can't do anything about it that will help you, maybe stop asking questions in class and see office hours?

    Frankly, if you don't provide us an example of what you ask it's hard to assess the fairness of what you're saying.

    You can go complain to the department head mid way through the semester -- but don't expect this to help you, as more make the teacher even more annoyed at you.

    You could even appeal your grade after the course, not that it will do you any good.

    What is it that you are exactly asking? From what it sounds like, you're asking questions that are missing the point, and hes trying to tell you what you should be seeing.
    Thank you for the quick response. well, like any other student, I ask questions pertaining to the material (in that specific day) like what does that do when I do this and this..I don't wana go deep into it because it will be unavoidable to mention the course and I don't wana do that.

    Anyways, thank you Rand.
  • edited January 2009
    Have hope, it'll work out.
  • edited January 2009
    u still did well
    do u feel u could have done better without his remarks? just ignore them
    u can always write down all ur questions and ask ur TA
  • edited January 2009
    6chr0nic4;44789 said:
    u still did well
    do u feel u could have done better without his remarks? just ignore them
    u can always write down all ur questions and ask ur TA
    Thank you
  • edited January 2009
    schmoey;44787 said:
    Have hope, it'll work out.
    lol...my user name is HOPE. Thanks dude
  • edited January 2009
    I'll be honest, have you ever seen that facebook group?

    Something like, "Shut the fuck up and put your hand down, noone cares."

    Are you asking questions in a large lecture room, or a seminar room...?

    I think part of getting through school is dealing with people like this as well, I got docked 5% overall by a teacher who claimed I did something she told me not to do in a prior assignment, when she didn't say anything of the sort.
  • edited January 2009
    randomuser;44798 said:
    I'll be honest, have you ever seen that facebook group?

    Something like, "Shut the fuck up and put your hand down, noone cares."

    Are you asking questions in a large lecture room, or a seminar room...?
    Yeah I saw the facebook group...it looks funny. But I haven't heard such encounters.

    It is a kinda seminar room. Anyways, I am in university to meet academic challenges not personality complexities that try to destroy my days with anguish.
  • edited January 2009
    Just ask what you need to know and ignore the remarks you don't like. As long as you do all the work and prepare well for the course, you will get a good mark regardless of the prof.
  • edited January 2009
    Hope_2016;44799 said:
    Yeah I saw the facebook group...it looks funny. But I haven't heard such encounters.

    It is a kinda seminar room. Anyways, I am in university to meet academic challenges not personality complexities that try to destroy my days with anguish.
    I've been in classes where the teacher picks certain people out, but if your overall grade isnt what it should be then you should take action at that point...
  • edited January 2009
    randomuser;44798 said:
    I'll be honest, have you ever seen that facebook group?

    Something like, "Shut the fuck up and put your hand down, noone cares."
    I thought these things only happens in high school? Guess not then.

    Don't let one prof spoil the rest of your academic experience. All of the profs I've had highly encourages us to ask questions and often students would get engaged in discussions during a lecture (which the prof loves).

    As suggested, your best solution is probably the TA. Most TAs are students as well and it'll probably be more comfortable for you anyways.
  • edited March 2009
    Can you imagine guys, I scored the highest in the midterm of this class and I pretty much confident now that I can do well. Thank you guys for the support and courage.
    Big up to Nukechem and the rest of my talksfu buddies.

    Much appreciated!!
  • edited March 2009
    Who is Nukechem?
  • edited March 2009
    JayDub;50293 said:
    Who is Nukechem?
    I haven't seen him for quite long time but he was a great member of talksfu. I think his name is David, a grad student majoring in nuclear chemistry. Also, he was my TA in chem 126.
  • edited March 2009
    who the hell are you, i havnt seen your introduction, wtf
    and we dont become buddies with strangers
  • edited March 2009
    lazyGUY;50303 said:
    who the hell are you, i havnt seen your introduction, wtf
    and we dont become buddies with strangers
    My dear, even if I might be new to the forum, is that the way you respond to me? You have been telling me to introduce while hardly any of you wrote in the introduction thread. Can you revisit your words and check the date of all the threads I posted so far?

    Be a reasonable chap!
  • edited March 2009
    hahahahahahahha fag
  • edited March 2009
    ^

    Relax keyboard warrior
  • edited March 2009
    i prefer ninja
  • edited April 2009
    Here is an episode between me and the prof of this class.

    I came in the lab and found nobody. Then, I tried to ask the lab technician some questions:

    Hope: Hello, I was wondering if you would let me see my lab report marks?
    Lab tech: well, can you look for your TA so that he can sort out the lab
    reports and give yours.

    (I went to see the TA and want to ask him whether the lab reports were marked. However, my TA was not in the lab but another TA told me that the reports are marked and students can see their marks.)

    Hope: Lab tech, the TA said that the reports are marked and students can
    see their marks.
    Lab tech: ok, I think there are some reports in this box and I don't know if you can see them for yourself.

    Hope: I think these yellow papers look like the reports we wrote. Can I see them?
    Lab tech: Go ahead.

    (The prof comes in.)

    Prof: Get out. Get Out ( he repeated several times). If you wana something stand outside of the dispensary and ask me outside.
    (I was shocked. I didn't know what to say. The lab technician let me in and told me to see the lab reports.)
    Hope: Ok, I am asking you now then. (I said innocently).

    (The prof whispered to the lab technicians and they were sympathetically staring me. I could read from their eyes how they sympathized with me because the prof spoke so rude to me).

    Prof: Did you find you report?
    Hope: No.
    Prof: What is your name?
    Hope: I said x y z.

    (He handed it to me and walked away. The lab technicians were still staring and they seemed dumbfounded. I saw my marks then left the lab.)

    This is just one episode that portrays how rude this prof is, especially to me.
    What can you conclude from here guys? Let me hear from you.
  • edited April 2009
    hes racist fo sho
  • edited April 2009
    who's the prof? sounds like the organic chem lab prof
  • edited April 2009
    Jimmy;52645 said:
    who's the prof? sounds like the organic chem lab prof
    I don't wanna point out the name of the prof now but when my grade is up, I will let you know.
  • edited April 2009
    sounds like u just need to grow some thicker skin

    lab prof told u to get out of a place he was in charge of
    asked u for name, and gave u the report

    these ppl arent your friends
  • edited April 2009
    when the lab tech told you to ask your TA, why did you ask the other TA, instead of your TA?
  • edited April 2009
    randomuser;52655 said:
    when the lab tech told you to ask your TA, why did you ask the other TA, instead of your TA?
    The TA himself was unwilling to let me see the reports because they all shake when they see the prof. One of the TAs told me, and I quote, the prof is 'dickhead'. I am not offending anyone but just quoting the TA.
  • edited April 2009
    Well maybe its the profs rule and thats why he was angry? It seems like you are partly to blame, its like hitting a wild animal with a stick and not expecting it to react.

    Its only curiousity to want to see your marks, but maybe youre being a bit too keen about it :P
  • edited April 2009
    If it's who I think it is, he's just a jerk in general. You just have to deal with it.

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