first of all, shitkick the ex, hes probably some chump anyways. Him telling you that he'll be over her in a few months is just another way of saying u can have sloppy seconds lol. Fuck her find a new girl.
don't be offended bro, the truth isn't always nice. if everyone was nice to their friends then our friends would never wake up and dump the bitch
in the end this chick doesn't sound like she's worth it. if she has a lot of guys lusting after her it's partly because of the way she acts...she's probably a flirt. you need to do "avoidance" basically cut her off without warning and don't give her any explanations. don't answer her phone calls don't think about her and don't give a shit. just move on , and come to mountain shadow this wednesday we'll pick up some chicks there ;)
From what you described this girl only wants you as her rebound, she doesn't care what you feel, she ditches you before prom, but makes sure she's kinda nice so you'll stick around ( even if dating other girls,) girls can feel when a guy is into her, even if he's with someone else.
I'd say you're too young to stress over someone you wont remember the name in 5 years. Go out, date other people and tell her to f* off.
Man, that kind of crazy shit (see OP)? Wow. Looking at it from the outside, that level of batshittery is enough to make me say "move AWAY from the situation, at velocities approaching the speed of light".
From what you described this girl only wants you as her rebound, she doesn't care what you feel, she ditches you before prom, but makes sure she's kinda nice so you'll stick around ( even if dating other girls,) girls can feel when a guy is into her, even if he's with someone else.
I'd say you're too young to stress over someone you wont remember the name in 5 years. Go out, date other people and tell her to f* off.
the thing is, shes never ditched me voluntarily, its always been ex bfs in the way, ive seen it happen to one of her exes, the guy got his house raided and he was fuckin hospitalized... but you'd think if she knew about guys that still havnt gotten over her/she hasnt gotten over then she wouldnt come after me...
i like the rebound thing that never occured to me...
its easy to do with some random hookup that i have no history with but ive been on and off with her all throughout hs, and aside from the mentioned incidents, she is really good to me and has been there when i needed her
im gonna give her a call and really put her on the spot and call her out, ill post back with a report :P and then u guys can help me to decide whether to axe her for good
the thing is, shes never ditched me voluntarily, its always been ex bfs in the way, ive seen it happen to one of her exes, the guy got his house raided and he was fuckin hospitalized... but you'd think if she knew about guys that still havnt gotten over her/she hasnt gotten over then she wouldnt come after me...
*Lol*...she's never ditched you voluntarily, do you think these men just control her and her mind? If she liked you she'd be with you.
I really hope thats true^ cuz i did call her last night and tell her that was it, and it was 100x more difficult to do than I imagined and it hurt like a bitch, u can tell that we were both holding back the tears on the phone, its fuckin hard to just completely cut out and forget about someone you've shared a lot of good memories with... i think i did the right thing tho, if not i am almost certain some sort of bs/dramma would of come up in the future that would of made me feel even more stupid
love is blind
lol im such a pussy when it comes to her, and only her its pathetic, /end emo rant
lol dont be so harsh bro^ but yeah shes definately not going very far in life, I think thats why we liked each other cuz oposites attract, I guess she saw stability in me and how I loved how wild she was... not anymore
o well im hittin up my friends bday party with about 20-30 of her girlfriends and only about 4-5 guys :D time to make my comeback hahah, shame on me that theyre all gr 10-11 LOL
lol fuck me i called her back cuz i couldnt stand the fact i wouldnt be able to see her again, i just needed comfort in knowing that we would stay friends, more of subtle way of breaking it off
you need some advice from girls, cause thats normally what a lot of girls do
listen, dont talk to her, text or or call her until she contacts you, make it seem like youre happy and seeing other people, maybe if you can make her jealous she will want you
if she does text you or call you back wait at least three days to message back as well
lol fuck me i called her back cuz i couldnt stand the fact i wouldnt be able to see her again, i just needed comfort in knowing that we would stay friends, more of subtle way of breaking it off
Having to not talk to someone who provides 'excitement' can be difficult. It may help to remind yourself that you desire more stability in your life than what she can provide. Keep in mind romantic and other attachments can often negatively impact your academic career if you're not careful.
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Secondly, stop being such a pussy.
This is what happens when you fucking lower admission requirements.
Him telling you that he'll be over her in a few months is just another way of saying u can have sloppy seconds lol.
Fuck her find a new girl.
2nd I was WELL over the admission requirements
lol easier said than done... i see her prob the most out of all my girl friends
whats wrong with calling her my gf after 2 days? if she isnt than what is she? what am I suppose to call her?
w.e fuck it, delete this thread
You'll have your 30's+ to spend on sorting out stuff like this with a significant other, when it will actually be paying off in the long term.
Go out and spend your time on a girl that wouldn't treat you this way!
in the end this chick doesn't sound like she's worth it. if she has a lot of guys lusting after her it's partly because of the way she acts...she's probably a flirt. you need to do "avoidance" basically cut her off without warning and don't give her any explanations. don't answer her phone calls don't think about her and don't give a shit. just move on , and come to mountain shadow this wednesday we'll pick up some chicks there ;)
you hang with people who are gangstas and players then itll come back to you
hang out with good girls, maybe theyre more boring, but if you cant take the heat get out of the kitchen
I'd say you're too young to stress over someone you wont remember the name in 5 years. Go out, date other people and tell her to f* off.
The smart thing sounds like the way to go here.
i hope insatiable will give you a good verbal beating on this.. =P
i like the rebound thing that never occured to me...
its easy to do with some random hookup that i have no history with but ive been on and off with her all throughout hs, and aside from the mentioned incidents, she is really good to me and has been there when i needed her
im gonna give her a call and really put her on the spot and call her out, ill post back with a report :P
and then u guys can help me to decide whether to axe her for good
Your emotions are blinding you.
cuz i did call her last night and tell her that was it, and it was 100x more difficult to do than I imagined and it hurt like a bitch, u can tell that we were both holding back the tears on the phone, its fuckin hard to just completely cut out and forget about someone you've shared a lot of good memories with... i think i did the right thing tho, if not i am almost certain some sort of bs/dramma would of come up in the future that would of made me feel even more stupid
love is blind
lol im such a pussy when it comes to her, and only her its pathetic, /end emo rant
*pat pat*
If you go out with her, don't expect her to have a job and expect her to spend all your money, do drugs, and have a loose vagina.
She may be good enough to stick your penis in, but expect cheating and being penniless.
Looks like she'll be sucking dick for a living.
but yeah shes definately not going very far in life, I think thats why we liked each other cuz oposites attract, I guess she saw stability in me and how I loved how wild she was... not anymore
o well im hittin up my friends bday party with about 20-30 of her girlfriends and only about 4-5 guys :D time to make my comeback hahah, shame on me that theyre all gr 10-11 LOL
let the flame wars being lol...
listen, dont talk to her, text or or call her until she contacts you, make it seem like youre happy and seeing other people, maybe if you can make her jealous she will want you
if she does text you or call you back wait at least three days to message back as well