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Asking out a girl on friendster

Kingsley
edited June 2008 in General
I recently asked for this girl's friendster from class. She gave it to me. I told her that i couldn't stop thinking about her, and I asked her out. She said yes. But that I had to wait until her finals were over. However, when her finals were over, she never msged me back. Now I'm wondering whether or not she turned me down because I had sent her a message in the interim playing "2 truths and a lie" and it was because she thought it was too corny. Can anyone help me out???

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  • DaNoobie
    edited June 2008
    lesson learned here:
    dont ask for her friendster to ask her out, just ask her out
  • randomuser
    edited June 2008
    I didn't know anyone even used friendster.

    If a girl says something like "After finals" its a lie...if a girl is interested she will always be more commited about it, she was just being nice.

    One mistake, dont tell girls you cant stop thinking about them unless you know them well or have had many interactions...youre giving it up too fast
  • nicole
    edited June 2008
    randomuser;31498 said:
    I didn't know anyone even used friendster.

    If a girl says something like "After finals" its a lie...if a girl is interested she will always be more commited about it, she was just being nice.

    One mistake, dont tell girls you cant stop thinking about them unless you know them well or have had many interactions...youre giving it up too fast
    And it's a little creep-esque.
  • randomuser
    edited June 2008
    I think its like a game, girls shouldnt give sex up too quick, and guys shouldnt hand over emotional control too quick
  • Ether
    edited June 2008
    Who uses friendster anyways?
  • Morro
    edited June 2008
    Girls respond to confidence. Asking for a friendster thing and asking out there doesn't scream confidence. Just chalk it up to experience and move on.
  • Broken Lizard
    edited June 2008
    Three steps and she will be yours.

    1) find out where she lives

    2) cut a hole in the glass with a laser to her bedroom

    3) stuff her in a sack
  • JayDub
    edited June 2008
    I don't even know what a friendster is but I assume it is some sort of social networking site. Anyways it is true she didn't like you and was trying to be nice. You were very creepy with her and next time you should man up and learn to ask someone out via face to face interaction.
  • Kevin M.Kevin M.
    edited June 2008
    This can still be saved, it's all about how you play it...you have to be cool and casual about it. I dunno if you guys could actually communicate through friendster, but start up a conversation with her...ie. how did finals go, what have u been up to, make some jokes, make her laugh etc....then wait till the right moment, and say something like
    "hahaha weren't we supposed to hang out? guess your too cool for me :P" that too cool for me line works 90% of the time for me lol...girls don't want you to think their being bitchy so you can use their weakness against them
  • Lixie
    edited June 2008
    I think Magnificent Bastard has more experience in this area than anyone...
  • ralph2087
    edited June 2008
    just look at it this way.....most of these peeps seem to think you've already been rejected..so...what have you got to lose by asking her now? might as well find out for sure.
  • Makall
    edited June 2008
    Save yourself the embarrassment and just stalk her till you're satisfied.
  • siuying
    edited June 2008
    Kevin M.;31558 said:
    This can still be saved, it's all about how you play it...you have to be cool and casual about it. I dunno if you guys could actually communicate through friendster, but start up a conversation with her...ie. how did finals go, what have u been up to, make some jokes, make her laugh etc....then wait till the right moment, and say something like
    "hahaha weren't we supposed to hang out? guess your too cool for me :P" that too cool for me line works 90% of the time for me lol...girls don't want you to think their being bitchy so you can use their weakness against them
    i guess i'm part of the 10% i love it when guys think i'm bitchy..:shade:
    Makall;31963 said:
    Save yourself the embarrassment and just stalk her till you're satisfied.
    that's professional advice from a pro stalker.. =P

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