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Cute Girl in Rez

shadysimon
edited November 2006 in General
K, so here's the deal;

I am in rez and there is this amazingly cute girl here too, and I don't know her and know nothing about her, the only thing I know is that she lives in my building. She is the most cutest thing, and I feel I just have to meet her.

She's one of those girls that amazes you when you see her, it's not that she's model like but she is so absolutely cute and I really want to meet her.

I know I am a nice and charming guy and I have been told I am from lots of people. I am also confident that I am good looking and it is not that I don't have any experience with women, I have had a couple girlfriends and have been with lots of girls, its just the initial approach that I need advice on. I've briefly flirted with her during some volleyball about her height because she is so short and I'm so tall, but thats about it. I've also caught her looking (or 'staring') at me a couple times, but who knows right? She's just really cute and seems like a fun kind of person, but what should I do???

Comments

  • illicit
    edited November 2006
    there's no set ' game plan ' when it comes to dating / meeting people

    just do like the cliche, be yourself.
  • nipples
    edited November 2006
    sneak into her room, add a lil pill into her drink, add some hypnotic so she wont notice the change in colour, and uhm....wait like 15mins or so ;)
  • johnny
    edited November 2006
    Its actually pretty simple...the only thing holding you back is a fear of failure. If you've already had the initial contact with her then you have nothing to lose man... whether or not she wants you romantically is besides the point. If she's making eye contact that means that she at least wants to be friends.
    Next time you see here say hi and if you havent' already, ask her name. Then just have a casual conversation with her (ie. about what classes she's planning on taking next semester and if she's started studyin for finals yet). Don't be worried that you could get shot down, you have nothing to lose.
  • Mac83
    edited November 2006
    I know how you feel haha
  • gawdawaful
    edited November 2006
    and have been with lots of girls,
    If that means what I think it means, maybe she shouldnt find out about that
  • PoliChic87
    edited November 2006
    Not necessarily... it depends on the girl :P
  • shadysimon
    edited November 2006
    gawdawaful said:
    If that means what I think it means, maybe she shouldnt find out about that
    yes and no, u know like 'being with a girl', but not officially going out, and i dont know what you think it is but maybe it is that...and more ppl help me out here!! lol
  • johnny
    edited November 2006
    DUDE just TALK to her your worryin about this too much.
  • Berlyn
    edited November 2006
    I agree with johnny's first comment. I think I was giving the same advice to a friend of mine the other day...it's just fear holding you back. Nothing you can do will really change what the chick thinks of you, she will either be happy you like her and you guys will get along, or she'll be flattered you like her but doesn't share the feelings. There's nothing you can do about it so just see what happens.. plus, you'll kick yourself later if you let the opportunity pass you by! oh and yah, the fact that she's already acknowledging you only means good things...
  • shadysimon
    edited November 2006
    Berlyn said:
    I agree with johnny's first comment. I think I was giving the same advice to a friend of mine the other day...it's just fear holding you back. Nothing you can do will really change what the chick thinks of you, she will either be happy you like her and you guys will get along, or she'll be flattered you like her but doesn't share the feelings. There's nothing you can do about it so just see what happens.. plus, you'll kick yourself later if you let the opportunity pass you by! oh and yah, the fact that she's already acknowledging you only means good things...
    So, are you saying to just go up to her and talk to her? Like go up and just spill the beans, I mean I've never done something like that before to a person i knew nothing about, and the only places I see her are like walking to and from class/the residence and then in the dining hall. I really know nothing about her, but i guess I could give it a shot...?
  • Berlyn
    edited November 2006
    Ok, I mean, it's hard to tell you exactly what to do/say because I don't know you and I don't know her...but the thing is that you have to do something! I wouldn't say 'spill the beans', I mean, don't go over board and start telling her you've been watching her and you're in love with her or anything like that..then she'll really be freaked out. You don't want to come off desperate, or stalkerish.
    But yah, I think you have to casually say that you would be interested to, i dunno, get to know her or something. you'll have to see what feels comfortable for you to say...
    but yah, you have to talk to her and some how let her know that you're interested...then it's in her hands. You'll know whether she's interested or not by her reaction I'm sure.
    As I said before, the worst case scenario is that she's flattered but doesn't feel the same....and that's the worst! The best is that you guys end up happily together! you really have nothing to lose because if you sit around doing nohting you won't be with her anyways...

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