Yeah, but guys aren't attracted based on those things. There's no guy who's like "Man, I love the vegan bitches!" Well, I guess the "slut" one might apply in some cases, hahah.
Those are all personality types, but they're types that guys don't care about. Basically, guys either like nice little sweetheart girls, or aggressive ball-buster chicks with a sarcastic sense of humour. Not a ton of other options.
does knowing too many girls/ hanging out with them too often tend to .. " turn off " other girls. girl friends have told me it's intimidating or hard to approach.. which is opposite of the effect i want lol. but then again.. lol girls want people that they can't have?
girls want guys that may give off the perception that they arent all that interested...sometimes, if hes just an asshole then forget it, but guys that kind of get around her or hang around sometimes but act at the same time that they arent interested, it works on some girls
and i wouldnt approach a guy if he was in a bunch of girls, id probably ask them things about him though, cause if you ask a guy's guy friends things about him they will for sure tell him
The great thing about female friends is that they are like the Israeli Mossad when it comes to setting up their guy buddies with their hot friends. They do everything short of put on a balaclava, do a shoulder roll, dart some chick, and drag her back to his house. They are total mercenaries about it, for some reason. :p
does knowing too many girls/ hanging out with them too often tend to .. " turn off " other girls. girl friends have told me it's intimidating or hard to approach.. which is opposite of the effect i want lol. but then again.. lol girls want people that they can't have?
form past experience i know having lots of female friends tends to majorly turn off ur gf. Actually made my ex really insecure to the point she had some crazy shit come outa her moth lol it got to the point where she didn’t want me hanging out with other girls even though some of my best friends are girls =S and wanted me to stop hanging out with some of my best guy friends since they always brought girls along...
ya i think she went a lil over the top with that shit, but actually some of my current friends’ gfs are heading down the same path... strange if u ask me i thought it was a rare case... funny thing is i never did anything "unfaithful" or to make her feel otherwise ... meh that shits over with and if a chick tried to pull this crap on me now it wouldn’t last 10seconds lol
^ I got that too from my gf early on...but she's used to it now haha
I think it's a balance of hanging out with your gf alone and spending time with friends. And i think it's also helpful when she knows all your friends too, at a personal level...not just as acquaintances...normally get rids of the tension (or dumb perceptions..lol).
form past experience i know having lots of female friends tends to majorly turn off ur gf. Actually made my ex really insecure to the point she had some crazy shit come outa her moth lol it got to the point where she didn’t want me hanging out with other girls even though some of my best friends are girls =S and wanted me to stop hanging out with some of my best guy friends since they always brought girls along...
ya i think she went a lil over the top with that shit, but actually some of my current friends’ gfs are heading down the same path... strange if u ask me i thought it was a rare case... funny thing is i never did anything "unfaithful" or to make her feel otherwise ... meh that shits over with and if a chick tried to pull this crap on me now it wouldn’t last 10seconds lol
well i'm currently not '' attached '' to any girl, i was meaning if another girl whom i don't know wanted to get to know me, would it be discouraging if she knew i tend to hang out with people of the opposite gender.
well it could be a bonus.. she might see you as a ladies' man which is good in the books.. =) (to a certain extent) but i think you're better off letting her know you do hang out with both genders as opposed to just emphasizing the female friends you hang tend to hang out with.. people normally don't give much thoughts to things that seem normal or mainstream..
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Those are all personality types, but they're types that guys don't care about. Basically, guys either like nice little sweetheart girls, or aggressive ball-buster chicks with a sarcastic sense of humour. Not a ton of other options.
does knowing too many girls/ hanging out with them too often tend to .. " turn off " other girls. girl friends have told me it's intimidating or hard to approach.. which is opposite of the effect i want lol. but then again.. lol girls want people that they can't have?
and i wouldnt approach a guy if he was in a bunch of girls, id probably ask them things about him though, cause if you ask a guy's guy friends things about him they will for sure tell him
it got to the point where she didn’t want me hanging out with other girls even though some of my best friends are girls =S and wanted me to stop hanging out with some of my best guy friends since they always brought girls along...
ya i think she went a lil over the top with that shit, but actually some of my current friends’ gfs are heading down the same path... strange if u ask me i thought it was a rare case...
funny thing is i never did anything "unfaithful" or to make her feel otherwise ... meh that shits over with and if a chick tried to pull this crap on me now it wouldn’t last 10seconds lol
I got that too from my gf early on...but she's used to it now haha
I think it's a balance of hanging out with your gf alone and spending time with friends. And i think it's also helpful when she knows all your friends too, at a personal level...not just as acquaintances...normally get rids of the tension (or dumb perceptions..lol).
No.
What if she knew you ONLY hung out with dudes?
Now that might be more discouraging.