Agreed, and if she becomes insecure when a similar situation happens again... don't go apologizing for 20 minutes to explain a miniscule glance. If she is important to you than discuss, rationalize and correct. If not, well...... boys will be boys....
I did exactly that...discuss, rationalize and correct. I'm pretty sure i mentioned that she apologized to me.
At work (reception) I get all the mail right? So I was sorting through it and then I found a Sports Illustrated magazine! haha, it was suppose to be to the old tenants (they were an advertising agency), so I took it home. When my BF came over I took and out and said "I thought you might like this".
He takes and said "Are you serious?" I go "Well if you don't want it..." and put my hand out to take it back And haha, he says "Hey hey! I'm not complaining!" and stuffs it in his bag
You talking about the swimsuit edition? Hehe...been waiting aaall year for it lol
You sorrta gave him the green light for that sorta stuff tho, but i'm assuming you're cool (secure) about it. :) It's all good, I wish my girl was "bit" more like that. I mean, at least a little confident with herself..
i agree.. i just hate it when guys blame all on PMS when girls fly off the handle.. that's just like girls stereotyping guys being horny/talk dirty because of their male hormones.. it's somewhat dogmatic to say so for both sexes..
and for the record.. not every female experiences PMS.. so there you go.. something you probably didn't know when you commented..
'' i heard menstruation attracts bears '' -Brick, Anchorman
anyways a girlfriend of mine told me that you get back pains during your period, is that true? seems false to me.
Affects all women differently. This is what guys don't understand about chicks: variability. Guys are about 98% identical, and any differences that do exist are purely quantitative. Women are qualitatively different from each other, in many different areas and in many different ways. Every one is different. As standarized creatures, men have trouble getting that, but it's simply a fact.
They have a much more complicated internal biology, and it results in a much wider array of traits. Their sex drive can range from near-zip to far in excess of any male, their capacity for orgasm can range from never once in their life, to every time the bus goes over a bumpy stretch of road. And their reaction to menstruation can go from zip to crazy-town. Some women use it as an excuse to act like a bitch, but for the most part I give chicks the benefit of the doubt with regards to this stuff.
BTW, the Peak Letter of the Week this week is my take on this issue. :p
You talking about the swimsuit edition? Hehe...been waiting aaall year for it lol
You sorrta gave him the green light for that sorta stuff tho, but i'm assuming you're cool (secure) about it. :) It's all good, I wish my girl was "bit" more like that. I mean, at least a little confident with herself..
Hahaha, yes that one. I flipped through it and I was like "HMMM... meh" I mean, I don't think I'm super hot or sexy or anything like that, but I'm confident enough with myself to think that I'm better than what looks can offer.
Well I don't really care they're just pictures haha. As long as I'm the real deal s'all good. Plus, I trust him and I know he won't go for... er, white girls! HAHA.
Hahaha, yes that one. I flipped through it and I was like "HMMM... meh" I mean, I don't think I'm super hot or sexy or anything like that, but I'm confident enough with myself to think that I'm better than what looks can offer.
Well I don't really care they're just pictures haha. As long as I'm the real deal s'all good. Plus, I trust him and I know he won't go for... er, white girls! HAHA.
That's awesome...I wish my gf would go on this forum and hear you say that LOL after our little debacle at the mall...i hid my copy of that magazine under my bed when came over...hahhahhha
Hahaha, yes that one. I flipped through it and I was like "HMMM... meh" I mean, I don't think I'm super hot or sexy or anything like that, but I'm confident enough with myself to think that I'm better than what looks can offer.
Well I don't really care they're just pictures haha. As long as I'm the real deal s'all good. Plus, I trust him and I know he won't go for... er, white girls! HAHA.
i know what she means...and she doesnt mean it in the way you're thinking haha...
Alotta Asian guys (err...maybe i should just speak for Chinese ppl?) just prefer to date other chinese girls..haha..myself included..it's not a racist issue....mainly a preference...or a cultural thing? who knows...but it wasnt meant to be disrespectful...
i know what she means...and she doesnt mean it in the way you're thinking haha...
Alotta Asian guys (err...maybe i should just speak for Chinese ppl?) just prefer to date other chinese girls..haha..myself included..it's not a racist issue....mainly a preference...or a cultural thing? who knows...but it wasnt meant to be disrespectful...
I used to think that way too (I'm chinese) and the reason was because I believed that cultural and language problems would exist. My preferences are a bit broader now.
Alotta Asian guys (err...maybe i should just speak for Chinese ppl?) just prefer to date other chinese girls..haha..myself included..it's not a racist issue....mainly a preference...or a cultural thing? who knows...but it wasnt meant to be disrespectful...
There are a lot more Chinese Guys than Chinese Girls in this world. In China, there are about 114 boys for every 100 girls. It's not just a cultural thing but an age thing as well.
There are a lot more Chinese Guys than Chinese Girls in this world. In China, there are about 114 boys for every 100 girls. It's not just a cultural thing but an age thing as well.
For me personally...i'm just attracted to asian girls more...(now)
I used to think i'd date a non-asian girl...and i did....but i tended to like chinese girls more as i got older...i dont know why...it's not the language/cultural thing for me....cuz i'm canadianized, but very chinese at the same time..
i think u just gotta be open minded to who ur compatible with...cuz that's what datings about anyways...being with someone ur comfortable with and not choosing based on skin color..hehe
I dated a half-black half-Korean chick a couple of times. The nice thing about that is not only are halfers super-hot, you also get street-cred for being really progressive and open-minded hahah. Really, I just thought she was sexy as hell. Too bad about that personality...
i know what she means...and she doesnt mean it in the way you're thinking haha...
Alotta Asian guys (err...maybe i should just speak for Chinese ppl?) just prefer to date other chinese girls..haha..myself included..it's not a racist issue....mainly a preference...or a cultural thing? who knows...but it wasnt meant to be disrespectful...
All based on personal preference. That and because I don't think they'd be able to understand you cultural fully (or vice versa). And the parents wouldn't get along. Haha. Family dinners would be weird, some relatives from HK don't speak English well... The guy would have to learn Chinese... lol. Too much change. I'll take the easy route =)
i know what she means...and she doesnt mean it in the way you're thinking haha...
Alotta Asian guys (err...maybe i should just speak for Chinese ppl?) just prefer to date other chinese girls..haha..myself included..it's not a racist issue....mainly a preference...or a cultural thing? who knows...but it wasnt meant to be disrespectful...
for some it is. I know this one Asian guy...he's like "Asian pride! White people are trash! BMW and Benz is Asian! Ford is white! White girls are sluts!"....
what a cocksucker
As for me there are 3 aspects of eastern culture i appreciate the most:
-the girls -late night all you can eat sushi -bubble tea
I dated a half-black half-Korean chick a couple of times. The nice thing about that is not only are halfers super-hot, you also get street-cred for being really progressive and open-minded hahah. Really, I just thought she was sexy as hell. Too bad about that personality...
omg.. one of my guy frd dated a girl with the same ethnicity and they broke up 2 weeks afterwards because he couldn't stand her personality too.. now i'm wondering whether you 2 dated the same girl.. o.O" he said the exact same thing abt her being really sexy too!!
'' i heard menstruation attracts bears '' -Brick, Anchorman
anyways a girlfriend of mine told me that you get back pains during your period, is that true? seems false to me.
not so much with the back pain.. but the cramps sometimes just whack the daylights out of you.. =.=" back pain only comes when they get pregnant.. maybe you should get her checked up? ^___________^ :beer:
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And for those guys who havta deal with it...it comes preeetty regularly...so mark it on a calendar and duck for cover?
You sorrta gave him the green light for that sorta stuff tho, but i'm assuming you're cool (secure) about it. :) It's all good, I wish my girl was "bit" more like that. I mean, at least a little confident with herself..
anyways a girlfriend of mine told me that you get back pains during your period, is that true? seems false to me.
They have a much more complicated internal biology, and it results in a much wider array of traits. Their sex drive can range from near-zip to far in excess of any male, their capacity for orgasm can range from never once in their life, to every time the bus goes over a bumpy stretch of road. And their reaction to menstruation can go from zip to crazy-town. Some women use it as an excuse to act like a bitch, but for the most part I give chicks the benefit of the doubt with regards to this stuff.
BTW, the Peak Letter of the Week this week is my take on this issue. :p
I mean, I don't think I'm super hot or sexy or anything like that, but I'm confident enough with myself to think that I'm better than what looks can offer.
Well I don't really care they're just pictures haha. As long as I'm the real deal s'all good. Plus, I trust him and I know he won't go for... er, white girls! HAHA.
Alotta Asian guys (err...maybe i should just speak for Chinese ppl?) just prefer to date other chinese girls..haha..myself included..it's not a racist issue....mainly a preference...or a cultural thing? who knows...but it wasnt meant to be disrespectful...
I used to think i'd date a non-asian girl...and i did....but i tended to like chinese girls more as i got older...i dont know why...it's not the language/cultural thing for me....cuz i'm canadianized, but very chinese at the same time..
i think u just gotta be open minded to who ur compatible with...cuz that's what datings about anyways...being with someone ur comfortable with and not choosing based on skin color..hehe
I subscribe to TIME and i read this article a month back...it opened my eyes completely...
http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1704405,00.html
what a cocksucker
As for me there are 3 aspects of eastern culture i appreciate the most:
-the girls
-late night all you can eat sushi
-bubble tea
yay multiculturalism :)