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  • edited February 2008
    shake.gif Guys will never understand.
  • edited February 2008
    Yet you'll still be angry at us for not understanding.
  • edited February 2008
    Morro;23405 said:
    Yet you'll still be angry at us for not understanding.
    Cuz we try hard to make you guys understand, but you guys just wave it off as PMS and don't actually take our hints.
  • edited February 2008
    中国男人;23309 said:
    Agreed, and if she becomes insecure when a similar situation happens again... don't go apologizing for 20 minutes to explain a miniscule glance. If she is important to you than discuss, rationalize and correct. If not, well...... boys will be boys....
    I did exactly that...discuss, rationalize and correct. I'm pretty sure i mentioned that she apologized to me.
  • edited February 2008
    siuying;23336 said:
    and for the record.. not every female experiences PMS.. so there you go.. something you probably didn't know when you commented..
    My gf is awesome...doesnt have PMS...lol haha...it's not the case here.

    And for those guys who havta deal with it...it comes preeetty regularly...so mark it on a calendar and duck for cover?
  • edited February 2008
    vonnie;23305 said:
    At work (reception) I get all the mail right? So I was sorting through it and then I found a Sports Illustrated magazine! haha, it was suppose to be to the old tenants (they were an advertising agency), so I took it home. When my BF came over I took and out and said "I thought you might like this".

    He takes and said "Are you serious?"
    I go "Well if you don't want it..." and put my hand out to take it back
    And haha, he says "Hey hey! I'm not complaining!" and stuffs it in his bag
    You talking about the swimsuit edition? Hehe...been waiting aaall year for it lol

    You sorrta gave him the green light for that sorta stuff tho, but i'm assuming you're cool (secure) about it. :) It's all good, I wish my girl was "bit" more like that. I mean, at least a little confident with herself..
  • edited February 2008
    siuying;23336 said:
    i agree.. i just hate it when guys blame all on PMS when girls fly off the handle.. that's just like girls stereotyping guys being horny/talk dirty because of their male hormones.. it's somewhat dogmatic to say so for both sexes..

    and for the record.. not every female experiences PMS.. so there you go.. something you probably didn't know when you commented..
    '' i heard menstruation attracts bears '' -Brick, Anchorman

    anyways a girlfriend of mine told me that you get back pains during your period, is that true? seems false to me.
  • edited February 2008
    Depends on the girl, but yes it's possible.
  • IVTIVT
    edited February 2008
    also apparently their breasts become sore and/or itchy
  • edited February 2008
    Affects all women differently. This is what guys don't understand about chicks: variability. Guys are about 98% identical, and any differences that do exist are purely quantitative. Women are qualitatively different from each other, in many different areas and in many different ways. Every one is different. As standarized creatures, men have trouble getting that, but it's simply a fact.

    They have a much more complicated internal biology, and it results in a much wider array of traits. Their sex drive can range from near-zip to far in excess of any male, their capacity for orgasm can range from never once in their life, to every time the bus goes over a bumpy stretch of road. And their reaction to menstruation can go from zip to crazy-town. Some women use it as an excuse to act like a bitch, but for the most part I give chicks the benefit of the doubt with regards to this stuff.

    BTW, the Peak Letter of the Week this week is my take on this issue. :p
  • edited February 2008
    tere_lai;23413 said:
    You talking about the swimsuit edition? Hehe...been waiting aaall year for it lol

    You sorrta gave him the green light for that sorta stuff tho, but i'm assuming you're cool (secure) about it. :) It's all good, I wish my girl was "bit" more like that. I mean, at least a little confident with herself..
    Hahaha, yes that one. I flipped through it and I was like "HMMM... meh"
    I mean, I don't think I'm super hot or sexy or anything like that, but I'm confident enough with myself to think that I'm better than what looks can offer.

    Well I don't really care they're just pictures haha. As long as I'm the real deal s'all good. Plus, I trust him and I know he won't go for... er, white girls! HAHA.
  • edited February 2008
    vonnie;23444 said:
    Hahaha, yes that one. I flipped through it and I was like "HMMM... meh"
    I mean, I don't think I'm super hot or sexy or anything like that, but I'm confident enough with myself to think that I'm better than what looks can offer.

    Well I don't really care they're just pictures haha. As long as I'm the real deal s'all good. Plus, I trust him and I know he won't go for... er, white girls! HAHA.
    That's awesome...I wish my gf would go on this forum and hear you say that LOL after our little debacle at the mall...i hid my copy of that magazine under my bed when came over...hahhahhha
  • edited February 2008
    vonnie;23444 said:
    Hahaha, yes that one. I flipped through it and I was like "HMMM... meh"
    I mean, I don't think I'm super hot or sexy or anything like that, but I'm confident enough with myself to think that I'm better than what looks can offer.

    Well I don't really care they're just pictures haha. As long as I'm the real deal s'all good. Plus, I trust him and I know he won't go for... er, white girls! HAHA.
    That could open a whole new can of worms.
  • edited February 2008
    i know what she means...and she doesnt mean it in the way you're thinking haha...

    Alotta Asian guys (err...maybe i should just speak for Chinese ppl?) just prefer to date other chinese girls..haha..myself included..it's not a racist issue....mainly a preference...or a cultural thing? who knows...but it wasnt meant to be disrespectful...
  • edited February 2008
    tere_lai;23458 said:
    i know what she means...and she doesnt mean it in the way you're thinking haha...

    Alotta Asian guys (err...maybe i should just speak for Chinese ppl?) just prefer to date other chinese girls..haha..myself included..it's not a racist issue....mainly a preference...or a cultural thing? who knows...but it wasnt meant to be disrespectful...
    I used to think that way too (I'm chinese) and the reason was because I believed that cultural and language problems would exist. My preferences are a bit broader now.
  • edited February 2008
    tere_lai;23458 said:
    Alotta Asian guys (err...maybe i should just speak for Chinese ppl?) just prefer to date other chinese girls..haha..myself included..it's not a racist issue....mainly a preference...or a cultural thing? who knows...but it wasnt meant to be disrespectful...
    There are a lot more Chinese Guys than Chinese Girls in this world. In China, there are about 114 boys for every 100 girls. It's not just a cultural thing but an age thing as well.
  • edited February 2008
    中国男人;23460 said:
    There are a lot more Chinese Guys than Chinese Girls in this world. In China, there are about 114 boys for every 100 girls. It's not just a cultural thing but an age thing as well.
    lol too bad for those 14 singles then XD
  • edited February 2008
    toast;23461 said:
    lol too bad for those 14 singles then XD
    Who said they have to be single.
  • edited February 2008
    For me personally...i'm just attracted to asian girls more...(now)

    I used to think i'd date a non-asian girl...and i did....but i tended to like chinese girls more as i got older...i dont know why...it's not the language/cultural thing for me....cuz i'm canadianized, but very chinese at the same time..

    i think u just gotta be open minded to who ur compatible with...cuz that's what datings about anyways...being with someone ur comfortable with and not choosing based on skin color..hehe
  • edited February 2008
    toast;23461 said:
    lol too bad for those 14 singles then XD
    Well, there's an increasing number of gay men in China...so...14 homosexual males out of 114 men isnt such a farfetched number...

    I subscribe to TIME and i read this article a month back...it opened my eyes completely...

    http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1704405,00.html
  • edited February 2008
    tere_lai;23463 said:
    I used to think i'd date a non-asian girl...and i did....but i tended to like chinese girls more as i got older...
    What about a mixed girl whose father is not Chinese but her mother is?
    tere_lai;23463 said:

    being with someone ur comfortable with and not choosing based on skin color..hehe
    What of a person of African ancestory?
  • edited February 2008
    中国男人;23465 said:
    What about a mixed girl whose father is not Chinese but her mother is?

    What of a person of African ancestory?
    Wouldn't matter just as long as we can like each other and we can make it work...as in we're COMPATIBLE...
  • edited February 2008
    tere_lai;23466 said:
    Wouldn't matter just as long as we can like each other and we can make it work...as in we're COMPATIBLE...
    but of course.....
  • edited February 2008
    I dated a half-black half-Korean chick a couple of times. The nice thing about that is not only are halfers super-hot, you also get street-cred for being really progressive and open-minded hahah. Really, I just thought she was sexy as hell. Too bad about that personality...
  • edited February 2008
    tere_lai;23458 said:
    i know what she means...and she doesnt mean it in the way you're thinking haha...

    Alotta Asian guys (err...maybe i should just speak for Chinese ppl?) just prefer to date other chinese girls..haha..myself included..it's not a racist issue....mainly a preference...or a cultural thing? who knows...but it wasnt meant to be disrespectful...
    All based on personal preference. That and because I don't think they'd be able to understand you cultural fully (or vice versa). And the parents wouldn't get along. Haha. Family dinners would be weird, some relatives from HK don't speak English well... The guy would have to learn Chinese... lol. Too much change. I'll take the easy route =)
  • edited February 2008
    There are many half blacks and half whites in the United States but then again there are many halves & quarters of all types down south of the border.
  • IVTIVT
    edited February 2008
    tere_lai;23458 said:
    i know what she means...and she doesnt mean it in the way you're thinking haha...

    Alotta Asian guys (err...maybe i should just speak for Chinese ppl?) just prefer to date other chinese girls..haha..myself included..it's not a racist issue....mainly a preference...or a cultural thing? who knows...but it wasnt meant to be disrespectful...
    for some it is. I know this one Asian guy...he's like "Asian pride! White people are trash! BMW and Benz is Asian! Ford is white! White girls are sluts!"....

    what a cocksucker

    As for me there are 3 aspects of eastern culture i appreciate the most:

    -the girls
    -late night all you can eat sushi
    -bubble tea

    yay multiculturalism :)
  • edited February 2008
    IVT;23495 said:

    As for me there are 3 aspects of eastern culture i appreciate the most:

    -the girls
    -late night all you can eat sushi
    -bubble tea

    yay multiculturalism :)
    BBT!!!!!! <3
  • edited February 2008
    Morro;23470 said:
    I dated a half-black half-Korean chick a couple of times. The nice thing about that is not only are halfers super-hot, you also get street-cred for being really progressive and open-minded hahah. Really, I just thought she was sexy as hell. Too bad about that personality...
    omg.. one of my guy frd dated a girl with the same ethnicity and they broke up 2 weeks afterwards because he couldn't stand her personality too.. now i'm wondering whether you 2 dated the same girl.. o.O" he said the exact same thing abt her being really sexy too!!
  • edited February 2008
    illicit;23436 said:
    '' i heard menstruation attracts bears '' -Brick, Anchorman

    anyways a girlfriend of mine told me that you get back pains during your period, is that true? seems false to me.
    not so much with the back pain.. but the cramps sometimes just whack the daylights out of you.. =.=" back pain only comes when they get pregnant.. maybe you should get her checked up? ^___________^ :beer:

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