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SHOOT ME NOW.....

tere_lai
edited February 2008 in General
I was walking around Metro with my gf today and we walked past La Senza. We walked side-by-side of course with her closer to the store...so i gotta be turning towards her (and the store) to talk to her. After we pass the La Senza, she says taht i was looking at the posters while talking to her...

I'm like WHAT THE EF...i didnt even notice the friggin posters..!!! I honestly dont even remmeber what was even on em..(girls in lingerie..obviously..) but seriously, if anything, i might have glanced em over cuz i'm lookin her way...definitely not STARING..gawd

She got totally upset and i spent at least 20 minutes convincing her i wasnt checking out a STUPID poster..

What do u guys (and girls) think? (i'm not trying to break up or something...this is more like venting lol, since it's over..)
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  • Morro
    edited February 2008
    Who cares if you were? Not your fault if she's that insecure.
  • Shi2
    edited February 2008
    I think the difference is not hard to tell. If you are talking to her, then you'd be looking/facing her directly. If you are trying to look at the poster, you'd have to duck a bit or move your head a bit forward/behind.
  • randomuser
    edited February 2008
    I think you probably said the wrong answer to her and thats why shes pissed off at you, did you compliment her, or just say you werent?
  • Jimmy
    edited February 2008
    dude its just a poster........whats wrong with your girl, could be way worst if you checked out another girl within the mall
  • 中国&#30
    edited February 2008
    ^What is up with the Hello Kitty icon? Girls dig that stuff, not guys.

    Anyway, something is going on in her head. If she wasn't like this before and it's happening now, your gut feeling had better warn you. It's not you, it's her.
  • 中国&#30
    edited February 2008
    Nevermind, I did a search and found that Hello Kitty is becoming a part of Men's Fashion:

    hello-kitty-darth-vader.jpg

    It seems Darth Vader has turned to the Pink side of the force!
  • IVTIVT
    edited February 2008
    PMS, that's all
  • siuying
    edited February 2008
    ^ don't blame it on PMS when you aren't even sure of the symptoms..
  • Broken Lizard
    edited February 2008
    yeah i do that to my girlfriend, haha
    her cousin was at a concert and she has breast implants, i said "omg where is she, i gotta see these"
    haha luckily she doesn't care lol
  • tere_lai
    edited February 2008
    It wasnt PMS..lol

    I dunno, it was just a weird thing that happened...and annoying too.

    Yes, I'm with the group that that thinks it was just HER problem. Just a liiiiittle too insecure in my mind.
  • tere_lai
    edited February 2008
    Triple;23268 said:
    yeah i do that to my girlfriend, haha
    her cousin was at a concert and she has breast implants, i said "omg where is she, i gotta see these"
    haha luckily she doesn't care lol
    HAHAHA...that's awesome lol

    U were just joking right? or did u actually have a look-see? hahahaa
  • Broken Lizard
    edited February 2008
    oh i wanted to see... and i did.
    they were huge, lol
  • tere_lai
    edited February 2008
    Huge eh? Are we talking gross-huge? or just...good-huge? Not into gross huge haha...if u know what i mean, but then again, i'm not into anything fake lol
  • vonnie
    edited February 2008
    tere_lai;23217 said:
    I was walking around Metro with my gf today and we walked past La Senza. We walked side-by-side of course with her closer to the store...so i gotta be turning towards her (and the store) to talk to her. After we pass the La Senza, she says taht i was looking at the posters while talking to her...
    Coincidentally I was at metro with my BF today hahaha.

    I asked my BF that before some time ago, and he said "Well, they blow them up to 10:1 so it's really hard to NOT see it, even if you try! I mean, ads are suppose to make you look at them aren't they?"

    I said "Well, that's true, HHAAHA"
  • tere_lai
    edited February 2008
    EXACTLY...

    Well, all i have left to say is...

    Boys will be boys, and girls will be girls as well. :)
  • Furia101
    edited February 2008
    IVT;23258 said:
    PMS, that's all
    siuying;23262 said:
    ^ don't blame it on PMS when you aren't even sure of the symptoms..
    ^
    ^
    yea and stop pretending you know everything when youve never had a girlfriend
  • randomuser
    edited February 2008
    with girls when we get pissed off its never for the obvious reason

    im sure she didnt get pissed cause he was looking but more the response he gave to her after

    like he either didnt joke it off, or didnt turn it back to her, im sure he said no i wasnt i swear, or something like that
  • illicit
    edited February 2008
    well how about this response.

    *looks behind again*

    " i swear i saw an old classmate of mine, the only reason i mention him is because the guy is a freaking joke, two years ago at camp he....etc"


    ?
  • Broken Lizard
    edited February 2008
    they weren't gross huge, lol
  • nicole
    edited February 2008
    Pretty insecure if you ask me!
    If my hypothetical boyfriend was looking at models/advertisements... so be it. It only crosses the line if they're constantly staring at other girls in the flesh. Fortunately, I've never had to deal with that -- but when I'm walking down the street and men who are with their girlfriend/wife takes a longer-than-normal look, that kind of thing bothers me. Especially when they're holding a child, or if they're with their kids.
  • vonnie
    edited February 2008
    At work (reception) I get all the mail right? So I was sorting through it and then I found a Sports Illustrated magazine! haha, it was suppose to be to the old tenants (they were an advertising agency), so I took it home. When my BF came over I took and out and said "I thought you might like this".

    He takes and said "Are you serious?"
    I go "Well if you don't want it..." and put my hand out to take it back
    And haha, he says "Hey hey! I'm not complaining!" and stuffs it in his bag
  • imelting
    edited February 2008
    dont let her walk all over u buddy
  • 中国&#30
    edited February 2008
    imelting;23306 said:
    dont let her walk all over u buddy
    Agreed, and if she becomes insecure when a similar situation happens again... don't go apologizing for 20 minutes to explain a miniscule glance. If she is important to you than discuss, rationalize and correct. If not, well...... boys will be boys....
  • IVTIVT
    edited February 2008
    Furia101;23295 said:
    ^
    ^
    yea and stop pretending you know everything when youve never had a girlfriend
    um actually the symptoms of PMS have been described to me in some detail before. So yea I think I do know something on the subject.
  • Morro
    edited February 2008
    PMS is a myth! Don't let the evil vaginocracy lie to you in this way! Don't let them excuse crazy-ass behaviour on the grounds of PSM'ing! Rise up, brothers! Rise up to FREEDOM!!

  • randomuser
    edited February 2008
    Again i doubt its PMS

    A tip for guys, when girls get easily pissed off its cause theyre testing you, or its a cause unrelated to what you interpret it to be.

    Her saying hes looking at the poster could really be, you dont look at me like you used to anymore, or you dont spend enough time with me, or im not sure you really care about me

    I think PMS is the only time i wish guys wouldnt talk, and just shut up and go watch their sports
  • siuying
    edited February 2008
    randomuser;23328 said:
    Again i doubt its PMS

    A tip for guys, when girls get easily pissed off its cause theyre testing you, or its a cause unrelated to what you interpret it to be.

    Her saying hes looking at the poster could really be, you dont look at me like you used to anymore, or you dont spend enough time with me, or im not sure you really care about me

    I think PMS is the only time i wish guys wouldnt talk, and just shut up and go watch their sports
    i agree.. i just hate it when guys blame all on PMS when girls fly off the handle.. that's just like girls stereotyping guys being horny/talk dirty because of their male hormones.. it's somewhat dogmatic to say so for both sexes..

    and for the record.. not every female experiences PMS.. so there you go.. something you probably didn't know when you commented..
  • getoveryourself
    edited February 2008
    randomuser;23328 said:
    Again i doubt its PMS

    A tip for guys, when girls get easily pissed off its cause theyre testing you, or its a cause unrelated to what you interpret it to be.

    Her saying hes looking at the poster could really be, you dont look at me like you used to anymore, or you dont spend enough time with me, or im not sure you really care about me
    Don't you LOVE how this is now becoming the norm for many relationships?
    [/Sarcasm]

    Why, WHY do women absolutely need to act this way when... oh wait, there are no reasons.. besides total insecurity

    To the OP, bring your ladyfriend aside to the cafe one day when you two are free and tell her she falsely accused you of "looking at the pretty ladies in the picture" and if there was something else on her mind, to bring it up in a mature adult conversation and not to start firing RANDOM BITCH LASERS every now and then.
  • randomuser
    edited February 2008
    if you understand anything about romanticism it kind of spoils it when you have to tell the person whats wrong and they cant figure it out themselves. sure it may be easier or more practical to just tell a guy what hes doing wrong, but sometimes a girl would like a guy to just figure it out

    when they cant figure it out by themselves and we have to tell them it just takes something away from the relationship
    and in the larger picture it says this person just doesnt understand me after how long weve been together

    theres two sides to each coin, im not saying i like to fire 'random bitch lasers' but i know where its coming from
  • Master Of Illusion
    edited February 2008
    Sense and LeSensability, use common sense and just tell her you are looking at the poster and wish that she was like her to stem the argument. Then when she is not looking broadside her with a "Let's break up, Honey!" and say it was because of the poster. Afterwhich, either you will not have a GF or both of you will have great makeup sex. Either way you win. Then if you breakup, then you will have the opportunity to find the someone who looks like the model in the poster. If you end up with her then you have done the right thing again. If not, you now have the opportunity to find someone with a higher self-esteem and is more mature.

    Cheers.

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