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advice again

edited September 2007 in General
so we're about 8 months now and i duno, starting about 2 weeks ago she is always pissed off at me, overreacts about the smallest things. I drive her to school, which is a good 30 minute drive, she just slams the door, doesnt say bye or thank you, nothing. She tells me to **** off too sometimes, hung up on me 2 days in a row, which she has never done.
I haven't started acting different or anything, im the same usual self.

Just makes me want to spend less time with her, we see each other everyday and i usually stay at her place 6 nights a week.
Is this a normal thing that usually occurs after so much time or do I ask her what is up? Bored of me?
Stress maybe from school? First semester back since high school, took a 2 year break.

Should i just take a few days away from her and see if she realizes what shes doing?

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  • edited September 2007
    You should definitely sit down with her and have a good talk or else its not going to work anyways. Tell her how you feel and that you don't feel appreciated for the things you do for her etc etc. Then ask her for her point of view.. this way you guys aren't caught up in a I'm right your wrong conversation.
  • edited September 2007
    Shes prolly just going through something and is taking it out on you because she sees you all the time. She might not realise that shes doing it really. But just talk to her and tell her how you feel and that the way she is treating you is really disrespectful, you dont feel appreciated, etc.

    More than likely, shes prolly just stressed about something, but just talk to her about it.
  • edited September 2007
    Aye, bring it up with her. If you insists that nothing is wrong, she's either A) lying, which isn't good, or B) Telling the truth, which means she's just fed up with you.

    Either way, if she doesn't improve or open up about it within a couple more weeks, I would (and this is just me) kick her to the curb.

    But do make sure that you're not doing something that's pissing her off.
  • edited September 2007
    i wont put up with shit like that, take some action as suggested above

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