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Where to go to meet girls

chinese canadian
edited August 2007 in General
Hello.

I am 19 years old; and I am looking for a girlfriend.

Thing is, I don't know where to look. Some help please?

I don't go clubbing or go to bars etc because it's not my thing.

Any help is appreciated.

Comments

  • Mike^
    edited August 2007
    lol awesome thread --> ummm seek girls in your tutorial classes and offer your help to them =P
    then maybe something will click but i can't guarantee anything...
  • Morro
    edited August 2007
    Aye, school. And don't just look for tail: if your goal is to find a girl for a relationship, or even just to get laid, you should be exactly as happy with a platonic female freind as with a romantic one. Why? Because girls know more girls than you do. :p The surest way to meet lots of chicks is to have a few female friends. Chicks love setting up their guy friends, and they'll be really, wierdly ruthless about it, too. "Cindy just got dumped and she's vulnerable! GO GO GO!" :p
  • noname
    edited August 2007
    craigslist?

    On the other hand, school and work are easy places to meet girls.
  • toast
    edited August 2007
    lmfao, you are so straight forward
  • baby e
    edited August 2007
    lol, you wouldnt find a girl at a club anyway....clubs are not the place to find a girlfriend.

    Look at school, work, the gym....maybe join a class or something.

    But really, in all seriousness, you cant really just FIND a girl. It just sort of happens. She'll find you, and when you least expect it too.

    Dont stress out about it and dont be desperate about it. Just wait for moment and it will come to you, as lame as that sounds.
  • gawdawaful
    edited August 2007
    HEY YOU, BE MY GIRLFRIEND


    I'll let you know when I get one so you can start trying too.
  • Kevin M.Kevin M.
    edited August 2007
    Work on developing your personality and the girls will come

    Morro also had a good point
  • illicit
    edited August 2007
    http://vancouver.craigslist.org/search/ers/?query=w4m

    but on a serious note, looking for one ( being desperate ) will not help as girls tend to sense desperateness (from what i've heard)
  • IVTIVT
    edited August 2007
    illicit;15208 said:
    http://vancouver.craigslist.org/search/ers/?query=w4m

    but on a serious note, looking for one ( being desperate ) will not help as girls tend to sense desperateness (from what i've heard)
    HAHA online hooker advertising. That's gold.

    As for the original post:

    I don't know much about girls but...

    I'm guessing that the best girls and relationships are the ones you don't "look" for. Eg. if you go to the link posted above, you will "find" a gold-digging slut who earns $$$ for sex and I'm sure that is not what you want. (this is a very extreme example). On the other hand, you might randomly run into a beautiful girl at the library and love her for the rest of your life (another extreme example)

    point is: don't "look" for anyone anywhere. Just live life, man.

    cheers
  • Magnificent_BastardMagnificent_Bastard
    edited August 2007
    You could theoretically meet girls anywhere you go. It's getting them to like you that's the hard part.
  • Morro
    edited August 2007
    OK, I was browsing through that Craigslist link (hey, I was curious :P) and came upon this hilarious ad:
    what a coward!....i mean really....you have turned into a little puddle of a man haven't you?.....everybody knows....that's right....it's not the big secret you think it is!......that's why they all stare at you...they ar e laughing at you.....not with you...show some friggin' bal*s!....deal with things!...it's been ruining your life for as long as you can remember!.....are you ready to try and fix it now?!

    im sure you are aware that millions of healthy canadian males live with the horror, grief and pain caused from S*ERM RETENTION HEADACHE DISORDER (commonly referred to as SRHD).....are you one of those afflicted?....is getting through each day a challange?..........are you feeling anxious and depressed?....do you feel shame and desperation?......a sense of hopelesness?..........are you living in denial?........if this ad sounds all to familiar, i insist that you must read on!!!......this could be the day your life changes!!......now there is hope.....groundbreaking treatment for your affliction is just a stones throw away!

    my name is vanessa kelly............SRHD research is my passion.... i have my phd of SRHD...it is my mission to rid humanity from this ugly disease..... stop living your life in shame!!!......stand up and be counted....... say no more!!...let me be the first to congatulate you for taking the time to read this..........you have taken the first step in the road to recovery from SRHD!!!

    the only useful therapy for SRHD is an intense eja#ulation........and lots of them!!..........that is why i developed the the "FREQUENT FUC#ER PROGRAM PROGRAM" ....or as it is more commonly known....the "FFP"....the "FFP" is practiced at my clinic in downtown vancouver.......please, know that there is no permanent cure for SRHD.....but don't despair!!!!.....the "FFP" will keep the disease under control until your next outbreak!....i must warn you that several of my patients have been in therapy for years!!!

    my name is vanessa kelly phd of SRHD.....i am also the founder of the "Sp*rm Retention Headache disorder clinic".........and i am inviting you to spend a one hr session with me where i will give you an introductory demonstration of the "FREQUENT F#CKER PROGRAM"....can you imagine a more intimate act?....without a doubt it is the greatest show of respect a woman gives to a real man........especially a man that is tortured with the everyday horror of SRHD.......

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    Man, if I was ever going to go to a prostitute, THIS would be her. I love a good sense of humor. LOL.
  • Smiles
    edited August 2007
    Just be yourself, be socialable & don't stress about it- just enjoy life, and girls will come.
  • siuying
    edited August 2007
    rofl @ morro's post.. gotta love it.. tfs.. =)
  • da_prodigy
    edited August 2007
    if you're really just looking for a girlfriend, then try www.plentyoffish.com

    LOTS of chicks

    but if your jus keepin it real, then grow, learn and make friends nothing more to say
  • Sarahvma
    edited August 2007
    Once again: if she's into you, it doesn't much matter where you try to pick her up (unless she's in the middle of a term paper. lol.)

    That said, it all really depends on the kind of girl you want to date. So... what kind of girl do you want to date, and we can go from there.

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