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Blonde girl with ring....

中国&#30
edited July 2007 in General
Okay, I couldn't stop thinking about this so here it goes.... When I was working out on weights last week, a blonde girl was intermittenly working out close to me. In between sets I noticed she had a ring with a diamond on her left ring finger. As I understand it, it is probably a promise from her b/f. I took the hint that she wanted me to talk to her. I didn't but instead smiled at her which of course she smiled back. This is really bugging me because she has a promise ring and I find it inappropriate to make that move. She was very attractive and I would have helped with her workout but ethical reasoning intervened. I wished she had made the first move but I guess not. She goes to the gym at certain times as I do and I'll most likely see her again. What to do???

This really sucks...

Comments

  • Kevin M.Kevin M.
    edited July 2007
    It might not be a promise ring, or you could be reading way too much into it. Sure she smiled, but does that necessarily mean she wants more? Either way, there's only one way to find out...and P.S. theres nothing wrong with being friends ;)
  • Morro
    edited July 2007
    Was it on the ring finger?

    Girls need to just strip all that shit off if they're on the troll. In fact, lose the anklets too. I might get confused.

    In fact, just lose the panties. Those look kinda like rings. :)
  • baby e
    edited July 2007
    A diamond on her left ring finger? I doubt thats a promise ring....shes married. If shes flirting with you, thats bad for her to do so. But maybe she wants nothing more than someone to help her with weights. Keep in mind that shes married tho and that you prolly shouldnt do anything.
  • AndrewTheGambler
    edited July 2007
    dude, she sat close to you in the gym AND smiled back, she totally wants to fuck you! go for it.
  • Kevin M.Kevin M.
    edited July 2007
    lol straight up...but id still go for it
  • toast
    edited July 2007
    just remember, hit it hard

    HIT IT RIGHT!:teeth:
  • Smiles
    edited July 2007
    Just keep it on a friendly basis right now. Just talk to her, ask how she is doing, if she had a good workout, etc. Don't make a big deal of it. See how she reacts and progress from there. Try not to overanalyze things because that always fucks you up. If she has a boyfriend, she will mention him, unless she is a skant (ie. going to the beach this weekend? yah, i'll probaby go with my boyfriend).
  • 中国&#30
    edited July 2007
    I saw her again today. I was on the treadmill while she was on the elliptical wheel a bit later. When I went down the stairs to do weights, I gave a nodd and a smile. She smiled back. That was about it. She is freakin hot but it's time to move on.
  • Steven
    edited July 2007
    Just get a conversation going and see where it goes. Nothing wrong talking to people.
  • siuying
    edited July 2007
    wouldn't that be a bit too presumptuous on your part? a ring is merely a ring.. and although generally speaking... a ring on a female's left ring finger means she's married.. who says an unmarried woman can't wear a ring on her left ring finger? and who's gonna stop her from wearing a diamond at that? i agree with what most people said on this thread.. striking up a friendly conversation wouldn't hurt.. even if she turns out to be married.. you might just find the answer to your question..

    toodles~

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