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A dilemma

El_Cambumbo
edited June 2007 in General
I knew this girl from highschool, I used to like her a lot, but due to circumstances, I never ended up with her. She's in SFU and I still see her once in a while. In the past few days, I've been having these sex dreams about her. I've had sex dreams before, but this is totally different, It happened more than once, and I actually remember all the details. The dreams also get more and more explicit. What the hell is going on? Maybe this is a sign of some sort? This shit is kinda freaking me out. :confused:

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  • Malakaiii
    edited June 2007
    When consciousness is away, the brain will play? :wink:

    Pretty much everyone has sex dreams. And what goes on inside your head can't hurt anyone, so even if they are explicit, it's not a big deal. Maybe just enjoy them?

    I was going to say that you should ask the girl out, but it might be awkward now that you've seen her naked!
  • Magnificent_BastardMagnificent_Bastard
    edited June 2007
    What's the worst that could happen if you ask her out? She might say "In your dreams!" Boy would she be right....

    Was she any good?
  • toast
    edited June 2007
    "if you want to bang, first you gonna hang"
  • Kevin M.Kevin M.
    edited June 2007
    I had the same problem...in high school

    I think it's called a wet dream lol
  • Insatiable
    edited June 2007
    Let me try to understand . . . . . exactly where is this dilemma??

    As for your dreams, I wouldn't worry about them too much. And I guess perhaps talking to her won't hurt--just take the plunge my friend :thumbs_up:
  • imelting
    edited June 2007
    Magnificent_Bastard;13462 said:
    What's the worst that could happen if you ask her out? She might say "In your dreams!" Boy would she be right....

    Was she any good?
    lol, would be a trippy dream to hav bad sex
  • El_Cambumbo
    edited June 2007
    This is not a normal sex dream, because it occurs few days in a row, and it gets more explicit each time. I think I should go see one of those fortune tellers that analyzes dreams.
  • Malakaiii
    edited June 2007
    If you're worried that your brain is doing something not normal, you'd be better off seeing a counsellor than a fortune teller...

    Either way, dreams like that are nothing to be worried about!
  • toast
    edited June 2007
    i wish i get sex dreams....
  • gawdawaful
    edited June 2007
    if I was you, I'd sleep lots.
  • baby e
    edited June 2007
    Lol, maybe its a sign that you should ask her out. Just do it, who cares if she says no....at least you know that you tried and then you wont be wondering, "what if".
  • El_Cambumbo
    edited June 2007
    I think it's a sign too, but the thing is that she knows me well and reads me like a book. I feel uncomfortable about asking out people that knows all my shit.
  • 中国&#30
    edited June 2007
    If she knows all your shit, then does she know about those dreams you are having of her? My guess is, "not yet". I'd say tell her about your dreams and see what happens. Hey, you've known her since highschool so, "just do it".
  • Malakaiii
    edited June 2007
    Yeah, that would be some bad advice.

    Telling someone you are too nervous to even ask out that you are having explicit sex dreams about them is one of those bad ideas...
  • 中国&#30
    edited June 2007
    Malakaiii;13682 said:
    Yeah, that would be some bad advice.

    Telling someone you are too nervous to even ask out that you are having explicit sex dreams about them is one of those bad ideas...
    Are you saying I am giving bad advice? As one poster on this forum put it, "if you want to bang, first you gonna hang". Now if they are similarly saying what I am saying, how can that be bad advice?
  • Malakaiii
    edited June 2007
    If he tells the chick he's having sex dreams about her, she's going to be freaked out and never talk to him again.

    If your advice is aimed at preventing him from having a relationship with this girl, then it's great advice!
  • 中国&#30
    edited June 2007
    Malakaiii;13697 said:
    If he tells the chick he's having sex dreams about her, she's going to be freaked out and never talk to him again.

    If your advice is aimed at preventing him from having a relationship with this girl, then it's great advice!
    How do you know that she is going to freak out? You are not this chick. She might interpret this as his first move and actually accept. In either case, both of us do not know. They've been friends since highschool. She reads him like a book and she knows only the shit he feels she has to know. I think they will still talk even if he tell hers. She could even consider his dreams as a joke. hahaha....
  • Malakaiii
    edited June 2007
    Sure.
  • El_Cambumbo
    edited June 2007
    OK, I have made up my mind. I will ask her to hang out for a bit just to see what it's gonna be like, and if we ended up having sex, then I'll tell her about the dreams.
  • Morro
    edited June 2007
    El_Cambumbo;13789 said:
    OK, I have made up my mind. I will ask her to hang out for a bit just to see what it's gonna be like, and if we ended up having sex, then I'll tell her about the dreams.
    I'm not sure why, but the matter-of-fact way you've jumped from worrying about talking to her, to planning for post-coital conversation made me laugh REALLY loud. Good thing I'm not in the library.

    Not that I'm discouraging you. Go forth and hit it with the fist of an angry god!
  • El_Cambumbo
    edited June 2007
    Well, I'm reluctant to ask her out not because I'm nervous about talking to her. It's the fact that she knows all my shit, she knows that used to do drugs and participate in illegal activities. I'm not comfortable dating someone who knows all my shit, because those stuff can be used against me in the future.
  • toast
    edited June 2007
    then don't date her then
  • Broken Lizard
    edited June 2007
    meh what kind of person would bring up stuff from the past that didn't even affect them at all
    Ive done a shitload of drugs, does my girlfriend know? Yes.
    it's never brought up.
    She has stuff from the past i don't agree with, would i use it against her?
    god no.
  • El_Cambumbo
    edited June 2007
    Well, I asked her to get together a few days ago, and now she's giving me an attitude. At first I sent her a message on facebook and she didn't reply back. So then a few days later I talked to her face to face and ask whether she wants to hang out or not, and she mumbled some shit and walked off, and I was like fuck it, I don't have time to deal with that shit. So I guess I won't be telling her anything after all. :D
  • Broken Lizard
    edited June 2007
    yeah i can't stand that shit, lol. Pisses me off so much I just don't give a shit anymore, haha.

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