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i have the right to be mad do i not?!
so my drunk friend (i assume he was drunk) was texting her stuff about me (been going out for 3 weeks, known her for about 7 weeks, known my friend for about 5 years, hes an idiot when hes drunk), saying i had 2 other girlfriends, and that I've done some 'evil' things in the past she would not want to know about and that i don't appreciate her and such. so she calls me all pissed off, i tell her its not true and she doesn't believe me, so i just hang up.
so she texts me saying sorry and such and ive just ignored her cuz yeah im kinda pissed that she would believe someone she's met only twice and hardly knows over me............ i duno, im kinda clueless on relationship.... any tips?
so she texts me saying sorry and such and ive just ignored her cuz yeah im kinda pissed that she would believe someone she's met only twice and hardly knows over me............ i duno, im kinda clueless on relationship.... any tips?
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Of course she's going to be mad. She thought your friend may be giving her some insider information, but instead of acting completely insane, she actually called you to see what you had to say for yourself. I think it makes a lot of sense that she wanted to verify if it was true!
The only person you need to be mad at is your friend. First, why is he texting your gf at all? And second, friends don't do that shit to each other.
Don't blame the girl, she just got caught up in whatever shit your friend was pulling. Talk to your friend, then call her up and tell her that you've spoken to him and he's an idiot. If she still believes him and not you, THEN you have a problem. But at least give her a chance to believe the truth.
gah i duno, im pretty pissed.
She's obviously come to her senses after she didn't believe you on the phone, and I think it's worth a second chance...