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In love but there exists a problem...

Johannes
edited February 2009 in General
Ok...so, I have this problem, there's this girl I think I'm really in love with. We get along fine and chat all the time but the thing is...she's Asian, Chinese to be exact. I'm Caucasian. Well, you see the problem...we're of totally different ethnics but I'm still in love with her. I have no idea what to do , I like her but...it's like Romeo and Juliet, even though I love her, our differences keep us apart. I just can't fall in love with her but I have...what do I do?
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  • schmoey
    edited February 2009
    *cough case of Yellow Fever once again* haha

    I don't quite see your problem. Ethnicity shouldn't have any direct effect on your relationship (unless you have to face her crazy Chinese parents that shun you because you don't speak Chinese :P).

    Is she into you too?
  • randomuser
    edited February 2009
    I'm guessing this thread is a joke, since a lot of asian girls don't have a problem with white guys.
  • vonnie
    edited February 2009
    If she goes out with you, she's going to be disowned.
  • online predatoronline predator
    edited February 2009
    randomuser;47263 said:
    I'm guessing this thread is a joke, since a lot of asian girls don't have a problem with white guys.
    You oughta check out that apology to vonnie thread. Their first posts are quite an act.
  • IVTIVT
    edited February 2009
    Johannes;47257 said:
    Ok...so, I have this problem, there's this girl I think I'm really in love with. We get along fine and chat all the time but the thing is...she's Asian, Chinese to be exact. I'm Caucasian. Well, you see the problem...we're of totally different ethnics but I'm still in love with her. I have no idea what to do , I like her but...it's like Romeo and Juliet, even though I love her, our differences keep us apart. I just can't fall in love with her but I have...what do I do?
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  • hikin
    edited February 2009
    vonnie;47266 said:
    If she goes out with you, she's going to be disowned.
    not only will she be disowned her gangster brothers will come chop ur legs off :D
  • imelting
    edited February 2009
    Johannes;47257 said:
    our differences keep us apart
    u gotta be more specific than that

    u really havent told us anything
  • Student0667
    edited February 2009
    You lucky bastard. Being a white guy is a HUGE advantage in dating Chinese, in fact ALL ASIAN, girls. Don't worry, she will be ALL OVER YOU. In fact, I could not foresee any possible problem with your relationship. If given a choice between an Asian and a White guy, most Asian girls will pick a White guy. The only possible problem I can see is lanuage barrier between you and probably her grandparents. Don't worry, SFU offers Chinese lanuage courses.
    vonnie;47266 said:
    If she goes out with you, she's going to be disowned.
    Or become the crown jewel of the family. "My daughter so great. She is studying in SFU and dating white boy. White boy so nice!"

    I can't believe this is my 1300 post...
  • IVTIVT
    edited February 2009
    Student0667;47284 said:
    Don't worry, she will be ALL OVER YOU.
    in more than one way. this is so true
  • hikin
    edited February 2009
    Student0667;47284 said:
    If given a choice between an Asian and a White guy, most Asian girls will pick a White guy.
    what facts do you have to justify this? most asian girls i know date asian guys. i only know a few whiteguy asian girl relationships.
    Student0667;47284 said:

    Or become the crown jewel of the family. "My daughter so great. She is studying in SFU and dating white boy. White boy so nice!"
    this is total shit.
  • Katt
    edited February 2009
    Ok, quick question do Asian guys go for non-Asian girls? I don't see Asian guys with girls of other ethnicity as often as Asian girls with white guys.
  • buflibufli
    edited February 2009
    i know a few azn guys who date white girls, mind u these are rich as fuck azn guys lol so i dono if i wanna make the assumption the chicks are gold diggers

    but meh who cares, i dont see what the big deal is about race
  • vonnie
    edited February 2009
    i_like_hiking;47291 said:
    what facts do you have to justify this? most asian girls i know date asian guys. i only know a few whiteguy asian girl relationships.
    Yup.
    i_like_hiking;47291 said:

    this is total shit.
    Yup.
  • vonnie
    edited February 2009
    Katt;47293 said:
    Ok, quick question do Asian guys go for non-Asian girls? I don't see Asian guys with girls of other ethnicity as often as Asian girls with white guys.
    Most Asian guys like small petite little cute Asian girls.
    Not many White girls are of this category.
  • hikin
    edited February 2009
    Katt;47293 said:
    Ok, quick question do Asian guys go for non-Asian girls? I don't see Asian guys with girls of other ethnicity as often as Asian girls with white guys.
    i know one asian guy with a white girlfriend.
  • DaNoobie
    edited February 2009
    Katt;47293 said:
    Ok, quick question do Asian guys go for non-Asian girls? I don't see Asian guys with girls of other ethnicity as often as Asian girls with white guys.
    Most white girls dont like asian guys
  • xxk1nky
    edited February 2009
    DaNoobie;47307 said:
    Most white girls dont like asian guys
    And some Asian girls, like moi, don't go for Asian guys. Too small.
  • Katt
    edited February 2009
    My particular fancy is towards tall and skinny white guys. I mean, I think I have deviated twice from that particular physical type.

    I just wondered if it just wasn't as common as Asian guys to date non-Asians as vice versa. I think asian guys are cute, like the buff ones, that is.
  • JayDub
    edited February 2009
    If you are a white guy and interested in an Asian girl, just whip it out and you are good to go.
  • lazyGUY
    edited February 2009
    people.....asians are just white people on the other side of the earth
  • randomuser
    edited February 2009
    lazyGUY;47319 said:
    people.....asians are just white people on the other side of the earth
    Close, but no cigar.

    "Asians" were people who lived on a certain area of the earth for a long time, and over time adapted physically to their environment.

    In combination with a lack of interbreeding, similar physical characteristics developed.

    We're all humans now, but some of us retain traits we adapted from geographical isolation. Of course, these areas of the world still exist, but people are no longer living in them necessarily their entire lives, and breeding with those who don't originate from these areas as well.

    Race is a defunct concept, and essentially racist.

    It has valid constructs, only because of genes continue to pass down these traits. It will be valid to a large extent for all of our lives, but all it takes is one person who is "multi-racial" to screw the entire concept up.
  • lazyGUY
    edited February 2009
    oh....................
    it was a joke lol
  • randomuser
    edited February 2009
    How was it a joke?

    Technically at the core you are right, just definitionally it's messy.
  • buflibufli
    edited February 2009
    JayDub;47317 said:
    If you are a white guy and interested in an Asian girl, just whip it out and you are good to go.
    lol
  • lazyGUY
    edited February 2009
    .....sorry?
  • randomuser
    edited February 2009
    ?I'm confused, why are you apologizing?
  • online predatoronline predator
    edited February 2009
    randomuser;47326 said:
    ... just definitionally it's messy.
    First time I realized such a funny word exists dictionarily

    Randomuser, you need to calm down with the corrections or history of everything and all that.
  • Magnificent_BastardMagnificent_Bastard
    edited February 2009
    Fun fact: Asian people come from Asia.

    moreyouknow.jpg
  • Agentbob
    edited February 2009
    Magnificent_Bastard;47337 said:
    Fun fact: Asian people come from Asia.
    Holy shit!? When the hell did this happen??!?
  • Morro
    edited February 2009
    Not true, I knew a Scottish asian man, and he was amazing.

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